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How you connect with others: 7th house and 8th house

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When talking about the 8th house in regards to relationships, the first thing that we think of is sex, however the 8th house rules sex because it is all about any type of deeper intimacy in any committed connection. Our 7th house tells us how we relate to others and what type of connections we like to establish with others but the 8th house can tell more about what you need in order to nurture and establish a deeper connection with someone. Of course many other things in the chart are very telling of how you connect with others such as Moon or Venus, but in this post I'll focus on the the 8th house which is all about going past that one-on-one interaction (7th house) to really let the other person in, which is why you may or may not be comfortable with your 8th house energy. This house is very telling of the type of energy you need in order to build trust and strong binding and also how you behave with the people you trust

*Please note:

If you're using placidus and you find that you're in situation where for example you're a water ASC but your 8th house is ruled by water and not air just pay attention to the 7th house description of water asc and the 8th description of fire asc and so on. If your 7th and 8th house are ruled by the same sign for example Virgo, these descriptions still apply cause the following sign (Libra) will still occupy some of the 8th house but you could also relate to the earth 8th house description of air risings

Planets and the rest of the chart will give more nuance and layers to these energies

Earth risings really want to get to know someone on a really deep level due to water DSC. They don't necessarily overshare (they very much can), but they are the ones who can get through to others, they're the type to want to make small talk vulnerable or deep right away and you will notice this with how easy it is for them to get through to others. They are very good listeners and can easily make people feel loved and appreciated even through a casual interaction. They do this because they want to know who someone is deep down so when intimacy comes they feel free enough to show their wilder, adventurous or even childish side without being judged since they have fire 8th house. They want to be pampered back and feel a little "selfish" and free and dominate the situation or their partner doing so. I like to think of it as they charm people in (water 7th house) so they can be adored (fire 8th house) but not in a malicious way of course. The type of dynamic they seek with people they trust always involves playfulness, spontaneity and will definitely be out the door if you judge their personality or ego in some way. If they don't trust you they will be able to stir you up emotionally without showing you their real personality which can result in them leading people on a lot. This does not mean they are fake but since they are earth risings, they are used to keeping it together all the time so they want to be able to let loose during intimacy. They are attracted to people who they find a little daring cause they are looking for someone who takes out their feisty side.

Virgo risings (Pisces 7th house, Aries 8th house) -> their way of making deeper connections is actually very child-like due to the dreaminess mixed with impulsiveness. They can get infatuated quite easily and want a partner that keeps them on their toes always longing. They commit passionately and blindly

Capricorn risings (Cancer 7th house, Leo 8th house) -> they want to feel cared for and pampered so admiration is a big factor here for what makes these natives want to connect more deeply. They are very attentive people and want a partner that respects them and always takes them into account

Taurus risings (Scorpio 7th house, Sagittarius 8th house) -> these people want to go all in in their connections in every aspect, no bs kinda vibe, specially when it comes to intimacy they want to be able to just go wild with their partner, explore the good and the ugly and simply have fun doing so

Fire risings prefer people who give them light-hearted and fun conversations which they genuinely find entertaining and interesting and they’re more open to interacting with all sorts of people due to air DSC. They are easily swayed by other's mind or surface-level charm, but they want to get to know the actual deeper personality of others, so these natives are actually more sentimental than what they may actually look in a casual interaction. Once they've been charmed by someone mentally, when it comes to intimacy they want to feel comfortable enough to show their deeper self and to know each other deeper due to water ruling 8th house. They're the type to want a relationship where you can talk about gossip and their trauma just as comfortably, but they won't trust someone they can only have surface level conversations with or someone who is inconsiderate with their emotional expression or disregards their deeper views of things. As fire risings, they are used to coming across as tough and confident but when it comes to intimacy they need to feel like there's always an open door for vulnerability and softness if they need it. If they don't trust you emotionally, they'll just enjoy having a casual mentally stimulating conversation and then move on, so it's easy for them to come across as charming to many people. They want a connection that has a fun and light-hearted dynamic but with a strong emotional bond underneath it all. These natives are the type to fall for charming and intelligent individuals that are 'softies' on the inside

Sagittarius risings (Gemini 7th house, Cancer 8th house) -> with this mix they definitely will get intimate with someone who says just the right things and verbally comforts them. They want a relationship where they can keep things youthful and emotionally soft with not much turmoil

Aries risings (Libra 7th house, Scorpio 8th house) -> these peeps are the epitome of charming, they want to connect with people that they relate to in some way but will accept and embrace their dark side and secrets, their way of making deep connections is by taking the person into their inner cave with them

Leo risings (Aquarius 7th house, Pisces 8th house) -> these natives have a habit of getting in problematic relationships and romanticizing them for it. They fall for unconventional or chaotic people and then have this "they don't understand that I see past that and I love you for your soul" sort of intimacy

Air risings tend to surround themselves with people that provide them with brand new experiences, people who are entertaining, fun and independent due to their fire DSC. They always want to do new things with the people they like and come in contact with and they also like people who are 'their own person'. These natives are often very blunt and outspoken actually and it's not uncommon for them to be seen as rude, bold or nonchalant sometimes, but as much as they enjoy interacting with stimulating and bold people, when it comes to intimacy and a deeper connection they desire stability and reliability due to earth ruling their 8th house. Basically they won't commit to and specially won't trust someone who is fun but lacks consistency and dependability. Deep down they themselves are very reliable, but they reserve that side of themselves for the people they love and trust, therefore they will commit to a partner that will reciprocate this type of energy. They are very fun people to be around and they're usually rather popular, but once they trust you they will show a more serious and respectful side to them. They will want to connect with people who are independent and stimulating but deep down is chill, low-key and reliable underneath it all. When it comes to deep intimacy they will feel like it's safe to trust someone who shows patience and consistency even if it's not too emotional or fiery. Being air risings, they're very mental normally, so they will like to commit and give themselves to someone that grounds them

Libra risings (Aries 7th house, Taurus 8th house) -> they like spontaneity and indulgence. They are drawn to people who they find immediately attractive and catches their eye, but they like to connect deeply with someone by sharing strong sensuality and calmness that goes beyond a first-time thrill

Aquarius risings (Leo 7th house, Virgo 8th house) -> they love to connect with people who have golden retriever vibe to them and is very loyal and helpful. They will connect deeply with someone by lighting up their day with lots of fun and laughter but also by casually being always there if they need anything

Gemini risings (Sagittarius 7th house, Capricorn 8th house) -> these people love connecting with individuals that bring expansion into their life and will connect deeply with others by giving them some authority. If these people trust you, they will secretly take what you say very seriously

Water risings are quite charming, but they're the type to draw people in while keeping a respectful distance with them. They don't mind being approached but they definitely don't like when people get too close too soon cause they like the process of building a connection. They usually come across as a little serious and stiff when interacting with others and it's not rare for them to keep their social circle small or always interact with the exact same people. This is because they take relationships seriously and like consistency and predictability in their connections and interactions, but when intimacy comes they want to trust someone enough to freely detach due to air ruling the 8th house. They won't commit to someone who is reliable but boring and uninteresting. Being water risings, they are constantly very perceptive of the energies around them, so when it comes to intimacy they will feel very good with someone who they can just take it easy and have a more light-hearted energy. Ironically, these are the most distant and detached risings when it comes to connections and intimacy, but this does not mean they don't love deeply. In fact, this "let's just say, do and talk about whatever, it doesn't matter" side is one they reserve for people who they really trust, that's why they can be dry towards other people who they don't find interesting. These natives usually fall for people who they have to "figure out" in some way sort of like "oh you're reliable and consistant (earth dsc) but I can tell (water asc) that there's more to you and I wanna know more (air 8th house)"

Scorpio risings (Taurus 7th house, Gemini 8th house) -> they definitely want physical attraction paired with some mental thrill so it's common for them to fall for players or be players themselves. They will connect deeply with someone who they can share physical and mental chemistry all in one

Pisces risings (Virgo 7th house, Libra 8th house) -> these natives are naturally very helpful and thoughtful, but they know how to keep to themselves and not give too much. That's why when they connect deeply with someone they're the type to want to share every single with the other person

Cancer risings (Capricorn 7th house, Aquarius 8th house) -> with this double Saturn influence, these natives are the most serious and selective about all their connections, they will feel very connected to someone that gives them a traditional commitment while also opening their minds to new and odd things

