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iZOMBIE | 1.08 THE FALL OF THE HOUSE OF USHER | 1.02

#he's not exactly wrong... #☼ series #☼ romantic f/os #🥼🎮💙 #☼ crushes

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hey. there's a proship blog called @/stealing-from-antis that is going around selfship tags and stealing posts to put in proship tags. be careful.

#I blocked them and a good few of the people that interacted with their blog #they're all weirdos #and not the good type of weirdos #☼ psa #☼ 🐶💞.txt in the tags

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Hey i would highly recommend blocking @easter-bunnys-blog

Dont engage. Do not engage. Just block them.

Their blog is like dedicated to harassing self shippers and being really fucking mean. Like really pathetic behavior it would be funny if they werent so annoying

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#okay so for a lot of my main ships. I typically just have a polycule #but for example. with resident evil. Different s/is for every romantic f/o #And there's a lot of aus spread around for most of the s/is and f/os #☼ queued #☼ self shipping #☼ self inserts #☼ 🐶💞.txt in the tags

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Dear selfshippers whose blogs are small and often have little support, you're not any less valid than the blogs with a bigger following.

Just because you see someone who shares your f/o get noticed more doesn't invalidate the love you have to them, and how they give it to you.

Just because you only started shipping with that f/o doesn't mean you deserve them any less than someone who's been shipping them for years.

As someone once said, "Comparison is the thief of joy." Enjoy and indulge yourselves! Don't forget to spread kindness and compassion when you can.

☁︎ proship/comship DNI ☁︎

#☼ self shipping #☼ positivity #☼ queued

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"This selfshipper is uncomfortable discussing canon x canon ships with their f/o" userbox, requested by @rotten-heartthrob

#☼ queued #☼ userboxes

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#My f/os @ me #this has also been in my drafts since January woaw #☼ 🐶💞.txt in the tags #☼ queued

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Shout out to autistic selfshippers who have their F/O(s) as their special interest!!!!!!!!

P.ro/c.omship dni

#god this has been sitting my drafts since January but #a lot of my f/os are my spinterests #☼ 🐶💞.txt in the tags #☼ self shipping #☼ positivity #☼ queued

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i was taking a nap during promo hour so now i come in fashionably late...

i'm ky, i'm an adult selfshipper and i can be your most chaotic mutual yet (i have certified reviews from friends)

my main f/o is sova from valorant but i have others on my rentry, please read before following thanks! i hope we can be friends ^_^

(proship DNI or I'll explode you.)

#!! highly suggest ky's blog !! go follow!! #☼ promos #0wllight

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This is for the self shippers whose F/Os have canon/fanon partners and/or part of a popular ship:

I know it can be incredibly hard seeing content of your F/O with someone else, let alone when other people are ride or die for that ship (“they’re married/ canon/soulmates”). I just want to let you know that it’s okay to disagree. It’s alright to look at that and say “no, they’re not”. Your F/O is yours, and no amount of canon evidence, shippers of canon or whatever else means you have to give up your F/O for this so-called “canon partner”. Remember that these are people’s interpretations of characters, and you do NOT have to abide by them, no matter what. The only canon ship with your F/O you should concern yourself with is YOU x your F/O. And if others disagree? Who cares?

#☼ self shipping #☼ positivity

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💚 Hey I'm Roswell and I'm so in love with a guy from a game that hasn't been released yet. In fact, I just recently changed my url of four and a half years to something based on said game. Bc I guess he's that special to me. Erm... 👉👈

💚 22 • he/it • autism swag • selfshipper • manliker • the anton mutual

💚 Read my pinned and look at my fun graphics ↓

#everyone that already doesn't. should follow roswell #☼ promos #heartbeetz

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hi, i'm mike (they/them). i'm gay married to dude from rio bravo. follow me!

#in this household we love and Stan Mike aka dudefrommywesterns #so anyone that already doesn't should follow Mike #☼ promos #dudefrommywesterns

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Promo Peach? Hiii I'm Peach, I can be your new short chaos self shipper mutual/follower!! I'm here for fun and comfort times. I hope we can get along!!! Mwuah! (Platonic)

Pro.ship, com.ship and neutral don't intact please and thanks

#hi :O #(i interact through @kittyboones incase your curious who that was in your likes) #☼ promos #peachteaships

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They are already selling data to midjourney, and it's very likely your work is already being used to train their models because you have to OPT OUT of this, not opt in. Very scummy of them to roll this out unannounced.

#☼ not self shipping

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#Often times i follow the og timeline. add some stuff. remove some. change a bit. #like with Logan and veronica I completely just removed season 4 because I just get annoyed by most of s4 #but with for example with my buffyverse s/i #which actually doesn't self ship romantically with any of the canon characters #i just changed a lot of the plot but also just made up a bunch of my own stuff #like how my s/i is also a slayer at the same time. and become one when buffy first died. then they died themselves for a short while #but then their drummer necromancer bf (an oc named Warren) revives them #and then Kendra became a slayer at the same time and blah blah blah. I'm only on season 2 and procrastinating on finishing the show #so i'm kinda lost on what happens next #but yeah those are two examples of what i usually do #☼ self inserts #☼ polls

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Black self shippers deserve better.

They deserve to feel safe in the community.

They deserve appreciation for the works they create.

They deserve to feel loved, both by their f/os and by others in the community.

Not just this month, but every month.

#☼ positivity

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black selfshippers, happy black history month.

🎀 i hope you get plenty of attention this month

🎀 i hope you get the interaction you deserve this month

🎀 i hope you feel very loved by your f/os this month

🎀 i hope you feel free to be yourself this month

{pro/com/darkship dni.}

#☼ positivity #for all my black selfship moots #hope you guys have a nice month :]