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If therapy did not help you at all, you’re valid.

If therapy made your situation worse, you’re valid.

If you have therapy trauma, you’re valid.

Therapy is often shown as this great thing, and it can be, but please don’t feel invalidated if your therapy experience wasn’t great.

#medical trauma

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Actually sleeping with someone is so nice like waking up in the middle of the night and snuggling closer or lazily giving them a kiss or just feeling their arms around you squeeze slightly even though they're in a deep sleep or handholding while you both are asleep.

#softtt

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It’s so crazy that Till decides to go back because this here

is the happiest we ever see him be.

#I feel this with my whole heart

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"You can have an experience of lacking trust, but you're trusting that. That's the power of paradox. You can feel out of control but you're controlling that. You can feel like you lack confidence, but you're confident about that. You can create an experience of lacking trust, but you're trusting that. If you can trust the untrust, why can't you trust the trust? What's the difference? Whatever you say goes."

#this is silly but this reminds me of thinking to myself #the only thing I'm reliable with is being reliably late #in all seriousness though I do really like this #esp the part about having control about feeling out of control

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"This is what I think. Fanfiction, as long as you're not being too creepy with it, because there is a line - everyone knows what those lines are, don't cross the line - I think it's a great way for people to express their creativity and also read more. Because it's hard to get people to read nowadays. And if you're reading a fanfic, that is increasing your attention span a lot more than a TikTok, so I don't think it's a bad thing. I think obviously the lines are blurred a bit when you're writing about real people, and each individual might feel different levels of comfort about the fact they're being shipped with a fictional character or another YouTuber. I think that's more of a strange grey area. But for me - if you're not being too weird - I am alright with it." - Phil Lester, 2024

(Those lines not to be crossed and not being too weird most likely meaning don't send creators/people fanfic of their works/them and keep it in fandom spaces)

#I was wondering where he means the line is so I'm glad it's being concluded as that #bc after years of being in fandom spaces that's what I took away from the experience #keep everything on its own websites properly tagged #and don't shove it into creators faces #especially if you think it'll make them uncomfortable

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Do not judge yourself for needing rest or for needing even more rest than you usually do. Give yourself what you need to the degree that is possible, and please don’t be harsh on yourself. No one ever needed less rest because someone went “hey! Rest less! How dare you!”. We don’t work like that. And I hope you are met with understanding, love and support. 🌸

#;-;

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:3

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"But why do you let your disability stop you?" Because that's.... what disabilities... do. That's... literally the basic definition... of being disabled... A disability impairs your ability to function. That's what the term means. That's the main thing

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Stray cats 🐈

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"Four days after mayor Gavin Newsom directed city officials to begin issuing marriage licenses to gay and lesbian couples, the line of applicants wrapped around San Francisco's city hall, and into surrounding streets."

We do : a celebration of gay and lesbian marriage (2004)

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this is APPARENTLY a HOT FUCKING TAKE but

i would rather someone live out the rest of their life dependent on or addicted to a pain medication that helps with their pain, than suffer in pain that could be helped for the rest of their life just so self-righteous dicks can say "thank god they're not an addict"

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trans kids we love you, forever and ever!

[ID copied from alt text: Marker art of an adult emperor penguin looking down at it's fuzzy baby. The chick has been coloured in pink, blue, and white, the colours of the trans pride flag, and looks up at the adult. Both look happy. Text reads "I will always love you, no matter what (heart symbol). The background is plain white, and the artist's signature reads @ watercolour critters. End ID.]

Instagram | Etsy | Tip Jar

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“you're so quiet” bro i lost all my communication skills

#lmaooo me fr

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i wasn’t strong enough to survive.

#over and over and over #figuratively and literally #thousands and thousands of times