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Astrology observations pt 16 (SPICY EDITION)

DISCLAIMER- Placements will not play out the same way for everyone and having challenging placements + aspects does not mean that you are a bad person or that you will have a bad life. Take what resonates and leave what doesn’t

-people with Pisces, Taurus, Libra and Cancer placements (namely venus, mars and the moon) tend to put a lot of importance into aftercare. Not receiving it can straight up ruin the experience for them

-People with Gemini, Scorpio and Sagittarius mars and Lilith tend to have a promiscuous/player image projected onto them whether they actually sleep around or not

-people with Taurus and libra Venus put a lot of importance in the atmosphere during sex (like lighting, candles, aromatherapy, lingerie, etc). They have to feel physically comfortable in the bedroom

-mars, venus or Lilith aspecting uranus can indicate being interested in polyamory, group sex, queer experiences, or just having a lot of sex partners during your lifetime. Either way your sexual experiences or fantasies will be seen as unconventional by many

-a favorable aspect between mars, Venus and Jupiter can indicate a high, almost insatiable sex drive. It can also indicate being well-endowed if the native is a guy

-people with Capricorn mars are all about control, so they may be into sensory deprivation, whether it’s done on them or they do it to their partner

-People with mars in Pisces or mars in aspect with Neptune can easily become addicted to sex itself and/or porn if they’re not careful.

-People with Leo and Aquarius mars may like the idea of getting caught having sex. The latter can go as far as fucking in a public space

-People with mars or Lilith in the 10th house tend to have very high standards when choosing sex partners, and are likely to get accused of sleeping their way to the top

-people with Gemini mars are good at giving massages in general including handjobs

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🤍 astrology observations

Rising sign edition:

-Gemini risings always look younger than they are. Alternatively they may just change up their look often to the point that they look like a whole different person 2 years later

-Capricorn risings age so well. They’ve got really good bone structure too as Capricorn rules the bones.

-Due to this generation having Pluto in Sagittarius, those with Sagittarius risings may have people obsessed with them.

-Speaking of Sagittarius risings, why do they all lowkey look like horses (in the best way possible).

-Libra risings can be even more of people pleasers than libra suns. Since your rising sign is always in your 1st house (appearance, self worth, identity), those with libra risings may become obsessed with their image and so they attempt to please everyone around as they have a desperate need for approval:

-Aquarius risings have a strong sense of justice and will fight for the underdog. They always make people feel welcome (this goes for all Aquarius placements). They also have a really unique sense of style. Trendsetters!

-Taurus risings have the worst rbf. They’re also really mellow and cool type of vibes. Major 🍃 energy

-Virgo risings can be really into animals. They come off reserved and shy but they’re really not.

-What’s with Leo risings and having really thick hair (like a lion?) also all Leo risings naturally attract attention wherever they go.

-Aries risings attract attention from the opposite gender like a magnet. All fire risings naturally attract attention but Aries risings can have a lot of potential suitors due to their confidence.

-Cancer risings have Disney princess eyes. A lot can have round, circular faces with plump cheeks!

-Scorpio risings go through a lot of death and rebirth through their life.

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Venus in the composite houses👄💕

How you come together

As I commented in my last observation post (which by the way thanks for all the love on it!), Venus in the composite can indicate what area of life the couple usually gets together, how or where they usually come together. There are more indicators for this, but as you can imagine Venus is one of the most important things to look at in a composite and it’s always interesting to dig in all the possible meanings. As I also promised in my previous observation post about relationships, here’s a brief description of Venus on each house in the composite chart, responding to the question how the couple usually gets together.

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Venus in the 1st house in the composite: it’s always the two of you together. You guys always count on eachother to go everywhere and to share everything 👩🏽‍🤝‍👨🏼

Venus in the 2nd house in the composite: you guys could make money together, go shopping, enjoy meals together, share something artistic, enjoy relaxation activities 💅🏼

Venus in the 3rd house in the composite: you guys come together when you, chat, share opinions and learn from each other. Intelectual bond. Could also live close to each other and gossip every now and then🗣

Venus in the 4th house in the composite: you guys get together at home and you could be involved with each other’s families. You could also be very interested in eachother’s past, roots, etc. Very common in couples that wanna have/be a family together 👨‍👩‍👧

Venus in the 5th house in the composite: no matter what you guys do you always have fun and laugh. Could share a lot of leisure time together constantly waking up the child inside you! 💃🏻

Venus in the 6th house in the composite: could work well together or be coworkers. Very common in couples that have some sort of routine together bc they see each other on the daily, at the same days at the same hours etc. 🚶🏻

Venus in the 7th house in the composite: I’ve noticed this is very common in couples that like to collaborate, every time they are together they are collaborating somehow. To them it’s natural being together and usually they see eye-to-eye. 👥

Venus in the 8th house in the composite: well, the obvious: sex. But this placement could also mean either one or both could be the other’s therapists. You get together by sharing your deepest darkest secrets *evil laugh* 😈

Venus in the 9th house in the composite: you get together abroad, at university or by sharing philosophical/religious view. You like living exiting experiences together, things that give adrenaline rushes even. This could also indicate a long-distance relationship 🎢

Venus in the 10th house in the composite: You guys could like be seen together in public. You like to be serious together and work towards something together, you guys like the idea of achieving or building something together 👩🏽‍💻

Venus in the 11th house in the composite: you get together through a sharing group of friends or community, that’s mostly the most common scenario. Also, I’ve seen this a lot in people that bond through having the same quirks 👩🏼‍🎤

Venus in the 12th house in the composite: you guys could come together in your dreams. Literally. But the most common scenario with this placement is a “can’t be together” vibe and so the getting together comes in the form of a platonic longing. I’ve also noticed with this placement that the couple gets together in a way that is totally out of their control (like never knowing exactly when or how).🧚‍♀️

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Venus in Aries The girl who knows how to set hearts on fire romance with venus in aries is like jumping aboard a merry-go-round and re-discovering your childhood. there is good natured rivalry and playful pranking. venus in aries will test your physical, emotional, and psychological limits. everything moves fast and furious, they show you secret worlds inside of this one. plenty of rare qualities, but venus in aries can certainly cause a headache. they generate intense pressure inside their own head when they become agitated. and they unconsciously will it in the direction of their anger - straight toward the lover. never a dull moment, rarely a moment of boredom. they will breathe fire in a rampage, and it’s your own fault if you were standing in the path of their fury 

Venus in Taurus The girl who makes people fall in love with classical beauty again  romance with venus in taurus is largely a sensual and physical experience. there is great pleasure in tantalising the lover’s tastebuds, intimate massage, and generating a powerful carnal desire for each other’s flesh. your body won’t let you forget the touch and tactile memory of venus in taurus. their aroma can stay under your nose for days, you can sense their vacancy and absence as much as their presence. you can hear the empty silence swallowing the sound of her whistling, humming, and singing. it can be hard to go back to sleeping alone because they filled a space beside you that is now so void and hollow. 

Venus in Gemini The girl who spellbinds with her spelling  venus in gemini doesn’t have the emphasised multiplicity like gemini suns and ascendants, but the personality is experimental and flexible enough to try everything before they buy anything, and the same goes for romantic interests. they can decide with lightning speed if their date is worth half a second more of their time. they find it almost impossible to get lovers out of their mind and think about them all the time. most of their conversations will revolve exclusively around this person. falling asleep by the side of venus in gemini can be purely enchanting, late night conversation is deliriously hypnotic like their final words for the day are written like poetry across the tongue

Venus in Cancer: The girl who invites the moon for sleepovers  venus in cancer romance can be quite old fashioned and reflective of family values. if venus in cancer is on good terms with the parents they will be very observant of how well you interact and fit into the family dynamic. the opinion of family is often influential. the person will also be very attentive to the way you treat children, animals, retail workers, and waiters. venus in cancer won’t take very long to begin planning a life, future, and family with you. one of the favourite past times in this relationship is eating out, cooking together while the sun goes down, and enjoying meals together. they value simplicity, closeness, and basic company more than anything grand and opulent.   

