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Really good Benny Mods from Nexus

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enthralled by yes man’s canonical whore eyeshadow 

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“maybe khans kill people without looking them in the face, but i ain't a fink, dig?” - this was redrawn btw 👍

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my fellow independence enjoyers

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imagine someone thinking of you and buying you flowers

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genderfluid icon

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Let's just all agree that the staff liking Harry Potter probably has maybe a LOT to do with all the transphobia they let slide

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"we do not allow harassment on tumblr" since when????????????

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What the actual fuck is going on in the northern european countries and not feeding guests. Do not equate us south/eastern europeans with those barbarians please🙏

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herbert style sunday

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If my partner is in the next room over and hasn’t spoken to me in 15 minutes, I can easily convince myself that it’s not just because he’s reading but because the last thing I said to him was wrong somehow, and he’s stewing and ready to scream at me any second now about how awful I am. This belief, though, is wrong. He doesn’t get upset about infinitesimal things, and when he is upset, that isn’t how he handles it. He’s not my father.

It absolutely makes sense for me to process information this way — in many situations I’ve been in, that instinct would have been correct, and helped me stay safe. But it isn’t correct anymore, and it would be unhealthy — and unfair — to act as if it were. I’m not wrong for feeling the way I do, but if I forced my partner to treat my feelings as reality — if I called him five times a day while he was at work to have him reassure me he wasn’t mad at me, if I forbade him from ever taking time to himself without reminding me it wasn’t about me, or ever being outwardly upset about things like having a bad day at work because it makes me anxious — that would be a terrible relationship for him to be in. I’m not wrong for feeling how I do, but it’s on me to make a plan for how to cope with it: to remind myself to look at the evidence and ask whether there’s any suggestion that I’m actually about to be harmed, to develop my own coping strategies, to be self-aware of my own history and the way I map it onto my present. I can certainly ask my partner for support in this, or to make some concessions to my history that he agrees are both fair and healthy for him, but I can’t ask him to bend over backwards for me because I’m not willing to do the work at all. We can’t justify harmful things we do to others by pointing to the ways they’re related to how we ourselves were harmed — a reason isn’t a justification.

Rachel at Autostraddle (in an agony aunt column that’s actually about biphobia, but took this excellent turn into Why You Don’t Have To Grovel To People’s Neuroses)

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happy pride month everyone

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Someone fucking help me

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I love how Cicero & Brynjolf don’t even acknowledge the amulet of Mara…

You come up to them like “hey…” and they’re just like:

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here comes a daredevil

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Instead of writing I made some portraits of Cicero. You’re welcome?

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Work it girl