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#get you a girl who can do both

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i am unreasonably proud and excited about this

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2014 Tumblr wasn’t about whatever Tik Tok thinks it was about. 2014 Tumblr was about overanalyzing Captain America: The Winter Soldier and that one website that let you play Cards Against Humanity online

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Please stop using disabilities you don't have as comparisons.

I saw a video trying to explain that autistic people don't make eye contact because it can be painful for them (good, this is true) and telling them to "just do it anyway" is ridiculous, saying "you wouldn't tell a wheelchair user to "just walk, its better for you" so don't tell autistic people to just make eye contact".

But people do. They do all the time. It's well documented that doctors will withhold their ok for patients to get a wheelchair (which is needed unless you're paying out of pocket, because insurance and most public disability services like the NDIS need proof from a doctor). I've known people who can hardly walk and are having to fight because the doctor still insists it better for them to walk, even if it's painful and sevearly limiting their quality of life.

Then in the comments, someone pointed out that people do say that to wheelchair users (good, this is true) but then continued on by saying "unless you just don't have legs" which is just as bad as the origonal.

I had to fight to get my first wheelchair as a double leg amputee, and every wheelchair since then I've had to justify not wanting the "better option" (prosthetics) to the government so they'll approve me for the funding. Doctors and even strangers too, all want to know why I'm not walking, why I'm not using prosthetics all the time. When I go on trips with my family I'm told to "just walk" so they don't have to pack my wheelchair. at my own graduation from university I was chastised by the organisers for not bringing my prosthetics (because wearing them was exceptionally painful back then and i hadnt worn them in nearly 3 months. I had asked before if this would be ok. they knew) because the venue was accessible but not the part of the venue the graduates were in. On the topic of university they also put my class in the only non-wheelchair accessible room and held meetings i was expected to take part in, in the non-accessible lunch room. When I complained, I was told to just use my legs for a few minutes so I could get into my classes. Being an amputee with no legs didn't shield me from these experiences either, it often made it worse.

I have all 3 of the disabilities mentioned (autistic, wheelchair user, amputee). If you don't have the disability you're using for a comparison, don't use it. Please

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SIMONE ASHLEY promo videos for Bridgerton S2 | S3

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So, now when we know (thanks to Niylah) that Bellamy was reading Ovid’s “Metamorphoses” to Octavia when they were little and one of Ovid’s well known phrases from his other work is “Dum spíro, spéro”, which basically translates as “ While I breath, I hope”, how much do yall wanna bet, that in this moment 

Bellamy was quoting Ovid’s at Clarke and trying to cheer her up in their own nerdy way?

I swear to god them nerding together gonna be the death of me.

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season of the wallflower

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Dear parents

Pretending that your kid isn't disabled and getting mad at them for needing more help and support than your other kids and wanting them to "try harder" and also pretend that THEY aren't disabled by ignoring their OWN needs as well doesn't make them less disabled by the way

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‘I will always do my job.’

Jay Halstead and Hank Voight father-son relationship parallels.

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​FULLY KISSED RIGHT IN FRONT OF THE TONS SALAD

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the 4 stages of realizing you’re in love with your best friend

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the viscount and viscountess bridgerton passing the torch to mr. and mrs. bridgerton!

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i just adore her

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Look, I'm just saying that if SEAL Team really needed another regular character, they could have just got Blackburn back full time* instead of introducing a whole new guy in the last season

*or Mandy. Or, ideally, both

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SEAL Team S06E01 (✚)