Venus in Leo: The girl with a heart of gold love elevates the individual to the top of the world. the energy of venus with leo is unity and heart, so they are not looking for solo stardom. they want to bask their lover with honey sun, sit together in the heat of the day sharing wine, good music, affection, laughter, dreams, and memories. venus in leo can turn every romantic encounter and experience into a royal gala, they know how to make people feel important and indispensable, like queens and descendants of royalty. and they can make just about anybody fall in love with them, they have a charismatic sultriness, playful sense of humour, sensitivity, and a golden auric glow. romance with venus in leo feels like the sun is shining brightly everyday. so the good times are ultra good, and when they are happy you will feel like you are on top of the world. but when they are miserable, have no doubt you will be sorrowfully miserable too 

Venus in Virgo: The girl whose heart was caged in her mind you know how just about every romantic movie has a story about two people with undeniable chemistry, compatibility, and attraction and if only they revealed their true feelings to one another they could be happy together 5 years ago? this is a good re-enactment of a venus in virgo scenario. the ideal relationship can be in the clasp of their hands, the words on the tip of the tongue, and the heart and mind paralyse. venus in virgo are unconditional lovers. they are very unlikely to leave a partner due to illness, unemployment, or even addiction. they integrate people into their life, ritual, and thinking patterns so they typically stick by people regardless of how challenging the circumstance. they always provide a shoulder to lean on

Venus in Libra: The girl everyone wants to know  the venus in libra essence evokes people’s carnal desires, secret temptations, the image of their dream lover. strangers can routinely comment that the venus in libra person ‘reminds’ them of someone they know or will insist they have met before. associates and strangers construct the image of venus in libra a large amount of imaginative input, so people can be quite shocked that the person they meet is so different to who or what they expected. there is typically a natural sense of style and classy social conduct, their glamour can remind you of the golden hollywood age.  

Venus in Scorpio: The girl who hides deep inside you  you will rarely experience anything with the same intensity as a venus in scorpio relationship. ending a relationship with a venus in scorpio can also be a grieving period, they take a part of the lover’s soul with them and cherish them like special keepsakes. the powerful arousing, spirit sensational, cosmic central experienced with venus in scorpio can make people feel like they will never be truly satisfied again, or the person who walked out was completely different from the person that walked in. they wrangle your hidden fantasies, rituals, and desires out from your hiding place. there is no place inside you that is safe 

Venus in Sagittarius: The girl that fell in love with the world  you will never truly have a venus in sagittarius lover all to yourself, their first and foremost lover is the kiss of the sun, the cool cleanse of the sea, the landscapes that call to her spirit and want her to visit home. it’s definitely possible for venus in sagittarius people to connect, settle, and commit. but sagittarius is law, and there are a few laws to be imposed in their relationship. the playground is to be open all hours, there is to be no jealousy or attempts to control or belittle, the house is to have big rooms with big windows and lots of fresh air and savings go toward traveling, holidays, and spontaneous expenditures. they question the smallness of your dreams and make unplanned moments meaningful life experiences. 

Venus in Capricorn: The girl with the ancient heart  you can have an aged, intangible photographic memory of intimate experiences with a venus in capricorn because it seems like time stops or disappears completely. there is something timeless about their love, their heart is encased in the antiquity of amber resin that preserves eternity. and they really make a whole new little world just for the both of you. they are devoted for the long term, and they will do just about anything to make it work. your success is their success, and they want the relationship to bring out the best potential in both people. of all their formidable dreams and ambitions, establishing a beautiful life with you is the greatest.  

Venus in Aquarius: The girl whose love is pure madness romance with venus in aquarius is like riding a cosmic rollercoaster looping through galaxies. nothing will ever be the same again after experiencing their love, everything can seem mundane and tedious in comparison. you rarely experience the same day twice, and it can be difficult not to lose control as you become whipped in their complex and fascinating web. your mind is opened with your heart and life becomes a continuous act of spontaneity. they find something unique and special about you to love, and they help you to discover who you truly are. what you once cared about now seems so small 

Venus in Pisces: The girl who cried and drowned Hawaii venus in pisces has a reputation for peace and harmony, but nothing is really still and stable about their union. they unveil a universe of possibilities and unrealities, you can find yourself questioning your beliefs, sanity, and the legitimacy of your experiences. they can be unpredictable in the sense that you are loved by someone different everyday, their emotional temperament sways their emotional needs and conduct. the heart chameleon, psychic, and wild. it makes their love a very creative, dreamy, imposing, consuming and influential union that can be very difficult to separate from because it reminds you of a place you wish you never left 

-C.

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3 Stages of Love - Virgo ♡

In the 1st stage of love Virgos spend a lot of time thinking about you. It can be impossible to push these obsessive thoughts out of their mind, so they can seem internalised and detached when they are rather devoured by you. They take a great pleasure in getting to know your interests and asking endless questions like they are trying to read your manual. Virgos at this stage are also quite reticent to let their defences down and reveal their flaws. They have already recognised yours, and they love you anyway, but worry you may not do the same. They make a lot of comparisons between your good qualities and their downfalls, and they may fear your rejection or criticism so intensely that they appear disengaged and non-affectionate 

In the 2nd stage of love Virgo begin to express their sensuality and forbidden desires. They are tenderly and thoughtfully affectionate and listen intently to the intimate sounds and motion of their partner’s body so they can provide the ultimate pleasure. Virgo is very sexually responsive at this stage, but the self-consciousness is typically still present and they can still demonstrate a shyness, embarrassment, or tendency to cover up. The relationship during this period may also provoke anxieties for Virgo that are difficult to manage. They may fear the pain of the break up and the concept of their daily life without the person in it and self-destruct in the process 

In the 3rd stage of love Virgos let down their final guard - the mind. This opens up a wealth of limitless and arousing conversation and verbal intimacy for the pair to relish. Inside these conversations the Virgo begins to expose their secrets, their concerns, and the incompetencies they assumed that should you know existed you would leave. From here the insecurities that plagued them slowly dissolve and their freedom invites their playful, inquisitive, and considerate nature. They integrate you into their routine and find every possible tiny gesture to demonstrate their love and thoughtfulness, such as make sure they leave the light on, do the chores you detest the most, and take tender care of you when you are sick. They will also dedicate and devote much of their resources into being your safe and supportive place, they want to be someone you can always depend on

-C.

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virgo exists in a tension between the volume of leo and the seamless transparency of libra. there can be difficulty separating love with conditions and the sense that socially and relationship-wise they are too much or nothing at all. sometimes the appearance of shyness is rather a complex about being too forceful, overbearing, talking too much, and attention seeking. virgo’s desire to separate from the control and narcissism of the ego is undone by their own self-consciousness and resonance that spends a lot of time and energy thinking, commenting, and critiquing themselves. relationships accompany tremendous responsibility that can leave virgo feeling quite inadequate - such as when they can’t ‘fix’ or ‘rescue’ someone. they can also see their biggest flaws beside the partner, and the desire to repair or change  such inadequacies tends to threaten the human qualities and conditions that were fallen in love with from the start. the added tragedy can be a preoccupation with potential issues and fractures, a lack of faith that defends disappointment, and so when or if the relationship ends their old complexes and defects are once again proven correct 

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Virgo - Healing a Hole in the Heart Sun, Moon, Venus in Virgo, Venus in the 6th house

In between the two ‘L’ signs of love we find Virgo. From the Leo’s thunderous throne in the heart follows Venus falling in Virgo, before Venus returns to reign supreme in the airy Libra butterfly.

It means the Virgo heart can fall very hard and fast in love. It’s not an inability to love. It’s more like trouble measuring the correct dose, and too easily over, or under dosing and ingesting toxic effects. The trouble is separating ‘love’ from ‘conditions and expectations’, and the resonance of being ‘too much’, or ‘never enough’. A Virgo’s shyness often suggests deeply imbedded complexes, such as appearing too being forceful, overbearing, annoying, or attention seeking. Her task is taming the Leo’s ego into subordination so intimate relationships are possible for the 7th and 8th house. And yet it comes undone in all the time and energy spent overthinking, commenting, and self-critiquing. She temporarily hands back control to the ego to be devalued this time, rather than be gushingly idealised.

Relationships accompany tremendous responsibilities that reinforce historic insecurities when she can’t live up to them - such as desiring to ‘fix’ or ‘rescue’ someone but lacking progress. Her flaws may stand-out to her more than ever standing beside the partner. The longing change, rearrange, or repair them can also unstitch person her partner fell in love with. ‘Self-improvement’ can threaten everything coming from self-contempt rather than self-value, so then she can prove herself correct about how ‘unloveable’ she is again and again. Though the Virgo who learns how to fly when she is falling with Venus writes a secret, sacred, and safe love story. It’s totally surreptitious and behind the scenes, away from the glare and fanfare, the right lover always finds her hiding place.

