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"Ur so chill" thanks i gave up

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Early sunlight through the mist in the inlet at the lake.

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#bebi...

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don't forget to be really stupid and weird at school, or work, or simply in the comfort of your home today

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changing should never be shameful

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btw one of the key components of actually being in a healthy relationship is just asking for things that you want. i keep seeing posts on this website saying 'i really want to do/receive [X] but my partner has never done it'. just ask. 'nobody exchanges love letters anymore' ask. 'i want to have my partner's hair in a locket like the victorians' just ask. 'i want to be bought flowers regularly :((' literally just ask. your partner doesn't know they're being held to these expectations and that you're unhappy unless you tell them. it's so unfair to expect your partner to read your mind. 'it's less special if you have to ask :((' grow up and stop pretending you're the lead in a romcom. when people say communication is crucial they mean it !! just ask !!

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sometimes I wonder how we all survive and then I look at my best friends and I go “oh, I survive because I don’t want to leave you yet” and it makes sense. life is so hard a lot of the time, but I want one more bowl of pasta with you.

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the saying you cant miss what you never had is so insane to me.... like um actually i am always missing what i never had. theres so much missing... i miss everything

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when you literally have to fail to succeed sometimes

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they should invent a desire to be wanted that doesn't feel grotesque and perverse

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yes i'm grateful for everything all the time yes i would give literally anything not to be the way i am. i contain multitudes

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四日市  by  Kazushige Tanase

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Ossuaries, Dionne Brand

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