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He'll need some alone time to thimk

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2007

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Imagine a bee rn in a hive muttering "the beekeeper is not real because he is not intervening or helping me at all with this disastrous relationship I have with another bee". now imagine that's you talking about the good lord. now imagine a dog with a propeller hat on

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the difference matters:

sex-positive: you want people in general to be able to sexually express themselves freely. this should ideally include asexuality. this is not about you as an individual.

sex-favourable: you want to have sex for whatever reason.

sex-neutral: you don't really have an opinion about freedom of sexual expression. this is about people in general, not you specifically.

sex-indifferent: you don't really care if you personally have sex or not, you could take it or leave it.

sex-negative: you only want people to have a limited sexual expression.

sex-averse: you don't want to participate in sex.

positive/neutral/negative refer to your stance on how sex is treated within society.

favourable/indifferent/averse refer to how you personally feel about participating in sex.

you can be a sex-averse asexual and still be sex-positive.

there's a common misconception that aces, especially sex-averse aces, are all "anti-sex", but some parts of the ace community still hasn't learned the nuance of these terms either. i still see people call sex-favourable aces sex-positive when they mean different things.

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According to society I’m old enough to have a crush on a boy but not old enough to know if I like girls

What a stupid age to be

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trans people are not exempt from having transphobic opinions or ideals. everyone and anyone can have internalized prejudice toward groups they occupy

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I saw someone misgender a nonbinary person and when they were corrected this mf said "I prefer to use she/her on her ❤" I'M SORRY??? HUHH??

So close! You actually don't get to choose someone else's pronouns for them! Hope that helps! 💖💞

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nonqueers: being queer isn't a personality trait!

also nonqueers: *stereotype gay men as creative, lesbians as angry, bi folk as extroverts, trans people as quirky, aces as innocent, aros as distant etc.*

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My gender is whatever pisses off conservatives worse

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We need better queer representation in shows movies and books

We need queer POC

We need people who don't want to label their gender or sexuality

We need trans people who's transition goals aren't to look cis

We need queer people with diverse religions

We need queer people who use pronouns that don't "match" their gender

We need aromantic and asexual characters

We need disabled queer people

We need queer people who use multiple labels for themselves

We need queer people who's entire personality isn't being queer

We need queer people who aren't just there because of romance

We need real and diverse queer people in the media

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hey you!

yea you!!

your gender’s looking great today!!

whatever you identify as

however you prefer to present yourself

however you look

it looks great on you!!!!

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I do have a good bit of fun custom painting retrograde sprites. Didn't have ideas to kitbash or customize it beyond a basic Iskander but that's fine.

This is the Iskander of my newest pilot, Carolina "Carrie" Podesva, callsign Smiles. I call it "Party Bus", and my grenades are filled with glitter, confetti, and DEATH.

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your suffering isn't noble, take that ibuprofen, take that break, etc. not me though my suffering is noble

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i think i would enjoy grazing. were i a cow ...