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Stephanie Ziajka

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A loyal subscriber writes:

I feel very deflated, I was doing so well on my fully clothed denial path and then I went went over to the dark side [well a rival, naughtier blog platform]. I know it is a difficult path we take and we all might fall off the wagon once in a while, but I feel terrible. Any advice?

Own the shame of your fall. It reminds you that you belong in fully clothed denial. Now, when the regret is fresh in your mind, it is time to practice what you are best at. Celebrate the fact that you are fully clothed (forever) by doing your thing - your little celebration - to a safe, fully clothed image or three. And take comfort from that respectful release image, knowing that it is reinforcing your conditioning, welcoming you back to the gentle path, the appreciation of the female and the feminine.

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We caught up with our house guinea pig who has kindly endured nearly six weeks of fully clothed denial. We were particularly interested in longer term effects:

Hello, how have you been keeping? I've been good, sticking to your rules religiously.

We're impressed. It seems the phrase house guinea pig has caught the attention of our readership. How do you feel about that? It's just the sort of trick I thought you'd pull on me. I mean I volunteered for this!

But, it does kind of suit you. *blushes*

So, with six weeks under your belt we asked you to have a little celebration thinking about non-fully clothed stimuli. How did that go? Really surprising. I thought this would be like the dam bursting. I tried my favorite bra pics. No dice. I really struggled to stay engaged even with nude images. My mind kept straying back to fully clothed. I actually felt like there was safety in fully clothed denial. Crazy, huh?

To be honest, we weren't sure what would happen. So did you managed to conclude matters? Yeah, I came, imagining a lady friend nude, like she was just stood looking out of the window. It was kind of sweet.

Bless, and after that? I went back on to fully clothed. It's like some female authority figure repeating lightly you've responded so well to training. And I'm quite proud of that. But it's nice to know I am allowed to release to other things.

Yes, about that. We wondered if you'd fancy doing another month on FCD? Oh Jeez, part of me does, part of me doesn't. What if this became permanent?

Would that be the end of the world? We'll leave it entirely up to you.

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Femme Elegance

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We have had a few of you asking about swimwear. The arguments really amount to the fact that women wear swimwear in public, and therefore it is appropriate within the context of fully clothed denial. Nothing could be further from the truth.

Buttercup relates:

I actually *love* swimming. I just hate the semi-nudity of swimsuits. I've come to accept my figure but public swimming brings back major body confidence issues. I'm quite short so my large boobs (I now measure a 38G) and full hips (42") make me look rather plump despite a reasonably well-defined waist. There are literally no swimsuits that properly support my bust, so even walking from changing room to poolside elicits a lewd wobble. The subdued bounce of entering the water makes me very self-conscious. Leaving the pool the wet fabric clings to my heaving assets whilst the rush of cold air does exactly what you might expect. Feeling like a cheap thrill to the voyeuristic male eye, I walk briskly to the changing room with what remaining dignity I can muster.

So, dear reader I'm afraid swimwear will be remaining off the menu for your little celebrations.

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Benefits of Fully Clothed Denial

A loyal subscriber writes:

It's knowing that when a new woman starts at work my conditioning will be there. I will meet her gaze, shake her hand and know that I won't ever pleasure myself to fantasies of her naked body. We will work together, chat, exchange small talk when we pass in the corridor. But I can say that I will never objectify her. What she does, what she says, the silhouette she chooses to share with the world - these are things I can celebrate. And that is thanks to being in fully clothed denial.

A really encouraging tale. Well done and keep up the good work!

Fully Clothed Devotion x

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Dare you try to trace the line of brassiere beneath the shiny lustre of this leather blouse? Can your eyes free themselves from lustful prisons of your own making? And can you meet my gaze, if not as an equal then at least as a supplicant, metaphorically prostrating yourself and seeking absolution? If so, then perhaps my wry smile is encouragement: that whilst you keep being found wanting, still you return for the conditioning you know you need.

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Whether she’s dressed up in a satiny dress and gorgeous fur, or a relaxing in a long soft sweater, this woman is a commanding superior goddess, and is to be worshipped. She owns short, weak betas and she knows it.

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A valued subscriber writes:

Hello! I wanted to ask you for advice

Now that I only look at fully clothed images while doing my 'celebrations', what could be my next thing to condition myself or aspire to? It would be exciting to have something more to do and I think you may have some suggestions.

I still absolutely love your blog, thank you for everything!

What this lovely person has is a case of fetish escalation. You do something, and it feels good, but you want to go a bit further. You hope the endorphin and dopamine hit will be even stronger. This is what our brains do - whether on porn, or cigarettes, alcohol or hard drugs. And it's absolutely not what our blog is about. We're here break that cycle, to smooth everything out, so that your little habit can be safely indulged to entirely respectful imagery.

We love getting your letters, but it's clear many of you crave "the next thing", whatever it might be. And we are not going to be providing that. It's just the Rationed Passion fully clothed show, forever. And really - if you're honest with yourself - you know that's for your own good, don't you?

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With that being said. Practicing FCD has made me hornier for a lot less than I used to. But I won’t let that change how I interact with women on a daily basis. They’re not consenting individuals to my fantasies and desires.

What is your philosophy regarding navigating personal relationships with women in real life? Strive to keep them purely platonic or do you encourage expressing (sexual) interest in a respectful manner? Maybe something inbetween or am I completely missing the point?

Respect, appreciation, kindness, listening, empathising. These are all good things in their own right. They aren't pickup techniques, but part of being a decent human being. And if you do that right, we suspect a warm, full, human relationship with the right person will follow.