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i’m an infj too can you tell me more about what it means?

its my fav thing to talk about so ofc

infjs have Ni as their first function which in simple terms its to sort of sit and observe. u take in information from the outside world (instead of immediately interacting w it) and then categorize it in ur head. this also helps with having really good mental focus. instead of thinking of many different possibilities we usually just know which answer is correct like we can predict the future outcome pretty confidently

our second function is Fe which has its focus externally. its how other people feel what they believe and what their morals are etc. u can very easily tell how others feel, even before they know themselves. u need social harmony. u need ur morals to align with what u perceive to be the correct ones in a way. this also makes infjs share their feelings more easily than their logical theories. they NEED to know how others feel so they can align themselves with that. but they have their own logic and are comfortable keeping it that way and keeping it to themselves

all this makes infjs very good at reading people. even tho they're introverts they can act extroverted in order to have better social interactions since we care about the impressions we give others (because we over analyze everything)

however having inferior Se makes it so that we dont actually interact with the world as often. we would rather just theorize things internally (but sometimes we can act impulsively if we see a need in getting a conclusion to a theory) its like wanting to observe and understand human behavior without having to participate

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Oh, I meant I’m an intj so if I feel like I’m being mirrored in someone then they’re usually intj/entj. Like a real recognizes real kind of thing. I just feel like you don’t have the kind of cockiness we usually have. I see infj for you specifically bc you seem aloof but in a sweetheart sort of manner

i understand i feel like i care too much about social harmony to be an intj plus i cry at any minor inconvenience loll

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I think you’re an infj too bc I’m one myself & I can usually clock from the jump if someone is entj/intj and you haven’t given me that vibe particularly

please tell me more i love hearing ab this

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may i see your side profile

absolutely not❤️

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Where did you get your journal from and how many pages ?

amazon its a blank page moleskine

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Girl why would you want a nose job omfg please don't!!! Your nose is so perfect and you have a super short philtrum which is a genetic gift (keeps you looking young until an old age!!), if you get a nose job it'll age you and ruin a woman's facial harmony. Look at Kendall Jenner and Kim k, they can't stop blowing up their lips rn because their philtrums are long as hell. You're blessed as hell!

thank u omg😭 its just bc i have a bump so i wanna make it straighter from the side

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have you seen challengers?

not yet but i want to so bad

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what are some good staple shoes for walking around europe? i have ballet flats but i feel like they won’t be that comfortable walking a lot

i only wear ballet flats!! any shoe is comfortable as long as its not too tight or anything

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have u watched the brandy documentary?

no and im not going to idgaf ab brandy anymore i fear

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ur journal post about your standards are so real. GIRLS THAT ARE LOWLEY REPULSED BY SEX RISE UP!!

REAAALL😭 u get me fr

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lola i need ur advice on some boy I met about a month ago!!

We went on dates and I also slept at his and we cuddled and all ( we didn’t kiss yet weirdly but I’m okay with taking things somewhat slow) the thing that worries me a bit is that I’m not feeling nervous when I’m meeting him (I felt that with all the other guys I had smth with but he’s the exception and I’m not sure whether that’s good or bad), I really really like him and felt really fast really comfortable but I feel like there’s a lack of this special tension when we go on dates, maybe it’ll come with time ( that’s what I’m telling myself , because we do indeed not know each other that well yet)

What would you do in my situation lola??

first of all sleeping over at his place is CRAAZYY even if u didn't even kiss😭 but its good that he didn't try anything. feeling comfortable around him is good its how it should be. anxiety doesnt equal attraction. however if what u mean is that u dont feel attracted to him then thats a different thing. i cant step into ur body and know how u exactly feel only u know that. u can like being around people without necessarily liking them any other way. but then it would be just as friends. i think if u like the way it is right now then let it be. ur not doing anything wrong as long as ur comfortable. i do think that when (if he does) eventually kiss u or anything like that u might be more sure on how u feel. however DONT try to speed things up or force anything. but u can be sure that even just kissing someone u don't really like will probably feel disgusting

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lovee your jounral- what other personality types have you pretended to be lol

so entp, entj, estp, istp, and possibly intj because im pretty sure im actually an infj. i just get too deep into character

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what do you write about in your journal

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have you ever watched twin peaks?? feel like it totally fits ur vibe x

yes i wanna live there

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would you ever make a makeup tutorial like vogue beauty secrets style??

probably not