Cherry

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𖦊ᴜʀᴀɴᴜꜱ ɪɴ ᴛʜᴇ ʜᴏᴜꜱᴇꜱ

𖤜 wєℓ¢σмє тσ му αησтнєя αѕтяσℓσgу ρσѕт αвσυт υяαηυѕ тняσυgн тнє нσυѕєѕ.

𖤜 Yσυ ¢αη ¢αℓ¢υℓαтє тнє ρℓα¢ємєηт σƒ υяαηυѕ ιη уσυя ¢нαят ву ¢ℓι¢кιηg нєяє

𖤜 αℓѕσ, ∂σ тєℓℓ ιη тнє ¢σммєηтѕ σя яєвℓσgѕ αвσυт ωнαт яєѕσηαтє∂ αη∂ ωнαт ∂ι∂η'т

𝓕𝓲𝓻𝓼𝓽 𝓗𝓸𝓾𝓼𝓮

This placement indicates someone who stays ahead of their time and is bound to do things that are considered " unusual" in the society. These people tend to be those people who makes sure that everyone around them are listening to them, which can sometimes come off as very selfish on the other person's part.

These people are always looking for what to do next and have already made plans for the coming next 5 years . Once they are sure of their stand on any topic, they will stand by it and will not get influenced by others, no matter what. Journeys or lessons start for them very unexpectedly and end when they least expect it to be.

People always found it hard to describe them as a person or to calculate their next movement because they are very unpredictable. Some of them even put minimalistic efforts in dressing up or looking good for a party or occasion.

Also, this is what they are. They are not hiding anything from the general masses just for the sake of coming off as mysterious because what they are from the inside is what they show to the world. Now, Aries rules the actual 1st house energy, so think about the combo of Uranus with Aries energy, it's an explosion of energy and ideas to do something that has never been done before.

They can have deep set eyes. I have noticed it too in the case of Johnny Depp. You can see that his eyes are quite deep set and they are fierce because of Uranus and Mars Conjunction in his very first house.

𝓢𝓮𝓬𝓸𝓷𝓭 𝓗𝓸𝓾𝓼𝓮

Money can be something that remains very unstable throughout their life. Sometimes, they learn a loads of money and sometimes, it's very less. These people don't really save up much for the future unless Saturn positively aspects Uranus because Saturn is a planet of discipline, therefore, an aspect of it, will make these people save up quite a bit for the future.

They don't really care from where the money, for them, they just need to earn money, somehow for the sake living a life. Also , they are not really drawn about having loads of material things in their life, they remain quite detached to those things throughout the life. Because this is their way of showing their freedom loving nature by not being detached to money or material possessions

They have the talent to earn money in a way that the general masses may find it unusual or very different. Routine jobs or traditional jobs in an office or companies is what takes down their creativity. As long as they are able to do something that satisfies their creativity level, these people will not care about how much they are earning.

These people may have sudden up and down in finding their self worth of confidence. One day they are all confident and the other day, the confidence level is steeping down.

Also, people with this placement, may change up the interiors of their house out of nowhere or very sudden

𝓣𝓱𝓲𝓻𝓭 𝓗𝓸𝓾𝓼𝓮

Uranus in 3rd house people can often change their communication style a lot. One day , they are speaking in this time and the other day, their style changes drastically.

Since, 3rd house also rules early education in the chart, therefore, it can indicate that the person was kind of a rebel or uncooperative child when they were in school level education. Teachers and other staffs found it difficult to make the child co-operate with them on daily basis.

3rd house in astrology also rules siblings, brothers, and even neighbours. Therefore, it indicates having a very unusual kind of relationship with the siblings or neighbours. Now, this will depend on the sign and aspects that Uranus will be getting which will determine how good or bad the relationship with siblings and neighbours are. But surely, it would something that the common folks don't experience in their day to day life.

Also, the ideas or thoughts these people get are erratic, something that is not ready for the people to accept yet, as I told " futuristic thinking" and their thinking lacks boundaries and limits . They will want others to hear their thoughts out and listen to them.

Now, this is something that came to me out of nowhere, you know the 3rd house has the energy of Gemini in it, and the symbol of Gemini is that of a twin, therefore, these people can have different thought process going on at the same time. It's like under a particular situation, they would have different ways to process it but that is not confusion or indecisiveness at all.

𝓕𝓸𝓾𝓻𝓽𝓱 𝓗𝓸𝓾𝓼𝓮

This placement indicates having unconventional relationship with the parents or any guardian that took care of the person having this placement. Something just didn't put right when they were with their parents/guardians. They must have always wanted to live at a place that is away from where their parents live.

Also, the relationship with the parents or guardians may have been quite unstable, now the sign placement and aspects that Uranus will be getting will tell if it was instability was to a good or bad extent.

Such people may not have proper place to call it their permanent home or house or city or town. They either travelled a lot or moved a lot which can be due to their parents or they themselves did it for some reason. They may even have many houses built at different places and they stayed at different houses at different periods or intervals of time.

These people may not have followed the rules , disciplines ,etc. set up by the parents or elders in the house during their childhood. They hated following ancestry or obeying their parents at once. They probably didn't like getting orders from the elders and wanted utmost freedom in the house . Always asking reasons behind every ritual followed by thir elders.

It was difficult for others to become thier close person because they naturally didn't want to depend on someone or be vulnerable around them. They didn't want others to see their emotions. Even if they did allow some people to come close to them , the number was limited to 3 or 4 or not much.

𝓕𝓲𝓯𝓽𝓱 𝓗𝓸𝓾𝓼𝓮

Uranus in the 5th house may have relationships that started abruptly and ended in the same way. There's always this feeling of " unpredictability" lying around their love or other kind of relationships. This is either be a turn off or on to them depending upon the sign and other aspects on Uranus

Also, these people have a promiscuous kind of air around them. They attract a lots of potential love interests to them and may even gotten into two or more love affairs at the same time because these people like experiment or experience things a lot

They have heightened sense to project their creativity in a way which could let the masses know that they crave freedom to the core. The kind of people who hate it if their parents forced them to learn piano , when they love guitar because creativity swirls around their fingers only when it's something to their liking.

These placement also indicates a chance of accidental pregnancy because these people are always out there trying different heights in love relationship with their partners, craving that soothing love, therefore, accidental pregnancy can be a case here.

Their ultimate self expression is letting out their inner child and projecting it with the help of their creativity. They love reviving their childhood memories and living them once again. Also, these people may have a liking towards older partners because the 5th house has the energy of Leo ruled by Sun, therefore someone older than them and very energetic can be their type.

𝓢𝓲𝔁𝓽𝓱 𝓗𝓸𝓾𝓼𝓮

This can indicate that someone who can have work colleagues from different backgrounds or places or each of them are quite different from each other. They have something that makes them very distinguished from each other.

Also, the person with this placement can have suffers from criticisms in the work environment from time to time , as they are not someone who follows the rules and regulations of the organisation. The bosses or superiors find it hard to make them work in a routine job or in a particular way that they want.

People with this placement can increasing and decreasing levels of dedication towards their work. Sometimes they are all up for new challenges and thriving hard to secure promotion or become that big shot and sometimes they just want to do nothing and pack their bags and run off.

They can be the kind of people who bring up the most unusual ideas or suggestions in a staff or organisation meeting. Something that is helpful for the future but may not be that reliable as per the current situations. Also, these people can have tight, near and organized schedule that can be hard to imagine by any other person who doesn't have this placement.

𝓢𝓮𝓿𝓮𝓷𝓽𝓱 𝓗𝓸𝓾𝓼𝓮

Now, these people are the kind who cannot be tied down in any relationship no matter what. They will give you space, they will give time to think,etc but once you try to control them or suppress their ideas or opinions, they are ready to walk out of the relationship. It eats them in inside if they are forced to live in a relationship which doesn't allow self expression.

They maybe the kind of people who would love to be in open relationships with no strings attached, then again , I must , not everyone will having this placement, will agree to this because this is just a basic interpretation. Open relationships can be intriguing to them because they always have the option to walk out of the relationship if things didn't work and don't feel guilty about it at all.

