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#fun factttt!!! during recording alain couldn’t get mad for the ending part yknow #and he was actually very nice so #f1 tag

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#there’s something called taylor swift femisim for fucks sake #i don’t care about her music and she does a lot to be disliked

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thoughts on "tradwives" as a 19th-century social historian

It's great until it's not.

It's great until he develops an addiction and starts spending all the money on it.

It's great until you realize he's abusive and hid it long enough to get you totally in his power (happened to my great-great-aunt Irene).

It's great until he gets injured and can't work anymore.

It's great until he dies and your options are "learn a marketable skill fast" or "marry the first eligible man you can find."

It's great until he wants child #7 and your body just can't take another pregnancy, but you can't leave or risk desertion because he's your meal ticket.

It's great until he tries to make you run a brothel as a get-rich-quick scheme and deserts you when you refuse, leaving your sisters to desperately fundraise so your house doesn't get foreclosed on (happened to my great-great-aunt Mamie).

It's great until you want to leave but you can't. It's great until you want to do something else with your life but you can't. It's great. Until. It's. Not.

I won't lie to you and say nobody was ever happy that way. Plenty of women have been, and part of feminism is acknowledging that women have the right to choose that sort of life if they want to.

But flinging yourself into it wholeheartedly with no sort of safety net whatsoever, especially in a period where it's EXTREMELY easy for him to leave you- as it should be; no-fault divorce saves lives -is naive at best and dangerous at worst.

Have your own means of support. Keep your own bank account; we fought hard enough to be allowed them. Gods willing, you never need that safety net, but too many women have suffered because they needed it and it wasn't there.

#the thing about anything is that you don’t learn everything about it until so later #like a historical event: you need like 30 years to fully know about it and even then you can find something that will change everything #this tradwifes are an example

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ok lets settle it. which laios is getting the best dick rn

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Faster by George Harrison

Song inspired by Jackie Stewart and Niki Lauda

#f1 tag

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little fella

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#f1 tag

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please look at this photo i just found, omg

#lanpdsjos #gerhard. moustache. baby #f1 tag #what kind of a caption that is oomgg #shkdhdoss

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gilles and baby alain omgg

#gilles is my absolute favorite bc he looks like he has no idea about anything #and yeah he probably don’t #not a single thought in that head…. #AW ALAIN IS THERE <3 #f1 tag

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#alain: oh je god #<- i dont know french #f1 tag

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i just found out tumblr was storing over three GIGABYTES of cookies on my device without me knowing and that's why it's been running so fucking slow recently... incredible. anyways everyone go clear your fucking cookies. don't let this website run a goddamn video game's worth of disc space in the background for no good reason.

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normal people please join they wont stop doing this

here is the link

#where’s the mpreg #f1 tag

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he really is giving Nico here

#he looks like he has five kids and a dead beat husband and two days away from suicide #lmao #he’s so pretty tho #f1 tag #logie

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#f1 tag #james: rat…

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I would be the worst spy of all time because on one hand I overshare like hell, but on the other hand I also have THE shittiest memory so it’s really a lose/lose scenario for everyone involved.

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what you have to understand about dungeon meshi is that the entire conflict basically boils down to "every character is autistic but in ways that clash so catastrophically horribly that everyone thinks everyone else is a nuclear-level threat"

#i like the normal one