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Why do we do this to ourself

Why do we fall in love with the unavailable...are we scared of them loving us back??

Are we scared of love itself??

Are we scared of all the possibilities??

We see them we know that our existence in their lives is of a speck, is of something that just exists..still we give them our most precious thing..we give them our time..we give them so much space in our heads..

Today let’s decide to just take little bit of that time back and ask them to squish up and give us that space back...maybe in time we’ll stop altogether🤞🏻

#unrequitedloves #lovethyself

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Fallacies to avoid when discussing racism and police brutality

Artist: noelle.cress (Instagram)

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dark academic YA + adult books, for the reader who doesn’t enjoy the old classics:

the raven cycle — maggie stiefvater (YA)

welsh kings, magic forests, obsessive research, private schools.

wilder girls — rory power (YA)

lord of the flies retelling, all-girls boarding school, remote island.

six of crows — leigh bardugo (YA)

murder, crime, heists, magic.

truly devious — maureen johnson (YA)

murder mystery, eccentric students, elite boarding school, 1900s

the night circus — erin morgenstern (A)

magical circus, mysterious psychics, mind games, star crossed love.

the diviners — libba bray (YA)

1920s new york city, wlw + mlm rep, ace rep, occult magic, mysterious museums

vicious — v.e. schwab (A)

an experiment gone wrong, blackout poetry, rivals, strange powers

the cruel prince — holly black (YA)

FAERIES, enemies to lovers, political power struggles, another magic forest

station eleven — emily st. john mandel (A)

shakespeare, thespians, post-apocalyptic wasteland

serpent & dove — shelby mahurin (YA)

witches, french backdrop, 1880s, enemies to lovers, WITCHES

feel free to add on!

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Starbucks funded the police in Atlanta so here’s their recipes

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Here are 21 thesis statement ideas to get you started on your next essay!

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thank you, haikyuu. (2012-2020)

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How NOT to study

“I’m going to start studying right after I’ve ______”…you won’t. “Oooh, I’m going to highlight my notes with 49930 different colours to help me retain information” Highlight key words!! “Everyone else has these amazing, expensive notebooks, pens and Macbooks. Maybe I need them too to be a good student.” Hint: You don’t “There more I manage to cover during this hour, the more I’ll learn” Remember: Quality NOT quantity “Revision is so unnecessary. I have a good memory and I know I’m going to remember this on the test I have in 2 months”… sorry to break this to you but you probably won’t remember a lot. Go through everything you’ve covered during the last week on the weekend. “Oh boy, I’m so tired. I think I’ll just read this chapter in bed.” Hint: You’ll fall asleep “Okay so I need to study this and this much to get a better grade than _____“ wth nonono. Study for yourself?? “Omg, I didn’t study today. I’m such a failure” You don’t have to study every day. You shouldn’t study every day!! Have at least one day a week when you do nothing school related, your brain needs the rest!   “I didn’t get a ____ in the test. I must be dumb idiot and a complete failure who won’t accomplish anything in life” One grade doesn’t affect your life one bit. “I must study law, medicine or any other STEM subject to be considered a real hardworking student” Hint: Humanities and other subjects are just as hard, okay? “My teacher is bad and that’s why I won’t ever learn this” Take your computer, open google, google the stuff you don’t get. Was it so hard? Don’t blame your teacher for not understanding something. They’re humans and not perfect. Be ambitious and try to teach yourself with the help of your friends, the internet, youtube, library books etc.

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10 Things I Tell Myself When I Don’t Want To Study

1. You are very lucky and privileged to have access to almost unlimited knowledge and you should appreciate that.

2. Be one of those rare people who step over their insecurities and succeed.

3. You will know what to do as soon as you start. Ideas never appear from inactivity.

4. Make yourself proud.

5. It’s not supposed to be easy. Nothing good ever is.

6. One hour every day doesn’t feel much but its 365 hours a year. You can’t not succeed after so much work.

7. If you give up now, you’ll have to return to this later anyway but from the very beginning.

8. Maybe you think you can never find something to use your skills and mindset for. But if you continue investing in what matters to you, it will find its way out there.

9. Every moment you thought your fears would suppress you has become the time you made it. 

10. Make yourself proud.

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little things i’ve learned:

one: pay attention to the music you’re relating to. sometimes it’s a clear indicator that something is wrong. other times, it’s an indicator that something is very, very right. when the latter happens, pay extra close attention.

two: true control is subtle, not obsessive. you may not even know that you have it when you do. people who are in control do not question it. they just are.

three: never pass up the opportunity to stick the tips of your fingers out the window of a moving car. feel the wind carry you to the sound of your favorite songs. this is a reminder that you’re alive.

four: thoughts don’t have to mean anything. you can just let them be there.

five: notice when you’re struggling and allow yourself some leeway when you do. however, learn the difference between giving yourself leeway and enabling your struggle. 

six: you cannot build self-love from a foundation of self-hatred. first, work toward self-acceptance. love will follow.

seven: do not love others simply because they love you back. do not expend your love on people who won’t love you back. 

eight: don’t forget to stop and look around. take a moment a day to stop doing and just be. the mindfulness hype isn’t overrated. there’s a reason for it.

nine: setting limits and saying no will not end any relationship worth keeping. 

ten: friendships built on moments of competitive misery are not healthy. if you find that you’re having the urge to constantly showcase your misery around someone, take that as a red flag. sadness is not a competition you want to win.

eleven: recovery is not about being happy. some days you will feel bored and flat. but these days are still better than those you built around destroying yourself. these days are still victories. recovery is about being alive.

twelve: when you’ve built an identity around being sad, the concept of happiness may scare you. giving that sadness up will strip you of most everything and leave you feeling empty. embrace this emptiness and fill it up with exploration. you’ll find that it’s worth it.

thirteen: you will not come out of your coldest days the same as you were going into them. this is not a bad thing. someday, you’ll be warm enough to feel the sun on your face again.