Also, their ideas and thoughts on the type of relationship or marriage they want, was built up gradually as there is a chance or probability that they didn't like how the relationship between their parents was like and wanted something different from them. I must say Uranus is a generational planet, your ideas on marriage and it's working may develop as you grow up.

They may not like possessive partners or partners who give off play boy or play girl kind of vibe. They need someone who is known for their work or their skills. Careless or reckless partners may turn them off.

Also, they are the kind of people who were viewed as very different, unapproachable or unpredictable by their friends or other people in their community. Some people may have been intimidated by their eyes a lot cuz they were kinda deep or gave " don't f with me " vibes.

𝓔𝓲𝓰𝓱𝓽𝓱 𝓗𝓸𝓾𝓼𝓮

This is very psychic and powerful house for Uranus to be in. People with Uranus in this house can have lots of unusual dreams or premonitions. These become very often in their day to day life

Also, there is a high chance that the finances of this people can become unstable due to their marriage or their spouse or in laws or business with partners or getting in a deep relationship with any person. Also, these people may already have some pre based ideas on their own d*ath in their present life time. As I told that Uranus in this house is extremely powerful and psychic, therefore, many of the people having this placement, can undergo this.

These people can seem as detached and have an air of aloofness or coldness around them. Also, they tend to attract people who try to control them in their life. Maybe it's because that the 8th house possesses the energy of Scorpio that the people they meet in their life are possessive and controlling.

These people are always open to any kind of occult or magic or mysticism that come in their way. They can be very much interested in astrology, tarot, occult, witchcraft , etc. Even though , they may not perform themselves but seeing those kind of makes them feel rejuvenated for some reason.

𝓝𝓲𝓷𝓽𝓱 𝓗𝓸𝓾𝓼𝓮

9th house Uranus people are those who made their own book of world principles and followed them. Old thought process or principles that restricted them to expand their horizon , they will get rid of all of them. There's this urge of changing those old set rules which doesn't fit in their sense of humanity.

Also, these people may find it hard to settle at one place for long. Today, they are here and the next day, they are all set to go on a new journey and explore that place to their satisfaction. There's this urge to keep exploring certain places and keep on experiencing new cultures and new traditions.

Also, these people are always out there asking or finding reasons behind certain theories that are existing in this society. They will study those theories deep but if they find that those theories are contradictory to their own perspective, then it's no longer their subject of interest to go through those theories anymore.

Also, their belief system or perspective are bound to change quickly. Like if they believe on something and decide on follow it for years but the next day, you will find them,following something else because they got influenced by it. Therefore, its hard for them to stick to one particular belief system or perspective. Kind of person to change their viewpoints from time to time. They will be happy and contented around those people with whom they share the same belief system otherwise, it's a feeling of being trapped.

Their higher studies can include doing courses in computer programming or software engineering, etc. but it can also be a hobby. Uranus is a very progressive planet and since 9th house indicates higher learning or studies, therefore, it is natural that many of them having this placements, can go for such types of courses.

𝓣𝓮𝓷𝓽𝓱 𝓗𝓸𝓾𝓼𝓮

These people always had problems with their reputation being very unstable. Sometimes, people liked them so well that they were worshipped and sometimes they were criticised a lot by the public because of their reputation. It's always an up and down in their reputation or fame. The good example of this can be Donald Trump, his reputation is always at stake , sometimes getting appreciated and sometimes criticised.

Their job/work can include doing something in the technical field or something that requires them to use gadgets. This can also indicate owning a company which deals in electronic gadgets if the other placements in the chart supports too. But at the same time people with this Uranus can be found in political sector too, as they standing up for social causes too. Also, it's common for them acknowledge their talents in different fields of life later in their life.

This people can also have problems with the authorities as they don't seem to follow the orders of the superiors. They like to mould and reshape things in their own way to give their own touch , therefore, working under someone or superiors can give them stress or it can give stress to the superiors. Therefore, it would be better if they try to open up their own company or something like this. Even if they open up their own company, you would see them dealing in a large varieties of things and not just one.

Also, since 10th house represents father too or the parent that was quite dominant in their house, therefore, it can be indicated that these people either had an unstable relationship with that parent, or maybe that parent dealt in same kind of profession that they are doing.

𝓔𝓵𝓮𝓿𝓮𝓷𝓽𝓱 𝓗𝓸𝓾𝓼𝓮

Uranus in 11th house people have friends that belonged to different backgrounds or had different personalities. It can also mean that these people constantly changed their friends circle from time to time, leaving them having people from different areas of life. It is also quite important for them to find friends who matches their level of humour or taste in life. This can also indicate that person felt lonely when they dragged in a large group of people.

Since 11th house already has the energy of Aquarius in it, these people can use up their free time on internet, bonding with different people who shares the same thoughts and opinions as them. They are the kind of people who will post regular stuffs on internet just to let people know their perspective without asking anything in return.

Also, 11th house Uranus can indicate that the person, in order to , do something unique or like something, they just straight up refuse to do or like those things that are done by the common folks. For eg, people in your area likes A video game, even though, you like that video game too, but you will knowingly purchase B video game , just to look different or unique.

These people can also be into humanitarian works and doing charity from time to time since this house already possesses the energy of Aquarius in it. Since 11th house also represents the earnings of a person out of their job, therefore, it can indicate that these people have unstable income from their job, sometimes, their job pays them too well and sometimes, it's too less to cover up their expenses.

These people are the types to stand up for any societal causes as they naturally feel drawn to them. They may also have an instagram page or Twitter page, or any other social media account where they make people aware about the societal problems going on in the prevailing situations.

𝓣𝔀𝓮𝓵𝓯𝓽𝓱 𝓗𝓸𝓾𝓼𝓮

So, this placement is again a very psychic and intuitive placement for Uranus to be in. This house has the energy of pisces in it, which represents dreams, premonitions, and related to spirituality and stuffs. So, having this placement , can expect getting dreams related to what can happen in the near future. Sometimes, the intensity of this can be too much for the person to handle. Also, there's a tendency to get confused that whether whatever they saw through dreams is something important or not.

Stuffs related to spirituality and it's concept can be purely different for such people as compared to what common folks believe. I just remembered how someone told me that they didn't believe in void state meditation even though they have been into spirituality for years, until they themselves tried it. Therefore, they are not someone who will believe the already made up concepts of spirituality.

They are ready to help people without asking anything in return. It's an urge to become helpful to other fellow. Also, they would try their best to remain anonymous while lending a helping hand to others. They are those people who will work behind the scenes. But they won't ask for help from others even when they themselves need it the most.

Since, 12th house also signifies hidden enemies in astrology, therefore, these people can encounter sudden enemies out of nowhere. Also, these people think that the only way to keep their freedom intact is through isolation. Therefore, these people mostly spend their time all by themselves.

These people are more of observers than doing something out of blue. Also, these people are extremely sensitive to their environment and even to the other people of living beings around them, making them very selfless.

[eight-house]

— astro observations ༊*·˚

honestly, these are more random than anything specific.

- fuck the stress of virgos! have you ever seen a pisces when something doesn't go their way?

talking about that the 'angel face, secretly devil' goes to pisces, not cancer

cancer is the 'openly devil but kind to everyone so everyone just loves them'

capricorns cry easier than a child

if ur a libra rising how are those anger issues going for you?

if ur an aquarius moon i beg you to show your feelings once in your life i promise you almost getting run over by a car is a valid reason /hj

show me an aries without headaches! thats right you cant!

gemini venus can you like not cry over them? you were the one who rejected them!

virgos are onto older people 80% of the time especially if they are assigned female at birth

capricorns are the opposite

please hear out scorpio venuses they are always lied against for no reason

cancers have the most confidence in their body but also will cry if they get rejected by that one person at the gas station

sagittarius and libra risings over use emojis a lot

people born in october are always generally well liked by their circle no matter if they are an introvert or extrovert

a leo is probably mad rn that they arent included

jkjk, leos actually have a great tendency to do very well in sports!

ohh you are a capricorn? how is everyone trying to have a say on your business going?

tauruses are extremely good singers or insanely horrible ones and no inbetween

people born in the first half of any month are more likely to be intjs

october libras are very passionate about arts

while september libras are passionate too, but they are more easy going and chill

sagittariuses are more likely to become toxic parents

for a placement called aquarius they sure can't swim:/ i don't care where it is, they either can't or are not good at it!

most scorpios are very confident in their identity so aren't scared to present as something that's not usual for their assigned sex at birth

virgos are more likely to grow up with a toxic personality and become a better person to please someone they are in love with!

sagittariuses and cancers are the exact opposite! while they both have the concept of 'i would do anything for you' they have view of 'even if it means destroying myself'

on another note! scorpio and aries in the 7th house are more likely to become asexual! (or be on the spectrum)

- that's it, thank you for reading.

