followers who have had/are looking to get top surgery!!! i highly recommend thinking about scar mobilization. many times a scar after soft tissue surgery will feel "stiff" or "stuck." this is because in scar tissue, the soft tissue layers partially fuse together:
luckily this can be reversed at least partially most of the time through massage. once the wound is completely scarred over, you can begin to gently but firmly massage across the scar with 2-3 fingers in up and down, side to side, and clockwise/counterclockwise circular motions (more repetitions than i'm doing here), you can also gently pull the scar if it's not painful:
start with very light pressure and increase as time goes on. this should never be painful, only sometimes feeling that "tight" feeling. again, the wound must be COMPLETELY scarred over, no scabs whatsoever. but you can start massaging as soon as that happens.
you can do these as often as you like as long as it's not painful, but once or twice a day for maybe 5 minutes is definitely enough
a bottom-tier autistic experience is being told throughout your entire childhood that you are just an overthinker when it comes to social situations and later finding out that your friends did, in fact, hate being around you and tried to communicate that through weird little hints
eddie's death scene is so important to me joker gif you wouldn't get it so the fact that andy muschietti turned it into a 'your mom' joke in the movie when it's really about eddie's self acceptance in his final moments and the clarity in embracing the truth that he's gay and in love with richie and has been for his entire life, even during those 27 years when he didn't know what he was missing, and that doesn't make him dirty or evil and it fills him with a sense of light even as he fades into the darkness and he desperately needs to tell richie about this epiphany before he dies because he's finally ready to accept who he is and who he loves. and all of this is ignored and instead made into a badly acted scene played for a laugh.. kill yourself