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join me in autism world

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egg

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its trans dean tuesday happy trans dean tuesday

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Please reblog im trying to prove something here

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Ok I’m really curious

#cake cone

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oh uh. scuse me. just a lil snail crossing your dash

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Have I told y’all about my husband’s Fork Theory?  If I did already, pretend I didn’t, I’m an old.

So the Spoon Theory is a fundamental metaphor used often in the chronic pain/chronic illness communities to explain to non-spoonies why life is harder for them. It’s super useful and we use that all the time. But it has a corollary.  You know the phrase, “Stick a fork in me, I’m done,” right? Well, Fork Theory is that one has a Fork Limit, that is, you can probably cope okay with one fork stuck in you, maybe two or three, but at some point you will lose your shit if one more fork happens.  A fork could range from being hungry or having to pee to getting a new bill or a new diagnosis of illness. There are lots of different sizes of forks, and volume vs. quantity means that the fork limit is not absolute. I might be able to deal with 20 tiny little escargot fork annoyances, such as a hangnail or slightly suboptimal pants, but not even one “you poked my trigger on purpose because you think it’s fun to see me melt down” pitchfork.

This is super relevant for neurodivergent folk. Like, you might be able to deal with your feet being cold or a tag, but not both. Hubby describes the situation as “It may seem weird that I just get up and leave the conversation to go to the bathroom, but you just dumped a new financial burden on me and I already had to pee, and going to the bathroom is the fork I can get rid of the fastest.”

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XXII. THE IDES

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ideologically i disagree with outside cats but i cannot deny the allure of being able to just meet a little guy anytime anywhere

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1, 8, 9

#9 4 (transgenderism pill) #and i guess 1

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#my mother removed a ring with dental floss and it hurt like all hell

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Found this in the comments of Shaun's latest video on Andrew Tate, in which he talks pretty extensively about how important it is for men to find ways to be confident in their genders without trying to adhere to, or enforce, anyone else's ideas of manhood on anyone.

Highly recommend checking it out.

Anyway. I rarely see folks talk about the positive impact transmascs have on manhood as a whole, and I think it's important to acknowledge and celebrate that.

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all angels are transsexual shirt my beloved

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My name is from a very popularr franchise but its only been guessed three times in the 6 years ive had it :(

you ever hear a trans person's name and you know instantly what media they got it from

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People trying to fear-monger about HRT: "You might be taking HRT for the rest of your life!!!"

Disabled/Chronically ill trans people who are already on lifelong life-saving medication: "....And?"

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transgenderized mutuals lets hold hands