[eight-house]

Asteroid Cupido (763)

Asteroid Cupido (763) represents what you truly desire in a partner, and how you behave when you are attracted to them. It also showcases how you inspire desire/attraction from others and how you show love to others. In Greek mythology, Cupid is the son of Aphrodite and Mercury, which explains why he’s the God of Love, and struck people with his arrows of love. This is a great asteroid to look at in terms of relationships and synastry.

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Aspects

Cupido-Sun/5th

Conjunction/These placements may be into PDA or are not afraid of showing affection to their partner in front of others. They may also proclaim their desire/crush for someone publicly, or publicly pursue someone. They’re shameless when it comes to dating, and put the limelight on their love life.

Opposition/ These placements may be attracted to more introverted types as it gives them more opportunity to shine. They never have to worry about their partner stealing their limelight and whether they will openly admit this is 🥶. Another story.

Square/ These placements may go for people that have a different social/class difference to them. They remind me of the Popular Jock and Innocent Nerd trope. They may behave as though they would never go for certain people, and then shock the whole world with who they’re dating.

Sextile/ These placements really do not care for social status. They love simply because they love. They’re not superficial in the slightest and are very humble dedicated lovers. They may move when they get into serious/long term partnerships.

Trine/ These placements definitely place social status on a pedestal. They’re attracted to popular and extroverted individuals, because they secretly want to be like them. They make experience silent competitions with their partner.

Cupido-Moon/4th

Conjunction/ You tend to date someone AFTER you have emotionally invested in them. This is why these placements fall for people in their close friendship circles, or someone they may have known from childhood. Don’t let your need for familiarity keep you in toxic scenarios.

Opposition/ These placements desire someone who is unafraid of intimacy. You want someone who can clearly express their feelings. This in turn makes you feel more comfortable to express your feelings. You rarely ever make the first move.

Square/ These placements may go for individuals who are emotionally unavailable. They enjoy seeing the good in everyone, and attract toxic partners. This is because they have a very warm and inviting aura.

Sextile/These placements are SO nurturing 🥺. They take care of their loved ones so well and love being a safe spot for their partner. They will make you feel so pampered and loved. The type of partners to give you a foot massage after a long day at work😩😍.

Trine/These placements can be real clingy when they like someone. #SorryNotSorry🤣 or they may act completely disinterested to hide how strongly they feel for someone. Some people are attracted to that, others not so much…🥶

Cupido-Mercury/3rd/6th

Conjunction/ These placements may text/call/talk to their crush a lot. They will try to do absolutely anything to enter their orbit, and will hang around the places their crush hangs around. This is all in an effort to get to know them more.

Opposition/ These placements are not really shy or ashamed of who they like. They’re pretty honest, so they most likely will just tell you how they feel, or you can just tell by the way they behave. They’re like an open book, and maybe more touchy-feely towards you than anyone else.🥵

Square/ A NERVOUS RAMBLING MESS!🤣🤣 These placements simply do not know how to behave around their crush. They get so tongue tied and will overthink every interaction with them. If their crush compliments them they will most definitely remember it till the end of time.

Sextile/ These placements may focus on education or their career before even getting into a relationship. They may stay single for a long time, or find love later in life. The worth of their future partner/current partner is most definitely worth the wait.

Trine/ Their partner may be really intelligent or excelled in school. These people enjoy having insightful and woke conversations with their partner. They will discuss current topics and know all world events. These placements when in a partnership may also be invited to loads of social events with their partner.People will love being around you guys.

Cupido-Venus/2nd/7th

Conjunction/ AWW! Mother meets son here🤣. These placements may have a mother who is very overprotective over their dating life. Their mother may have only allowed to start dating after a certain age, or supervised them on early dates. These placements may also have their mother heavily advise them on who to date and who not to date.

Opposition/ SO BEAUTIFUL. These placements may attract overprotective or controlling partners. Everyone seems to want you, and your partner cannot let that run, so they may tell you to cover up more or never allow you to go out on your own. Be careful of this turning toxic. Your partners need to learn how to trust you.

Square/ These placements can be very insecure, and unsure if they’ll ever find love. They spend so long trying to be attractive that it ends up being counterproductive. Their parents may arrange a marriage for them, or introduce them to their future spouse.

Sextile/ These placements are very attractive and their spouse adores them. However, it may take a while before their family ends up adoring or approving of their future partner. Make sure your family respects your partner or they may end up sabotaging it for you.

Trine/ These placements definitely have their pick of suitors and do not put in any effort in attracting people. People just naturally love them. However, they can stay single for a long time after a bad heartbreak until love shoots it’s arrows at them.

Cupido-Mars/1st

Conjunction/ Your friends may tell your crush you like them, or you may meet your future partner through friends. They may not be your type initially, but overtime you see that your friends chose the perfect partner for you. Give them a chance and you’ll be pleasantly surprised.

Opposition/ UMMMM! Y’ALL?!?🤣🤣 Your crushes might be a little afraid of you, but this is because you’re always surrounded by people. You are attractive so you always have a lot of people around you, and this makes you seem untouchable. Deviate from your friendship group a little and they may approach you.

Square/ These placements are actually really friendly, so loads of people have a crush on them. You have plenty of secret admirers but sadly may never know who they are. You may also meet your partner in the workplace, or gym.

Sextile/ These placements have a very attractive body, and this leads to a lot of people hitting them up. You may often find yourselves attracting people who only want to have s*x with you. Your true soulmate won’t fit into that category of people, and they will love you for who you are. You may meet them online.

Trine/ PASSIONATE. These placements are so passionate with everything it is that they do, and people admire that. Again, you may have many secret admirers, but they’re more likely to profess their love for you🤣.

Cupido-Jupiter/9th

Conjunction/ These placements are SO lucky in love. They may attract the person that everyone wants, or end up being with someone who is ridiculously good looking and wealthy. Their partners tend to be physically and emotionally attractive. If you have this placement don’t even worry about finding love, because when you do it’ll be with the person of your dreams…. and dreams of many other people🤣🤣

Opposition/ These placements may date A LOT. Like A LOT A LOT. They LOVE exploring their options and meeting many people. However, the most unexpected thing with them, is that they don’t end up marrying/settling with the people they date but somebody completely different🤣🤣. Y’all will most DEFINITELY not end up with your stereotypical type.

Square/ These placements can sometimes feel unlucky or cursed when it comes to their love life. They have attracted the LOWEST OF THE LOWEST BUMS in their lives 😭, and I hate to say it, but this is their own fault. You can either continue entertaining them or cut them off. LUCKILY, they eventually learn their lesson and find their perfect match.

Sextile/These placements may have had a healthy dating history. They’ve been with a fair amount of people, and they usually have no problem with attracting people they want. They will settle down with someone with ease.

Trine/ LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE😍😍😍!!! You and your partner are going to be SO IN LOVE. You guys will be the ultimate duo that simply cannot get enough of each other! You guys may have a lot of children together or just have a lot of s*x🤣.

Cupido-Saturn/10th

Conjunction/These placements definitely want a partner that can provide for them. The ultimate SUGAR BABY🤣🤑. Y’all most DEFINITELY will not settle for someone who’s broke. You want all the designer purses, shoes, and luxuries that come with partnership. You’re not cheap AT ALL🤣🤣🤣.

Opposition/ These placements love people older than them. They usually crush on people that seem mature or wise. They LOVE learning from their partners and usually settle with people who have similar views to them.

Square/Again, with the Taboo and age-gap thing😩!!! These placements really do not look towards what is in front of them, and are always seeking for the next best thing. They remind me of cheesy chick flicks where the popular jock finally realises his nerdy best friend is the love of his life. Stop looking elsewhere! Love is right in front of you🥰.

