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It's The Goat's world, we're just living in it.

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"I currently have a crush and I'm 100% I'm asexual because I have no desire to do it with someone else. The thing about aromanticism for me and why I'm not so sure about it is because well- i have a crush but I guess the lines kinda blur for me. I crave physical affection. I hug, hold hands, etc with my friends but with my crush it's kinda weird? I get the butterflies, or at least I think so? See that's where the lines start to blur for me. This crush in particular is distinctively different than my other crushes. I've had short crushes before that were definitely aesthetic attraction and long term crushes with butterflies and all. This crush, I don't get butterflies, instead I'm comfortable with them and i think that's something that happens when you're comfortable enough with them? I don't really see myself dating anyone yet I crave to date someone. I crave the knowledge that people like me in a romantic way and i crave to date yet I can't seem to see myself dating anyone in particular. I can't call myself an aromantic because i have a crush in which i don't know if it's romantic or not but at the same time aromanticism is a whole spectrum and it really depends on what you view romantic attraction as. Romance is subjective, it depends on the person. If you're comfortable with the aromantic label then go ahead, there's no harm in changing your mind later on in life. It just means you're starting to figure yourself out."

-Tsuko

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its kind of sad that if I, a trans man, decide by my own free will to wear a dress, I have to specifically tell people that I'm not detransitioning. Trans men, boys, mascs, and neutrals can wear feminine shit. Just because we want to be fem doesn't make us suddenly not trans or faking it or whatever the fuck else.

we get to decide how we identify.

not the clothes we wear.

and not you.

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imagine watching Star Wars in theaters in 1977 and pointing at Darth Vader boarding a ship with Stormtroopers and then choking some guy, and exclaiming THAT'S CLEARLY JESUS CHRIST, THAT'S WHY I'M INTO THIS

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I'm really tired of people forgetting nonbinary doesn't just mean having no gender/not understanding gender/not giving a fuck about gender. I have gender, I feel my gender very intensely, I have an intimate understanding of my gender, and I actually do give a fuck about it.

Edit: Having no gender/not understanding gender/not giving a fuck about gender are all valid ways to be nonbinary. They’re just not the only ones. Let’s try not to alienate anyone in the notes please!

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Cis people when you say medical insurance needs to change the way they word their paper work and start using gender neutral language so that trans people stop being denied medical care coverage (they never cared about medical insurance paperwork wording until they needed an excuse to get mad at trans people)

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You know seeing people who bullied and harassed me and my friends for being ‘masculine women’ and ‘feminine men’ growing up posting shit like “why can’t trans men just be tomboys?”/“why can’t trans women just be feminine men?” Is just making me so mad.

We tried that. Remember? And you still hated us.

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"Queer people should be weirder"

Y'all can't even handle trans men with full beards who lift weights and won't take your shit without calling them "examples of toxic masculinity"

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"well if it's not androgynous what should a nonbinary person look like??" ***EXTREMELY LOUD BUZZER SOUND*** WRONG!!!! YOU GOT IT ALL WRONG!!!!!!! NOBODY "SHOULD" ANYTHING!!!! THAT IS NOT WHAT QUEERNESS IS ABOUT!!!!! GO TO THE CALM DOWN CORNER AND THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU'VE JUST SAID.

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“I loved you, always.”

#for later

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The amount of nonbinary friends I've had ask me, a binary trans man, if they're "allowed" to call themselves a part of the trans community is so sad. Yes, of course you can. We are all in this together. You can fly the trans flag you can call yourself trans you can celebrate TDOV and mourn TDOR with us please come hold my hand and fight by my side. When you started identifying as nonbinary you got an optional trans bundle, too—you don't have to take it but you absolutely should if you want to. The white stripe is for you.

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“ew thick water gross and weird” ITS NOT FUCKING FOR YOU!!!!! “ew why buy pre-cut vegetables when you can cut your own” ITS NOT FUCKING FOR YOU!!!!!! “I don’t need a device to help me put my socks on I’m not lazy” ITS NOT FUCKING FOR YOU !!!!!!!!! “Why drink liquid meals when you can cook them” ITS!!!!! NOT!!!!!! FOR!!!!!! YOU!!!!!!!!

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This machine kills AI

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"If only the paddies could just conveniently forget and forgive the state-sanctioned murder of members of their community then we all can put this nasty business behind us" If you want truth and reconciliation, first you need the truth.

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"being queer is about love" hmm actually being queer is about defying societal norms about gender and sexuality and does not depend on feeling love at all

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good read for teachers.