bitterbisexualforpositivity

[bitterbisexualforpositivity]

i loveeee being bisexual and i love the flag its so pretty im going to start structuring all my posts like this just so everyone knows btw im bisexual

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A PSA 💖💜💙

(Last image via @fuckyeahbiguys)

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so loving men isn't a curse. loving men isn't "unfortunate". loving men isn't a bad thing. yes, we can joke about how awful men can be, but it gets to a a point where this mentality can really hurt. it can really feed into you hating yourself for something you can't control. loving men is something special. loving yourself is just as beautiful.

[bitterbisexualforpositivity]

on panphobia

I just saw a bisexual blog claim that “all bisexuals” know that people identifying as pansexual only do so because of internalised biphobia and according to that person we (bisexuals) all talk about this behind closed doors. Which is an absolute lie and they’ve obviously been projecting heavily.

After some quick search on their blog for “pansexuality” there was even more vile bullshit against pansexuals. So I wanna point this out and make it very clear that gettin-bi-bi-bi does not agree with this in the slightest.

The bisexual organisation that I co-founded explicitly includes and advocates for  all non-monosexual identities. It’s absolutely not true that “all bi activists secretly want to get rid of pansexuality” and the fact some panphobic bisexuals spread this blatant misinformation in an attempt to pit bis and pans against each other is appaling!

This blog here, despite its name and focus on bisexuality, is also not in the business of invalidating any non-monosexual identities and we’re more than happy to help any pansexual, polysexual, omnisexual, homoflexible, heteroflexible and other mspec people that might be out there.

Do some people have a false idea of what bisexuality is and thus not identify as bi even though they could? Sure. Which is why it’s important we offer resources and education so misconceptions about bisexuality can be eliminated and people can be fully informed about the options of labels to choose from.

Is it harmful to the bisexual community when people identify as something other than “bisexual”? Fuck nO!

Lastly, I would urge all you bisexuals out there to check and double-check what blogs you follow and reblog from. No bi positivity post is worth reblogging when the person who wrote it doesn’t stand for solidarity with other mspec identities and actively shits on anyone who doesn’t identify as bisexual.

#i wanted to make it clear that we stand with this #bisexuality doesn't exist to invalidate any other mspec identities

[bitterbisexualforpositivity]

bisexual men……. exist.

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(Image description: a white square background overlaid with a blue grid, blue text reads “protect bisexual youth”.)

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Bisexual men who have dated only women are still bisexual. You don’t need to have experience with someone just to know you’re attracted to them. Your lack of experience with other men does not diminish the very real experience you have with your sexuality.

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yall mind if i love and support bi men real quick

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Black bi girls : 💖💝💞💗💖💝💞💗💖💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💞💝💖💗💝💖💗💞

Latina bi girls : 💖💝💞💗💖💝💞💗💖💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💞💝💖💗💝💖💗💞

Asian bi girls : 💖💝💞💗💖💝💞💗💖💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💞💝💖💗💝💖💗💞

Native American bi girls : 💖💝💞💗💖💝💞💗💖💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💞💝💖💗💝💖💗💞

Muslim bi girls : 💖💝💞💗💖💝💞💗💖💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💞💝💖💗💝💖💗💞

White bi girls : 💖💝💞💗💖💝💞💗💖💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💞💝💖💗💝💖💗💞

Trans bi girls : 💖💝💞💗💖💝💞💗💖💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💞💝💖💗💝💖💗💞

bi girls : 💖💝💞💗💖💝💞💗💖💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💞💝💖💗💝💖💗💞💖💝💞💗💖💝💞💗💖💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💞💝💖💗💝💖💗💞💖💝💞💗💖💝💞💗💖💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💘💕💞💝💖💗💝💖💗💞

( from this post ) 

[bitterbisexualforpositivity]

bi ppl who feel more attracted to the opposite gender: 💝💓💖💖💖💘💚💚💓💓💞💜❤️💟💟💝💞💞🖤💜🖤❣️❣️🧡💛💛💚❤️💞💞💗💗💖💘💕💗💞💝

bi ppl who feel more attracted to the same gender: 💝💞💓💖💘💕❣️💜🧡💛💛💜💜❤️💛💙❣️💖💖🖤💜💞💛🧡💞💞💖🧡💞💞💚💝💟💖💚💗💞💓💖

bi ppl who are in a hetero relationship: ❤️💖🧡💖💖💛💞💞💚💝❤️💖❤️💜❣️💓❣️💝💝❤️💝💘💘💕❣️💚💜💜💞💞💖❣️❣️💚💘❣️🖤🧡🖤💘💖

bi ppl who are in a homo relationship: 💝💝❤️💓❤️💖💘💞💖💞💝💝💕💝💝🧡💖❤️💘💜💖💞🖤💞💕❣️💛💞💝💙💝💗❤️💖💖❤️💝❣️

bi boys: 💝❤️💝❤️💓💖❤️💖💞💖💕🖤🖤💕💞💚💝💝❤️💗💜💖🖤💛💝💝💕💖💖💚💗💗💚💓💝💝💚

bi girls: 💞💞❣️❣️💞💝💚💝💖❤️💘💞❣️💞💚💞💞💚💞💓💚💙💝💝💝💝💝❤️💖❤️💜💘💘💖💕💓💙💞💞

bi ppl in general: 💞💝💝❣️💝❣️💝💞💖💖🖤🖤💝💞💚💞❣️💞💞💖💞💝💝💚💖❤️💘🧡💖💓💞💜💖💜💜❣️❣️💚💝❣️❣️💝💞

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Oh! And here’s a shout out specifically to nonbinary bisexuals because so often people define bisexuality as attraction to the “same and opposite gender” which excludes anybody that doesn’t fit the gender binary. You guys are still 100% bi and deserve to be recognised and included!

[bitterbisexualforpositivity]

there is absolutely nothing wrong with being bi. you don’t have to apologize or hide any part of your attraction to multiple genders. it’s not a shameful thing, it’s not “half” of a different orientation, it’s not a fad. your orientation is real, and it’s a beautiful thing. you deserve respect and support.

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If you’re bi you deserve a partner that both trusts you and respects your orientation! Plain and simple. If your partner gets paranoid about you cheating because of your orientation or starts minimizing it after you enter the relationship with them: dump them! It isn’t worth it and your beautiful bi self deserves someone who treats you right 

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a fun idea every bi person should try: love your sexuality bc it’s amazing and a gift and there is nothing wrong and everything right with you

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Black bisexual men are important and very much exist in in the spectrum.

Native bisexual men are important and very much exist in in the spectrum.

Asian bisexual men are important and very much exist in in the spectrum.

All bisexual men are important and very much exist in in the spectrum.

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Let bi girls unapologetically call themselves bi and talk about their boyfriend without sacrificing their queerness

Let bi boys unapologetically call themselves bi and talk about their girlfriend without sacrificing their queerness

Bisexuality is queer, regardless if their attraction/dating habits seem more focused on different genders.

Take your policing elsewhere.

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bi people be like: *gets served food at a restaurant once by an individual around their age and are like* “just met an angel today I’m in love :)”