Sextile/ These placements may get married at a young age. They just want to find their forever person ASAP and just create a life together. They’re not here for the bullsh*t. Propose or leave them alone!🙄💅

Trine/ These placements may become super wealthy after marriage, and their marriages usually last a lifetime. The likelihood of them ever divorcing their partner is extremely low. They will stay with you through all your toughest times.

Cupido-Uranus/11th

Conjunction/ These placements are attracted to people who do not fit in with the societal norm. They enjoy people who are seen as “weird” or “quirky”. They’re drawn to people who stand out from the rest. They may even date people drastically older/younger than them just to be different.

Opposition/These placements may have many short term crushes. Their standards are impeccably high, and after a while they get the “ick”. Being reliable isn’t exactly your forte, but this is because you desire variety, and many people fail to understand this. You need a multi-faceted person or WILL get bored.

Square/ These placements may pretend to be someone they’re not for their romantic interest. They’re willing to do anything and everything just to be validated by the people they like/attracted to. Be yourself and you will be surprised to see how many people like the real you.

Sextile/ These placements enjoy exploring their options. They enjoy meeting a variety of people, and may date around for a while until they choose to settle down. They often settle down with someone who is polar opposite to them.

Trine/ These placements are DEFINITELY sugar daddy/mommy vibes. They LOVE spoiling their partners😍. They could have a worship k*nk, or may go to extreme lengths just to please their partner. No is not within their vocabulary. They may be taken advantage of if negatively aspected.

Cupido-Neptune/12th

Conjunction/ DREAM GIRL/BOY😍!! These placements definitely have a lot of people openly/secretly crushing on them. They’re so ethereal and otherworldly, and people just love how unique and innocent they seem. They don’t really have to put in much effort to attract others- they just do. Attractiveness is imprinted in their aura.

Opposition/These placements may often get into partnerships with unstable people. They enjoy fixing others and healing others through relationships and this often leads to them feeling burnt out. They nurture others through intercourse and desire to be nurtured back- however this rarely occurs due to their poor dating choices.

Square/ These placements may be more rigid in terms of dating. They may have had a bad relationship that scarred them, which led to them having a poor outlook on love. They’re very careful with whom they choose to date, but always somehow end up choosing the wrong one. It can take them a long time to find a suitable partner.

Sextile/ These placements attract people who are more docile and soft. They like feeling equal within partnerships and do not enjoy when one partner dominates the other. It’s a very balanced give and take dynamic when dating this placement. They may also be very passive individuals.

Trine/ These placements are so kind, and LOVE animals. They remind me of a garden fairy🤣. They’re very caring individuals and may be attracted to people who are very altruistic and hardworking. They offer peace to those who often find themselves in chaos. They are an emotional sanctuary.

Cupido-Pluto/8th

Conjunction/ These placements may find love during a one-night stand! Now now🤣 hear me out. These placements are very sexual beings, and may engage in casual sexual often- this means they meet many people frequently, and will find an unlikely partner during an unlikely time.

Opposition/ These placements may either LOVE the idea of casual sex or HATE it. They’re naturally attractive so they’re granted an abundance of potential suitors, however they may abuse or despise this. Other may simply want to just engage in sexual intercourse with them, or only like them for their looks.

Square/ These placements are so incredibly intimidating… and they like that HAHA🤣! They love being perceived as mysterious or dark, and honestly it’s how they attract potential suitors. Some people are drawn into the mystery, and others flock away as soon as they see you. You’re a very hit or miss person. People either are obsessed with you or hate you- no in between.

Sextile/ These placements may be very jealous partners, and this is because they have a negative self image. They may be very insecure and this stems from TW/ Childhood bullying. During their childhood they may have sexually developed before others, and were shunned for this- which created deep rooted insecurities within the individual. These placements may end up being in abusive relationships if they’re not careful.

Trine/ FEMME FATALE. So HOT🥵. These placements are so emboldened during the dating scene. They’re unafraid of pursuing the object of their desires, and usually succeed in obtaining them. Others fall for your natural charm and animal magnetism. Overall, a very sexy placement to have.

Cupido-Ascendant

Conjunction/ Instead of putting in work to attract others, these placements have a natural magnetism. Suitors easily flock towards them, and they get to decided who it is they want. These people have a wide variety of options. Be careful of who you choose.

Opposition/ Other people may know before you when you are attracted to someone, or maybe you met your partner through a blind date/internet. These placements are quite aloof and unsure of their feelings, so often use the guidance of others to determine whether they truly like someone or not.

Square/ These placements may be awkward or standoffish around their crush. They tend to forget their identity when they are attracted to someone and can have a bad habit of falling into codependency. This improves over time.

Sextile/ These placements have it fairly easy when it comes to attracting the opposite sex. They are stereotypically attractive people, and are generally not that picky when it comes to potential suitors. They’re very open minded, and may not really believe in the idea of marriage.

Trine/ These placements can be viewed as casanovas or players. Others may hesitate to approach you because they’re afraid of someone else stealing you or entertaining you. Your future partner will have to fight other people off of you, because the attention is non-stop constant. People just naturally desire you, and that draws out the lust within them.

Cupido-MC

Conjunction/ These placements may be attracted to their boss, or desire a partner in a leadership position. They aim high when it comes to dating and date to marry. They expect to gain material wealth and financial stability through partnerships.

Opposition/ These placements may dislike people who are very materialistic. They prefer individuals who have spiritual/emotional substance. If someone is too worldly, this can be a major turn-off for them. They may also date people who are older than them.

Square/ These placements may fall for a classmate or someone they met whilst still in education. This may have been an unexpected love match, but ended up lasting a long time.

Sextile/ These placements may marry someone who is wealthy or financially well-off. 🤑They have a natural charm of attracting things greater than them. They may also desire someone who is intellectual and kind. They really value wisdom and kindness in a partnership.

Trine/ These placements almost always want to be married, or have fantasised about getting married. They enjoy mutually beneficial partnerships and expect them to last a long time. They desire someone who is communicative and stable.

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Astro notes -18

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🌿Debilitated Mercury/Saturn often bite their nails or there nails and hands are often dry or have hand/skin peeling.

🌿Mercury in 2nd may have amicable separation from spouse (first).

🌿Mercury in 12th in composite charts also show an end to relationship on amiable terms.

🌿 Sun is the dominant masculine planet (because a luminary) in astrology after which mars comes. The signs they are in says a lot about the kind of people you are attracted to for someone into more masculine energy people. Similiarly why for people attracted to feminine energy (like heterosexual men) we look at venus and moon in their chart.

🌿 For men with Saturn harshly aspecting moon can show holding back on serious relationship and commitments.

🌿Venus in mars signs in 12th in composite chart can show one of the two or both may still have feelings for the other.

🌿 Saturn in 4th can mean you working with people you know friends and family.

🌿 Saturn in Virgo degrees (6°,18°) may show career in fashion as well.

Mercury in water degrees(4°,8°,12°,16°,20°,24°,28°) or signs are not in there strong dignity in water signs hence it can can chaos in mind and over analysing everything and not having mind at peace.

🌿 Water dominant make best actors and actresses, although theatre is more of Leo’s forte, water signs not one all three have such exceptional versatility and fluidity in their mannerism that makes helps them adapt to any charactor, these are some prominent signs that come to mind when i think of musicals and beauty of it.

🌿 11th lord in 12th/6th/8th/pisces/virgo/Scorpio -> you might wanna keep your dreams and aspirations quite and a secret, don’t go telling others, do it silently and celebrate loudly.

🌿 From what i have seen Cancer rising/cancer in 2nd/cancer dominant/moon dominant men are slow to grow a beard or they don’t like keeping it, they may keep it clean shaved.

🌿 Mutable degrees in the angles or mercury in 7th/11th/3rd are the kind to change their personality according to the people they hang with, most likely adapt to/copy the way other person is speaking. It’s not actually bad just something that makes them versatile with people.

🌿 Mars in 2nd, do you get the weird sensation in your throat when you are angry but suppressing it? It’d be weird if you didn’t.

🌿 Wherever Aries in chart, needs decisiveness on your part.

Aries in 10th- in matters of careers, in matters of handling responsibilities. Aries in 7th- in matters of commitments, marriage and business. Aries in 3rd- in matters of communication, learning and skills. Aries in 2nd- in matters of possessions, family, self esteem.

