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High time for another Life Update:

On a waiting list for T, fucking finally. Still living the good stealth life. Had a stint in inceldom, not my proudest moment. Had another stint in /tttt/ for a few months, got out, got off of social media in general. Discord’s the only one left, and I use that for talking to friends and helping people/being helped in the Destiny community.

The stealth life and conformity is nice. Talking about yesterday’s game with the boys and playing FPShooters late into the night. Buying jerseys. Making dick jokes. Threatening to kill ourselves after every exam. Flirting with no intention of following suit. Flirting knowing full well nothing will come of it because he’s straight and you’re not, and you can’t tell if he’s joking when he’s flirting because he does it all the time, and it’s better to say nothing than to risk it all and ask him out and have it not be a joke for once. Roughhousing. Talking about enlisting because of the benefits and the experience. Messing with the machines in the lab. Just being a dude. Feels nice.

Gonna be a published author in a few months. Small piece in a local science fiction magazine, sure, but a published work is a published work. Haven’t made much progress in art. Got big into Destiny 2 and Major League Baseball.

Transmed/tucute discourse is moronic, real transphobes are out there passing transphobic laws and y’all infighting lmao

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Life update:

I’ve dropped out of all trans discourse entirely. If I see that shit happening, I juke outta there. None of my business. I’m just gonna sit here and move on with my life. Still pre-T, which sucks ass, but I’m living well. I’m currently living in the male dorm on a college campus, pass entirely as male to all my new friends, and I can confidently say I’m stealth. I can even get away with passing in a soaking wet swimsuit. Everyone online knows me as a guy. Some day, this’ll all pass, the “LGBT IS TRENDY” thing will pass, and things will be normal. But for the time being, I’m going to keep pretending like it already is. Living good. Peace ✌️

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update: this blog dead ngl

ive dropped out of all the trans communities I was once in except the truscum discord, and even then I rarely go there, living the good life stealth irl, am much happier not debating about trans issues.

my opinions haven’t changed but after deciding to forgo internet arguing for touching grass my emotional state has improved. that is all have a nice day

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Stolen from Reddit, but ^^^^^

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guys I don’t want to be trans anymore. lemme touch scp-113 I promise I’ll be a good cissie dudebro I just want out of these trans politics so I can talk about race or capitalism instead

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Ngl... at this point I just wish I could convince myself to believe and support nb genders and neopronouns and mogai in general so that I can stop wanting to drink bleach every time I open twitter.

I feel the same way.

And I honestly think that’s why it’s such a widely supported concept (online, at least). Because it’s simply easier.

It’s so easy to just not have to have any critical thought about these things, and just nod and smile when you see yet another celebrity come out as nonbinary, or yet another cis girl saying she’s genderfluid.

And it gets even easier; because then you get to be blind to the sexism, homophobia, and transphobia that often comes with this stuff. So you don’t have to deal with seeing these things come from the very people who claim to fight against them.

So you’re nodding and smiling, not having to think critically, and spared from experiencing sexism homophobia and transphobia. And you’re rewarded by not having to deal with the backlash you’d get for doing the opposite. As in, if you do think critically about this stuff, you do notice the bigotry, and you are openly against it—you’re going to be painted as an absolutely terrible person.

So it’s just easier to go with the flow and not ask any questions.

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Lol blaming the gender binary on colonialism is one of the dumbest takes ever. You can’t blame every problem on white people.

But they’ll sure try to 😂

I think blaming gender on white people is incredibly stupid, though. Because I’m fairly certain that ancient peoples who lived before caucasians even existed, knew the difference between male and female, and assigned societal roles based off of these differences.

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i made a pride flag for all the non-dysphoric trans people! i don’t really see any representation, so���here it is!

