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Solar Return Observations (Part Two)

Hi everyone, I decided to make a part two since people appreciated the 1st post. If you are interested to see what’s likely to occur for you in your life from one year to the next, the link to purchase a reading is in my bio :)

An afflicted Neptune in the 11th house of a Solar Return can indicate friendship troubles in the year. It’s not uncommon to lose friends or lose a friend in such a year.

Solar Return Moon in the 12th house can be a very emotionally difficult year (especially if the moon receives many squares from the other planets). However, I find that most people become interested in Astrology or spirituality when their Solar Return Sun, Moon, or Mercury is in the Solar return 12th house.

It’s common to begin therapy when you have your Solar Return Mercury in the 8th house. I had a client of mine begin DBT sessions when she had her Solar Return Mercury in her 8th house (she gave me permission to share this information for anyone who may be concerned).

When your Solar Return Sun makes a conjunction to Venus, this can be a very social year for you. Especially if this conjunction occurs in the 3rd, 5th, or 11th houses.

There’s the inclination to attract unfulfilling romantic unions or relationships that are hard to make work when you have your Solar Return Venus opposite the Solar Return Saturn. If you are already in a relationship, you may find that certain responsibilities and obligations are pulling you in the opposite direction of that relationship. Thus, a lot of compromise and conscious effort on your part is required during that solar return year. Some astrologers argue that Venus opposite Saturn can indicate a break up, but I’ve honestly seen that more with Venus square Saturn or Venus square Uranus in the Solar Return chart.

My personal finances changes drastically (for the better) when I had my Solar Return Pluto in the 2nd house. However, I must say I had my Solar Return Venus in the 8th and Jupiter In the 11th too. Furthermore, my solar return Ascendant was the sign over my natal 2nd house cusp. Hence, finances were a major theme for me this particular year.

When the ruler of your solar return midheaven is in the 9th. You may be required to travel for work. It can also mean that your work may involve some form of learning or exposure to certain things that expand your worldviews.

In terms of your mental state during the year, I would actually look at the condition of your 3rd house (and Mercury) first and foremost. Then the 12th, and then the 8th. If you have Saturn in the 3rd house feelings of depression or despondency can often emerge. This is especially true if Saturn receives many squares. Uranus in the 3rd can cause feelings of restlessness and in some cases anxiety. If you want to look at your emotional state I would look to the condition of the Moon, 4th, and 12th house.

A solar return year where you have Venus conjunct Mars can be a year in which you experience an increase in your sex drive and general appeal. You’ll be radiating an aura that other people find hard to ignore. Attracting more sexual or romantic partners is also a possibility in such a year. (Whether these are long-term partners need to be determined by looking at the overall condition of Venus and the solar return 7th house) you also need to take note of your transits and to a lesser extent to progressions.

When your Solar Return Ascendant is in the same sign as your Natal Ascendant this can be a significant year for you, when it comes to your physical appearance and your personality. People often see you in a “different light” in such a year. You may be making the conscious effort to change your look or how you present yourself to others. Even if this change is not blatant, people will often notice a difference in your appearance and your outward persona/mannerisms.

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JUPITER SIGNS & HOUSES AND HOW TO GET THE MOST LUCK AND OPPORTUNITIES

jupiter, in astrology, symbolizes luck and opportunities. its influence signifies a time when favorable circumstances, growth, and expansion are more likely to occur in various aspects of life, from personal endeavors to relationships and career opportunities.

