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so like I'm like really fucked where i iuhh dont have rent like at all. $1,000 iim behind by

and uuuh as u can imagine for somone trans, mentally ill, and me it's terrifying thay i might be homeless, again.

if any.of.yall.can please help that help

i know im asking all lot and im still outta work but I'm trying and god i hate this too

venmo: Redloop

paypal: tropscream

ca$happ: Tropscream

sooo uh yeah haha help

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Void cat but space, with moon for eyes~

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mr beast just cured me from being dead but he hates how i turned out so they didn't even upload the video about it

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omg normal people dni actual PERVERTS and DEPRAVED WEIRDOS with GROSS ABNORMAL EROTIC FIXATIONS only

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all trans women are better than taylor swift!

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channeling this image as I try to not be malnourished constantly while also lusting over chubby girls of all genders

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once i said butch girls who call themselves dudes and boyfriends are cute and i got put on a blocklist for supporting “invalid identities” which is fucking hilarious. cant a guy dyke it up in peace in the privacy of his own home

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The tags on my whiteness post said to me that white people (at least those that are racially aware) and colonized natives perhaps have more in common than most people think. Or at least more than they talk about it in public.

Not that they’re the same. Misogyny and transphobia are not the same, but they are both veins of oppression in a patriarchy. Similar.

In the same way, that empty hollowness white ppl feel where your culture should be is not unlike what I feel as a native, from what I’ve read of your accounts. Learning your ancestors chose whiteness and safety and comfort over culture and identity. That now you have nothing because of the colonization and assimilation your grandparents experienced when they got to the USA. Because of whiteness. Because of the power it has even just as a concept in the US.

We experience these for much different reasons and at least your loss bought you privilege.

… but they aren’t total opposites either. A hollowness where you know rich history used to be? Having culture but feeling a disconnect where you know More used to be? Feeling like you only have scraps of the culture your family used to have? Clinging to what you can get your hands on? Feeling like it’s so detached that it’s not really yours?

I get that and I bet I’m not the only one.

The USA’s habit for white supremacy, racism, and colonization hurt all of us.

And it will benefit all of us to discard the systems those things built. They’re still there and still hurting every one of us.

We can build a future that benefits us all instead as soon as we all start working on that together.

But we can’t do that if some of us refuse to admit the system is what’s hurting us. If we refuse to acknowledge that even with perfect politicians our Systems would still prevent progress because they are built on outdated and white supremacist ideals we’ll just continue to suffer together under those systems instead.

We can’t keep attacking each other just because some of us refuse to look at the ideologies fueling our current reality.

#I feel this massively #I deal with it by focusing more on my queer heritage than anything but still

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a good woman is like a bonfire i.e., aggressive, consumptive, holder of divine light, won't stop burning me, i have to keep feeding her logs,

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You still have to imagine her with Bill Murray's voice btw @spearohero wanted to see my take on transfem garfield for last month's patreon doodle. And so, the funny.

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this is literally my favorite video

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Hi hi hi hi hi bomking my face on you like a small cat. Hello. Hi

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As a bigger trans girl it can be really hard to vibe with "fat trans positivity" sometimes when it feels like so many popular trans narratives, memes and what have you revolve around thin white women. That one tweet that describes the archetypal trans woman as a "lanky girl with a bit of a jaw" is regularly shared almost uncritically, as if to say "yeah, that's right, that's what we all look like!"

I wish there was more than lip service paid to trans women who don't fit the mold, who aren't tall and skinny, who aren't white, etc. These women deserve your love too.

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"Do you really need that disability aid?" is such an unhelpful, useless question.

Ask better questions.

"Would you benefit from using that aid?"

"Would using that aid improve your quality of life?"

"Would that aid reduce the pain you're in?"

"Would it allow you to do more than you currently can unaided?"

Ask better questions, get better answers.

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What are we measuring here, bestie?

#measuring cup of fertility