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tucutes: you can choose what gender you want to be

transphobes: yeah!

tucutes, just different transphobes: so choose trans

transphobes: so choose cis

tucutes: pronouns aren’t gendered

transphobes: yeah!

tucutes: so i can make up any pronouns

transphobes: so i can misgender tr@nnies

tucutes: you dont need dysphoria

transphobes: yeah!

tucutes: so i can be trans whilst being comfortable as my birth gender

transphobes: so theres no reason anyone has to actually be trans

tucutes: i can dress in dresses and be completely feminine and still be seen as a ftm

transphobes: yeah!

tucutes: so i can be a soft femme boii uwu

transphobes: so tr@nnies can look like their birth gender and admit its a delusion

transmeds, whether gnc trans people, gc trans people, gnc cis people, and cis transmeds: they’re like twins

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you know what pisses me off? demedicalization of transsexuality will open the way to completely banning all trans care. if being trans/gender dysphoria is NOT a medical condition, then there is NO REASON to allow for any surgeries/hormones at all. we can get top/bottom surgeries, hormones, etc BECAUSE they are a MEDICAL NECESSITY FOR US. if being trans becomes demedicalized, those surgeries will no longer be medically necessary. not only not covered by insurance, but outright impossible, since no doctor of any kind will approve invasive procedures that remove healthy tissue without a very good medical reason. a doctor doing it anyway would be subject to laws on ‘causing intentional harm’, since in the eyes of the law the procedure was not a medical necessity! the procedure did not help fix a medical issue (since being trans is no longer medical) so it would count as causing harm to a patient for no reason.

ofc, law specifics will be different depending on country (aka idk about US, not from there) but the gist of it is likely the same.

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DNI if you’re a

-dickhead

-here to send insults

-here to fuck around and not find out

interact if you’re a

-person who feels like it and won’t be rude

-transmed

-tucute

-pro lifer

-pro choicer

-terf

-rad centrist

-anti gun control

-tankie

-feminist

-dream stan

-serial killer

-I literally don’t care what your opinions are as long as you aren’t a fuckass

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Another repost from Reddit but this needs to be seen. I promise most of us transmeds aren’t nutjobs and that experiences with the radmeds are red herrings and do not represent the whole and that not all ex-transmed stories are true

#transmed

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Mogai tucutes: Break gender roles! Gender roles do not equal gender!

Also mogai tucutes: Omg so I like she/her pronouns but I feel masculine sometimes so I must be a demigirl!

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Say it with me: YOU CAN SUPPORT REAL DYSPHORIC TRANS PEOPLE, WHILE ALSO ACKNOWLEDGING THAT BIOLOGICAL SEX EXISTS.

It's really not that hard to understand that agreeing with science isn't transphobic.

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What are your views on the existence of non-binary people and why do you feel the way you do?

Non-binary people exist, just like other trans people (MtF and FtM) do.

On the trans debate, I am transmedicalist. I believe that nonbinary people exist in the context of nonbinary gender dysphoria. Nonbinary dysphoria is rarer than binary gender dysphoria, but it does exist. I believe that "gender" identity only exists in the context of dysphoria. For instance, a transman is a dysphoric female (note that I didn't say woman, I said female) but if it helps him to identify himself and present himself as a man because of genuine dysphoria then more power to him.

However, the vast majority of people who claim to be nonbinary, especially these days (as it becomes more of a trend) aren't actually dysphoric, and thus not nonbinary. I firmly believe gender is not a "feeling" and you can't really just "identify" out of your birth sex. Biological sex is real, no matter how you cut it.

Gender dysphoria is a mental illness, and it should first be treated with therapy to ensure that the dysphoria isn't actually some other thing such as body dysmorphia or an ED. Then the therapist should dig into the history of the dysphoric person and talk through their feelings to see if the dysphoria is caused by internalized misogyny/misandry, bullying for being gender non-conforming, abuse, or other traumas. If the dysphoria is not in fact stemming from any of these therapy-treatable things, then the person is in fact trans and will be helped by medical transition. Dysphoria caused by other underlying issues will never be helped by transition and people who transition as a "quick fix" will nearly always regret it.

So, to sum it up, nonbinary dysphoric people exist and they are more than welcome to identify themselves as nonbinary if they want to, but "feeling like a boy sometimes and like a girl other times" is not real NB dysphoria and I will not respect that as a real thing. If you are any flavor of trans, are actually trying to pass, and recognize your biological sex but request that I use he/him, she/her or they/them because of your dysphoria, I have respect for you and I will use your pronouns. If you deny biological sex and don't try to pass, you, my friend, are fucking dumb.

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When you say you are transmedicalist, does that mean you think transgender individuals have brains similar to the opposite sex or simply that gender dysphoria is real?

That gender dysphoria is a real mental disorder, that transition only helps people who genuinely have it, and that you must have that disorder to be transgender.