aries / 1H: be bold, take action, use your natural self confidence, be authentic, initiate is your best friend, take risks

taurus / 2H: have a rich girl mindset, use your natural ability to attract (don’t chase), build a foundation, invest in things you deem important for self worth

gemini / 3H: communicate !!!!, you’re the type to talk your way in/out of things, be curious, educate yourself and others, take trips and travel

cancer / 4H: be with family, many opportunities at home or places you feel comfortable and safe, be nurturing and caring for others and yourself, use emotional intelligence

leo / 5H: be confident, use your voice, share your creative and romantic skills, very lucky with children, use your charisma and enthusiasm, invest in acting

virgo / 6H: go to work, invest in health, be attentive to detail and hard work, organize your things, be disciplined, be of service

libra / 7H: show off your partnerships and romantic relationships, use your connections, use your social skills, your aesthetic and art brings luck, be diplomatic, balance

scorpio / 8H: use your deep insight, investigate, understand psychology, your ability to handle intense situations and emotions, research

sagittarius / 9H: travel, go to school or get higher education, share your worldviews, explore new ideas and embrace diversity, be adventurous

capricorn / 10H: be ambitious, use your leadership skills, think about career, long term plans, be structured and determined to achieve goals

aquarius / 11H: use your innovative and creative skills, networks, use your friends to help you gain luck, technology, use your unique perspective

pisces / 12H: use your empathy and psychic skills, your intuition is strong, creative intelligence, healing, spiritual, growth, use your compassion

© spirit-of-phantom 2023

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WHAT RESEMBLES THE GRAVE BUT ISN’T

Always falling into a hole, then saying “ok, this is not your grave, get out of this hole,” getting out of the hole which is not the grave, falling into a hole again, saying “ok, this is also not your grave, get out of this hole,” getting out of that hole, falling into another one; sometimes falling into a hole within a hole, or many holes within holes, getting out of them one after the other, then falling again, saying “this is not your grave, get out of the hole”; sometimes being pushed, saying “you can not push me into this hole, it is not my grave,” and getting out defiantly, then falling into a hole again without any pushing; sometimes falling into a set of holes whose structures are predictable, ideological, and long dug, often falling into this set of structural and impersonal holes; sometimes falling into holes with other people, with other people, saying “this is not our mass grave, get out of this hole,” all together getting out of the hole together, hands and legs and arms and human ladders of each other to get out of the hole that is not the mass grave but that will only be gotten out of together; sometimes the willful-falling into a hole which is not the grave because it is easier than not falling into a hole really, but then once in it, realizing it is not the grave, getting out of the hole eventually;  sometimes falling into a hole and languishing there for days, weeks, months, years, because while not the grave very difficult, still, to climb out of and you know after this hole there’s just another and another; sometimes surveying the landscape of holes and wishing for a high quality final hole; sometimes thinking of who has fallen into holes which are not graves but might be better if they were; sometimes too ardently contemplating  the final hole while trying to avoid the provisional ones; sometimes dutifully falling and getting out, with perfect fortitude, saying “look at the skill and spirit with which I rise from that which resembles the grave but isn’t!“ 

ANNE BOYER

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“I hope you know you are loved. I hope things get simpler for you, peaceful. Spend your days with easy breaths and soft words. You deserve light through your windowsill. I hope it comes your way soon.”

Courtney Peppernell, Pillow Thoughts

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— Billy Chapata; Flowers on the Moon

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something holy inside you wants to get out but you can’t let it

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Phenomenon #48 by Angela Lane (2020)

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@roach-works // Melissa Broder, "Problem Area" // Mary Oliver, "The Return" // @annavonsyfert // Koyoharu Gotouge, Demon Slayer // Haruki Murakami, Dance Dance Dance // David Levithan, How They Met and Other Stories // Tennessee Williams, Notebooks

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Manifesting With Astrology

Hi everyone!! I'm legit posting today but I do need to do homework lol but I did read some replies from my short astro observations and I noticed you guys did want this! So I was on the bus one day and thinking to myself, "how do you use your jupiter sign to manifest and how to use your venus sign to manifest?"

So now here I am. If you also wanna check the houses of your jupiter and venus placements for additional info and feel free to ask if confused. I will do my best to ensure that I word it in a way you can understand it. Here goessss

Jupiter placements:

Jupiter in Aries: Jupiter blesses you when you know what you want and take risks. Legit don't even think of making a plan (but that helps) just jump right into it and the universe will provide as you go along

Jupiter in Taurus: TREAT YO SELF💅. Literally when you focus on you and taking care of yourself, you are more confident and therefore will express your higher self which will better align you to your desires.

