Hi there! You can call me Ray! I'm a Teen Baby, I've got an unhealthy obsession with The Aquabats!, and um...You'll see a lot of ABDL and NSFW Aquabats content reblogged on here. And stuff about other bands. And I'll post some stuff too.
Her name was Dolly Wilde. She was the daughter of Oscar Wilde’s older brother, and was born about 3 months after he died. She worked as an ambulance driver during WW1 and spent most of her free time banging rich ladies. And guys. GUYS.
I kid you not this is almost identical to my own headcanons about my blond bomber
Can I please get headcanons about Deidara's sex life? Losing his virginity, hooking up, in a relationship, just various stuff, thanks!!!
Deidara lost his virginity at a party, when he was drunk. He doesn’t remember much about it, but he knows he lost it to a guy.
Definitely bisexual with a heavy preference towards guys.
He is such a sub, and he’s a bit whiny when he doesn’t get what he wants when he wants it.
Deidara loves receiving oral, it’s his favorite sexual activity.
He often has hookups, he doesn’t really have time for a relationship, nor does he want one. He prefers to meet random strangers at places and have a nice, quick fuck.
He has various kinks, but his favorite kink is being choked, nothing else gets him going quite like that.
Deidara also really loves dirty talk, but he doesn’t enjoy anything over vulgar.
He doesn’t like it when you call him names and stuff.
I was spanked as a child. I am not damaged because of it. I have quite a lot of empathy for others. I am only aggressive and mean if the situation calls for it (such as defending myself or others). If it doesn’t, then chances are I’m either going through a bout of PMDD, in the middle of a panic attack and don’t realize what’s going on around me, or I’m being sarcastic (the last one is usually just with friends). I don’t think it’s funny when kids are scared and/or in pain. I admit that I do laugh if I see a video of someone doing something really stupid and getting (minorly) injured from it, but that’s laughing at their stupidity. But really, who doesn’t find those videos at least a little amusing?
I see no problem with a child (over the age of 5) being spanked as a last resort punishment, and it’s not done simply out of anger. Hell, I still ask to be spanked as a punishment. It helps me. When I was a younger teen (around 14-15), I asked my SO to spank me. And you know what? It broke me of my habit of self-harming. It clears my conscience. Of course, there is a difference between kids and adults, but even as a child it helped me.
Now, it doesn’t work for everyone. I know this. I actually have met several people who completely fit this websites description of something who is “damaged from being spanked”, yet they were never once spanked throughout their entire lives. I’ve met people who are like that that were spanked as kids. Spanking alone does not define how someone will turn out later in life. Several factors and the person themselves define it. Some people go through shitty, abusive childhoods and come out just like their abusers. Some come out of it amazing, wonderful people. Others come out of it anywhere in between. Same for great, loving childhoods. You can come out a bad person or a good one. One of my best friends was severely abused up until about age 12. He is one of the kindest, sweetest, most gentle people I have met in my entire life. I also once had a friend who had a great childhood with a wonderful, loving family, and at age 16, he raped and abused his 14-year-old girlfriend several times throughout the year they were together and nearly killed her, and he’s still in prison for it. And guess what? He was never spanked. Not once. He was raised with the “gentle firmness” that website preaches about.
Alright, I’m rambling, so I’ll wrap it up. My point is that the person who made that post and runs the website has no fucking idea what they’re talking about. People like that annoy me because they act all “holier-than-thou” and like they know everything about everything.
I do not fear authority. I do not fear that I will be hurt for not showing respect to someone who doesn’t deserve it from me. I was not spanked for being disrespectful, for that I was scolded and talked to. I was taught when it’s okay to not show someone respect. I was only spanked if I did something I had been warned several times not to do again, or something incredibly stupid/dangerous that could’ve gotten me seriously hurt or possibly even killed. My experience is not up for debate. I know my own feelings and mind better than anyone else. My mental illness was not caused by getting a few smacks on the ass once in a blue moon. It was caused by minor brain damage due to a wrongly prescribed medication for a medical condition (it was wrongly prescribed because it was not approved to be given to anyone under 18, and at 13, I was prescribed a full adult dose with my family not being informed about the possible risks and side effects, I mean we literally weren’t even told about there being side effects at all and we had to cut my dose in half to stop the severe diarrhea it caused because the doctor wouldn’t switch me to something else). And, yes, that was proven with various medical tests.
To all of my LGBTQ+ siblings! I hope this June brings you happiness, health, safety, and comfort in who you are!
And for those of you who are closeted, I wish you all the best in staying safe, and, if you’re ready and able to, the courage to come out!
If your flag isn’t here, because I know I can’t cover every identity out there, please reblog and add it! Don’t be afraid to share your pride in your identity if it’s safe for you to do so!