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hello everyone, i’m back with another masterpost! this time it will be focusing on self care and your health, and how to be the best version of yourself. i do not condone eating disorders– this list is simply meant to help you make the best of a bad situation, and stay healthy (as well as offer you some beauty products that are affordable). thanks for supporting my blog! ask me anything or request a post here. enjoy the masterpost! ♥

what vitamins should you be taking?

the healthy weight for your height and age group

bmi calculators [ 1 | 2 | 3 ]

bmr/caloric needs calculator

why you need protein

why you shouldn’t drink diet soda

self care after binging and purging [ 1 | 2 ]

why you should never start purging

benefits of including probiotics in your diet

warning signs to watch out for when fasting

what does it mean when i stop getting my period? [ 1 | 2 ]

medical complications of eating disorders and symptoms [ 1 | 2 | 3 ]

how many calories does it take to gain weight?

physical signs of stress

why you should be drinking tea

low calorie sources of protein

what to do when you feel like purging

free workout videos with calorie counts

PRODUCTS:

wide selections of multivitamins [ 1 | 2 ]

multivitamin for teens

multivitamin for petite women

vitamin for a fast metabolism

calcium supplement

iron supplement

probiotic supplement

melatonin supplement for sleep

fiberone

healthychoice meals

the best apps for health and fitness

hot showers vs cold showers for your hair

hair hacks every girl should know

caring for different types of hair

how to make your hair grow faster [ 1 | 2 ]

caring for long hair

things to know before getting a perm

how an eating disorder damages your hair and how to reverse the damage

why anorexia causes hair loss

PRODUCTS:

keratindose spray to prevent breakage and split ends

repair products for damaged hair

essential oils [ 1 | 2 ]

shea butter conditioning hair repair cream

natural deep conditioner

herbal essences coconut conditioner

moisturizing oil to make your hair grow

showers and your skin

what the different locations of acne mean

how to fix dry skin [ 1 | 2 ]

how to deal with dry skin patches

the different types of skin and how to care for them

your diet and how it relates to your skin

things you can do to prevent acne

how to get rid of acne fast [ 1 | 2 ]

skin care hacks

what to eat for good skin

why drinking water is good for your skin

skin signs in anorexia sufferers

how to prevent acne scars before they form

PRODUCTS:

cetaphil facial cleanser for sensitive skin

vaseline intensive care products

schaf facial cleanser

overnight acne patches

sephora overnight masks collection

garnier cleansing water

blackhead peeling scrub

neutrogena hydro boost

exfoliating mask

simple foaming facial cleanser

blackhead removing nose strips

eucarin daily protection face lotion

steps to get a good night’s sleep [ 1 | 2 ]

how to meditate [ 1 | 2 ]

the skinny girl’s cravings masterlist

keeping your nails looking healthy

chapped lips? no problem

how to hide your dark eye circles with makeup [ 1 | 2 ]

how to achieve beautiful legs

for flawless bare legs

what to expect from eating disorder recovery [ 1 | 2 ]

which type of recovery is right for you? (inpatient, outpatient, partial, or residential)

how to tell your parents you have an eating disorder

what to do if you think you have an eating disorder

causes and cures for insomnia

metabolism boosters [ 1 | 2 ]

the anti-binge checklist

how to overcome a weight loss plateau

PRODUCTS:

softening cuticle oil for brittle nails

hair, skin & nails vitamin

vora fasting app

fabulous app

daylio app

vaseline lip therapy

eyebag repair cream

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“In the case of good books, the point is not to see how many of them you can get through, but rather to see how many can get through to you.”

Mortimer J. Adler

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“Meeting your soul mate is like walking into a house you’ve been in before - you will recognize the furniture, the pictures on the wall,the books on the shelves, the contents of drawers: You could find your way around in the dark if you had to.”

—

Jandy Nelson

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things to do more often

- hide little positivity notes in pockets of bags, pants, or jackets you won’t use for a while

- take (actual) candids of your friends when they’re happy. show them to them later 

- send random snail mail full of goodies to your far away friends

- read for pleasure

- hug your friends and family just because! bonus points if you tell them you love them and/or why– that’s very important to hear once in a while

- add a little cinnamon to your coffee or toast

- use those beauty products you’ve been “saving”

- send anonymous asks of positivity to people on tumblr– who doesn’t love those omg

- collect little day to day things that make you happy and make a little page of positive vibes

- buy flowers for yourself

- journal about your happiest moments. read them when you’re feeling down

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