Jupiter in Gemini: This placement blesses those who seek out the info. Seek knowledge because in that moment you will get your desire.

Jupiter in Cancer: you are blessed by expressing cancer cancerian traits! Love on others and nurture them (and yourself of course) like a momma would. Such a beautiful placement.

Jupiter in Leo (my gang🤟): babes we show up and show tf out. We are to let the world know who we are and we make sure they heard our names at least once😉. You're blessed by being your authentic self, give to others and have fun while doing so. We manifest, just like Jupiter in Taurus when we are confident. That is our higher self which better aligns us with our desires.

Jupiter in virgo: karrrrmmaaaa👏👏👏. You get what you give. Give out good and you will get good, even your desires. I don't have to explain what happens if you give out bad, right😉

Jupiter in Libra: another placement where you have to treat yourself. Also, think b a l a n c e d. The more you're able to see things from a balanced perspective, the more you can align yourself with your desires.

Jupiter in Scorpio: oh ho ho. Well one thing for sure, the more you dig deep the more you will find. Take that however you want. Also...🌟sex magic🌟. Hehehehe

Jupiter in Sagittarius: where Jupiter is in its planetary ruler! Well, one of them lol. Expand your mind, travel, and I mean travel to another country. Your desires will come to you once you go and explore the world and be grateful for what you already have. Keep the faith that everything will work out in your favor too!!

Jupiter in Capricorn: you will be blessed by taking on a structured and traditional approach to things. If you want your desires, you better create some sort of structure to achieve it and work for it. Be patient. This is a saturn ruled Jupiter. Where and whatever saturn rules, takes time and effort because daddy saturn only wants the best and nothing but the BEST.👏

Jupiter in Aquarius: Same thing with Jupiter in Capricorn. However, the thing is that instead of creating structure, go crazy. Act and think and B E outside of the box. Things that other people haven't done? Do IT.👏 Things people are scared to try? PURSUE IT. 👏 This placement is also a lot like Jupiter in Aries, just take the freaking risk and go for it. Y'all are technically the trendsetters anyway.

Jupiter in pisces: Ahh, the other ruler of Jupiter lol. This is a natural manifesting placement. Dream your desires and create art that expresses what you desire and it will come to you. If you paint a canvas of yourself that is receiving your desire the universe will be like "Ohhhh okay bestieee I got you!!!" And watch it come right there. Same with your thoughts. Please don't get too far into your thoughts that you lose reality. Just like Sagittarius, have faith. Keep the faith that everything will work out in your favor.

Now for the venus placements!! It's pretty similar to the Jupiter signs in my opinion since both planets do focus on abundance.

Venus in Aries: take that risk of doing what you love babes! Carry that confidence within you and know that you are a badass king/queen that can get anything you want😍

Venus in Taurus: please treat yourself and know that you are that badass that can manifest what you want when you work hard for what you want. Treat yourself after and prove to you that you got this!!

Venus in Gemini: Indulge in the love of knowledge. Get a manicure or something. Just like Jupiter in Gemini, seek out what seeks you babes❤️ as a matter of fact, try scripting or saying affirmations out loud. This is a mercurial Venus so anything with words will pretty much work🤣

Venus in Cancer: love on you and nuture yourself. Consider this as you preparing yourself to receive the desires you want. By creating space for yourself to be free, you make room for your manifestations to come in.

Venus in Leo: Lordtttt. Say some "I am" affirmations, shake your ass when looking in the mirror. Jkkkkkkk. (But that also helps too). Show yourself who you are and then show the world. You are meant to shine. You will attract people too so use that to your advantage (i.e. networking, not using people for your own benefit😅😮‍💨).

Venus in Virgo: you know how you're the type to keep giving as a love language? Well give to yourself instead of other people (I mean...you can do that too as it will create good karma). Treat yourself and love yourself. Don't be afraid to look into the mirror and say "I love you." to that reflection. Go on. DO IT. Also don't forget to connect with nature.

