my thing is they can't get married without that being public record, not that we'd know immediately but the info would be out there for us to find eventually and that would be a very boring way of doing it so IF they're getting married it would make so much sense for them to have fun with it first and also actually tell us about it. if we're gonna know anyway they might as well be annoying about it
and like i still don't think dnp are necessarily dying to get married but i 100% believe they would do it for their families' sake, especially phil's parents. and now is kind of the perfect time.
As someone who has felt that the time I spent just trying to make it through each day was wasted or lost, this is so important. Just existing is still living. You have worth just by existing. x