Venus in libra: just like Venus in Leo and Taurus, treat yourself and don't be afraid to right any wrongs. Remember, balance is key here. Just don't overindulge. I think of Aphrodite with this placement and how love is the greatest energy of all. Attract love by loving yourself first and watch what comes to you❤️

Venus in Scorpio (my gang🤟): learn to love your darkness. Learn to love the parts of you that need a lil more tlc, a little more patience and acceptance since no one else accepted that part of you. Study the occult or dark arts and indulge in the intensity of it. Don't be afraid to be the light to the dark. Also...SEX MAGICCCC. Scorpio is sexual, so the moment you about to cum scream them desires, it doesn't matter if you wake your parents up or not just scream it!

Venus in Sagittarius: just like Jupiter in Sagittarius, go out and seek. What you seek seeks you. You will attract what you want by broadening your mindset and knowledge as sometimes it may be simple as a different POV you need to adopt to receive your manifestations.

Venus in Capricorn: stay on that grind and know that it is okay to incorporate some me-time in whatever routine you have. Take time for you to rest and rejuvenate (look to your sister sign cancer for that) and then get back up on your grind. Your desires are your reward❤️

Venus in Aquarius: Enjoy experiencing new things and new perspectives. Do hobbies that require you to think and B E outside the box (like Jupiter in Aquarius). Have fun being the trendsetter.

Venus in Pisces: your love for the reality you want to bring will help you bring it to fruition. Enjoy your daydreaming and watch it come to you. Enjoy your art and watch it come to you. Look to jupiter in pisces for this one.

I hope this helps because like I said, I am still new to this and with more info, I will ne back to provide better information.

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Asteorid Kiss 💋 (8267)

Artist: Auguste Toulmouche

This asteroid tells us about kissing styles, even your first kiss. It can also depict what people perceive your kisses or you as a kisser. All of this depends on your natal chart.

Take what resonates only, please!

Kiss in the signs and houses

Aries / 1st house: Your kisses are eager and fast.Passion and probably a lot of tongues and mess, quite chaotic. They have an innocent nature, still quite fiery. Your first kiss could have been quickie or kinda messy (with saliva). In the 1st house, people notice your innocence if you haven't kissed. It's very evident to others how experienced you are. Prominent lips and something about having nice features. Your first kiss meant a lot for good or bad. An experience hard to forgive, maybe they bite you(idk).

Taurus/ 2nd house: Your kissing style is sensual and slow. You like to taste your lover's lips. You don't want to rush; you want to savor each second you have. Many like your kisses and it's very common to hear "You kiss so well". If you haven't kissed someone, it's not very common for this sign, but then, you are waiting for the right one. You have pretty lips, and people don't believe you haven't kissed. In the 2nd house, you only kiss people who are in your future (long-term vibes).

Gemini/3rd house: this native likes to give fun kisses, and they prefer to kiss in different positions; between kisses, they would laugh or giggle. They could use their tongue very well too. In the 3rd house, the kiss is very stimulative and probably in the house. PDA can be accepted by the native. A very dynamic kisser. They would give you a random peck or probably like to give hickeys. Kisses before an important event; they may like that. Their first kiss could be with a neighbor or a friend close to the family or their sister or brother's friend.

Cancer/4th house: A very healing kiss, it gives a feeling of safeness and homelike vibes. This native gives very soft and cute kisses. This may be a reason why their exes keep coming back. They have a way that makes lips feel soft. In the 4th house, they prefer to kiss someone who is closer to them; they prefer being partners first, officially. Also, they don't like PDA; they prefer their home, room, or just a private place for their partner and them. They give their old while they kiss. It's not surprising that others think they are marriage material after a kiss session.

Leo/5th house: Leo's kisses are proud and valuable. The same with the other fiery signs, their kissers are very passionate. One of a kind, gold, so if you stole one, be aware of the punishment. They can be hungry sometimes and quite possessive but in a romantic way, passionate. They like to wear lipgloss or have nice lips overall, and they hope their s/o too. In the 5th house, this person loves kisses on the cheek or lips. They are into touching so random kisses on the forehead or hands. Kisses show how much they care. They will give them often to their s/o. PDA can be a thing. Overall, their kisses are joyful, creative, honest, spontaneous, and passionate. Very addictive to others.

Virgo/6th house: their kissing style is very cautious. They detest if someone pressures them for a PDA display. They want to feel safe with their partner. The Virgin sign likes to feel ready. They prefer clean and soft lips. Quick kisses and clean movements, avoid saliva mess (xd). In the 6th house, the natives prefer a safe environment and daily doses of kisses. They can kiss their partner to relieve stress. Kisses are natural. They take care of their lips or they are dehydrated often. They are constantly treating them (lip balms or lip masks). They may like to kiss with a fresh breath too, and i hope the same.

Libra/7th house: their kisses are balanced, not too much not too little (just enough). Their kisses make you feel more pretty /handsome. They literally take your breath away. They prefer to kiss someone they find attractive more than anything. They can desire to have control while kissing and pretend they don't. They may like to touch their partner's face or body. In the 7th house, they enjoy kisses with their s/p the most or at least with good prospects. Their kisses feel long and loyal like you are the one and only for them.

Scorpio/8th house: Kisses feel passionate and possessive. It's a mix between real and unreal, between fear and courage, light and dark. It's an addictive poison for the lover. Kisses are deep and primal. In the 8th house, you kiss for a transformation and to liberate your demons, fear, happiness, pain, or healing. Kisses are deep and try to be used as a calming sensation. They are drugs and a medicament to the romantics only the native know their risks. These kisses are not easy to forget. This kiss enchants others; the native should be careful. Others get obsessed with their lips.

Sagittarius/9th house: A very experienced kisser; their kisses are natural and spontaneous, though. They give you a free sensation, even a relaxing experience through their lips. These natives are so fun and boom they are kissing you. Their kisses are adventures like a trip to a new place. In the 9th house, this person has a lot of knowledge in this area. They may not look like it, but they have a master in kissing and all; whether they have experience or not. They could learn through others or reading about it. Their first kiss can happen in school or higher education.

Capricorn/10th: Capricorn kisses are slow and direct. They prefer to kiss someone that makes them feel safe like the other earthy signs; their kisses are mature and to the point. Also, their kisses can feel outdated, especially if someone prefers more rough kisses. They prefer long kissing sessions whenever they have time. If they have experience, they will be the ones in command. In the 10th house, you have a bossy demeanor when you kiss others. You are the one who guides. You prefer to take the lead. Either PDA isn't your favorite thing, or it doesn't matter to you.

Aquarius/11th house: Their kisses feel different; Aquarius likes to experiment with things and expand their knowledge. In the kissing department, it's the same. They have a PhD. in how to kiss, even without experience. They may like to innovate in their kissing style. They may like to kiss their friends often too. In the 11th house, this kisser has a lot of experience. Maybe, your first kiss was with a friend. You like to kiss your friends in a platonic or romantic way. Also, you may send the emoji kiss or kissing face for everything. You may tease others with your kisses.

Pisces/12th house: Pisces kisses have a soft and feminine energy(not genre related) to their kisses. They add a certain innocent in the way they kiss. They like to forget about things when they kiss their lover. In the 12th house, kisses are special and hard to explain. This native has a spiritual experience while kissing their s/o; they expect kisses to be like an epiphany or an escape from this world. Their kisses sessions are long and the same as other water signs, addictive too.

Take care 💚🌻

Credits to @deepmochi

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Chiron in Cancer and Relationships

People with Chiron, Cancer in Relationships are often sensitive and aware of the emotions of others. This makes them unable recognize their own. They can become trapped in a feedback loop if they react to others’ emotions without being able express their own. It is important to understand your emotions and avoid falling into this trap. If you have Chiron, Cancer in Relationships you might want to see a therapist to help you learn how to communicate with your partner so that you feel better about yourself. Chiron in Cancer people often struggle to find love because they feel unworthy of it. They might seek out relationships with people who are not compatible with them or who don’t love them. People can feel lonely and unloved when they lack love. This can lead to them withdrawing and seeking relationships they don’t deserve. They may even seek love from people who are unlovable, which will only serve to fuel their loneliness and low self-esteem. It is best to find a partner with the same qualities as Chiron when he is in Cancer in Relationships. If this is difficult, it is best to find a partner who will be a positive influence in the rest of your life. Cancer is the ruling planet of home and family, and its inhabitants are likely to have careers in the field of helping others. They may have been ridiculed in the past. It is important that you find a partner who can feel at home with your personal sense of home. Men with Chiron in Cancer are often sensitive to other people and their emotions. They should learn how to accept their own worth and how to let go their insecurity and father figures. Then, they will begin to see the world as a mirror that reflects their own soul and the humanity of others. You will feel empathy for the problems others face in their relationships. People with Chiron, Cancer in Relationships, need to learn how communicate their feelings in order for them to have a deep relationship with their partner. They may also be very sensitive to criticisms and have a tendency to daydream. They are generally compassionate and understanding but may not be able to make decisions. They may become emotionally attached to someone and need to be able express their feelings before they can trust them. However, it doesn’t mean that relationships are a waste of time. Women with Chiron Cancer in Relationships need to be aware of how they feel and communicate with each other. If you have a single Chiron in Cancer in Relationships, your partner will likely be sensitive to your feelings and may not know how best to respond. This can lead you to become a monster of dependence. https://www.trulydivine.com/chiron/chiron-in-cancer is important to speak your truth to Chiron in Cancer in Relationships.

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Healing for Chiron

If you are looking to heal Chiron You should concentrate on the location where it is. The exact location of the planet in your birth chart will aid in identifying the area which needs to be healed. For instance, if your Chiron is in the 10th house of work, you will want to focus on this aspect since it is connected to public reputation. If your Chiron is in the 10th house, then you might have doubts about your career or your ability to lead a group or your ability to take on more responsibility. If you’re a Cancer and are concerned about these issues, they could be a result of childhood anxieties. Stardust can help you determine if your hesitations are valid. This crystal can help you determine if your fears are true and hinder you from taking on a leadership role. Although healing Chiron can be difficult but it is possible. For Cancer this energy is rooted in the hidden wounds. It can also touch the fourth house of familial roots. This can result in trauma in the family or even trauma from childhood. Capricorns should feel secure and at ease with themselves and connect with their family members from a place of warm and loving. The energy of communication is crucial to the development of the soul It is therefore essential to be open and honest. It is crucial to keep in mind that Chiron is in the fifth house of communication in your natal chart. This could reveal the most serious wounds and possible healing methods. For instance, if have Chiron in Gemini, a sign that has an elevated degree of communication, it’s in the fifth house of creativity and is in contact with your natal Mars which is the planet of masculine energy. Knowing your Chiron location will help you decide the best method to cure it. Aries is the first sign of the zodiac, and it’s also the Cardinal Fire Sign. Aries is determined bold, ambitious, and brave. It has a goal and doesn’t shy away from asking for what it would like. Therefore, this sign may have a difficult time being assertive. Healing Chiron is about restoring balance to your astrological sign. If your Chiron is in Aries this indicates that you are working to solve issues related to relationships and career. It’s important to understand the role Chiron plays in healing relationships as well as the emotional wounds that are associated with these relationships. People with Chiron in the 7th House often feel wounded in their relationships. They may be critical of their partner or may try to “combine with their partner. What’s my Chiron Sign can cause them to feel like they don’t belong or hide their feelings. If your Chiron isn’t in your birth chart it is possible to determine what aspects and signs Chiron is in. If you were born on the day of transit, you can search for the aspect or signification of Chiron in your astrological birth charts. If you’re not sure, you can check online astrological birth charts or get an astrologer on the job to help you identify your Chiron sign. There are many ways to determine your Chiron sign. These include online transit tables as well as astrological charts.