🌿 Mars in 2nd often has major injuries/accidents in their childhood. Kind with permanent scarring, or fractures or etc thats like a permanent episode in life.

🌿 Wherever Sagittarius is in your chart you do things differently there.

Sag in 1st- may look different from others in your surroundings, change appearance to look different. Sag in 12th- have a different thinking about metaphysical and different spiritual beliefs. Sag in 4th- Different from family/surroundings in beliefs. Sag in 5th- Unconventional approach to love or altogether different thoughts about love, children.

🌿 Juno in Aries degree (1°,13°,25°) are quick to think about marriage and long term commitment with partners in relationships.

🌿 Juno and Venus is same degrees often look for marriage material or someone they can see themselves in long term commitment with. They may even evaluate and think about if the partner is someone they can see themselves in the long run with, quite quickly.

🌿 With 8th house in Aries, people are quick to get intimate once they are in commitments unless Saturn aspects or 8th lord is conjunct Saturn.

🌿 Wherever Aries in composite chart needs matters that needs to be handled quick between the two people. The areas that need strong decisions, as they are the areas that carry the most heat of the first fire element and are prone to most arguments and childishness on part of both partners.

🌿 Jupiter in 3rd/11th and Jupiter aspect Uranus often have many social media accounts.

🌿 Aries/Scorpio/mars in 3rd house are quick and fast thinkers and are also make great at lying with the wit required to quickly make up lies. Not only Neptune here, mars signs and mars itself here show fast quick thinking which helps with lying.

🌿 Since venus Retrograde can individual meeting ex lovers. It’s possible mercury retrograde may also involve meeting people from past, because mercury rules siblings and friends, you may reconnect with them. Mercury being natural ruler of 3rd house represents peers from younger days

🌿 Because you shine in areas of your sun sign, take a look at your sun degree.

Sun in Capricorn degrees(10°,22°) may shine in their job at workplace or through it, sun in Gemini degrees or even aquarius degree(3°,11°,15°,23°,27°) may shine in or get fame via media, print, newspaper, online, on social media, even their writing can make them shine. Similiarly, sun in Virgo degrees (6°,18°) you can shine through your fashion sense or be known at workplace.

🌿 Sun/Midheaven and North node combined can really show what your actions are towards in this life, your philosophies you are passionate about and what makes you going.

🌿 An un-aspected sun in houses 9-12th can feel directionless or dispassionate for a really long time. You may jump from one activity to other and still feel purpose less and unsatisfied.

🌿 In my personal opinion, Sun +Moon is the ultimate you the real you, ascendant is how we adapt our personality to deal with life hence why it is also something people the outside perceive us as because that’s how we behave and show ourself consciously.

🌿 Mars in 2nd/8th house likes to feel belonged and when people be possessive over them.

🌿Vedic astrology🌿

🕊️ With sun as Darakaraka or sun in upapada lagna or sun 10th from upapada lagna, your marriage may be in spot light or talked about a lot.

🕊️ Venus’s aspect on upapada lagna or Darakaraka planet, you can romanticise your marriage and marriage partner. If either UL, or Darakaraka is in Scorpio, it can mean you overlooking/romanticising a toxic and abusive Partner.

🕊️ Afflicted Jupiter in Upapada lagna can mean learning hard lessons through marriage.

🕊️ Pushya nakshatra in big 3 or in 2nd house planet or in ruler of 2nd house may like eating dairy products.

🕊️ Pushya in 6th lord may be lactose intolerant or if mars is in pushya and virgo/6th house is significant in chart

🕊️ Ashwini fathers or male are the kind of people that will go on around house fixing stuff.

🕊️ Krittika mars/mercury or 3rd/11th lord in krittika can bring jealousy from siblings or you can be jealous of them. Mercury kritika may also bring jealousy from friends.

🕊️ 2nd/7th/11th lord in 12th house or mutual aspect between 2nd/7th/11th house with 12th housee can mean a lavish expensive wedding.

🕊️ Planets in Saturn nakshatra carry karmic energy. Each planet is represented by some relationship and hurting then may come back to bite you. Like venus/Jupiter is Spouse, Jupiter is also guru, mercury is friends and siblings. Sun is father, Saturn is people that are underprivileged, moon is mother, mars is elder siblings, lovers etc.

🕊️ Mars in Uttaraphalguni/8th/12th lord in Uttaraphalguni or planets in Uttaraphalguni in these houses are loud in bed (18+).

🕊️ A good 7th house can show great abilities to balance between career and home.

🕊️ Uttara nakshatras (Uttaraphalguni, Uttaraashadh and Uttarabhadrapada) are “marriage material”, but also less interested in getting into a commitment, and makes you feel they are out of your league.

🕊️ Dhanishta people can attract a lot of attention. Some people have other people talking about them because of something they do/did, Dhanishtas just naturally attract attention and be talk of town.

🕊️ Afflicted dhanishta planets in major placements are all Noise no material.

🕊️ 8th lord or 8th house planets in Purvabhadrapada can be into group sex, unorthodox occult group orgies or tantric sex.

🕊️ Ardra Placements over exaggerate things. In mercury, when writing or to friends. In Saturn about struggles. In Jupiter, about their luck and beliefs. In venus, about marriage and love and lovers. In big 3 about themselves, to inflate ego.

🕊️ For ardra placements, personal goals takes over love. Most ardra placements have a very gloomy heart based on their experiences and they tend to stay away from matters of heart and tend to fill the emotional void with other goals.

🕊️ Hasta people are very hand on and are an asset to any team they are part of.

🕊️Besides what kind of spouse you will get, one way I also look at Darakaraka is how spouse can affect that area(planet) of life.

Sun Darakaraka - spouse can possibly change your perception and idea of how you lived life, because sun is karaka of 1st house, For someone with an empty 1st house after marriage you may have clear goals and passions and direction.

Moon Darakaraka- can possibly change or affect your perception of comfort and happiness. After marriage you perceive comfort and happiness in a different way or seek them differently.

Mercury Darakaraka- Spouse can possibly affect your thought process towards certain things, hobbies or ways to deal with stress. After marriage you may have a different approach to solving problems or stress and may even adopt new hobbies.

Venus Darakaraka- Spouse can affect how your view love and luxury, after marriage you may perceive love differently, attach value to different things than you did before marriage.

Jupiter Darakaraka- Marriage may influence how you seek knowledge and how to be more open.

Saturn Darakaraka- Marriage/Spouse can affect your discipline, rules, may or may not be more disciplined after marriage

Mars Darakaraka- spouse can affect how you handle your passion and aggression, you may channel your passion to different things or put more or less into something you seeked before

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the signs as 1980s rock/pop ladies

aries: tina turner (pioneering, fierce, electrifying)

taurus: pat benatar (empowering, unpretentious, tough)

gemini: cyndi lauper (cheery, girl-positive, unique)

cancer: stevie nicks (vulnerable yet powerful, oracular, distinctive)

leo: madonna (provocative, challenging, dramatic)

virgo: janet jackson (socially conscious, sexually aware, disciplined)

libra: terri nunn of berlin (flirty, ferocious, feminine)

scorpio: sheena easton (sexy, passionate, electric)

sagittarius: annie lennox (forward-thinking, uncompromising, androgynous)

capricorn: whitney houston (strong, smooth, unrivalled and unparalleled)

aquarius: kate bush (unorthodox, original, true to herself)

pisces: ann and nancy wilson of heart (emotive, wide range, no holds barred)

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VENUS AND WHY PEOPLE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU 

—based on people i’ve known and loved 

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one of the most important people in my life has venus in the 1st house and people just… have very intense reactions to them. like, they can’t just tolerate them, they either love them to death or absolutely hate them and make that hatred known. the thing about this venus is that it makes someone very desirable – they’re people persons, they love being around others and feel a strong need to communicate their ideas, beliefs, passions, and listen to other people talk as well because they’re a sucker for studying people. as in, they know there’s a lot to learn from others and they have really strong observational skills, their intelligence is criminally underrated. those who like them, fucking love them and want to constantly be around them (which can be a bit suffocating for the venus person) and even those who hate them can’t seem to be able to keep their names out of their mouths, lmfao. they do feed a lot off of validation from others (mostly due to deep-seated insecurities + fear of rejection) so they try hard to show off their talents, their personality, their skills. they can’t really exist in silence because they draw so much attention to themselves (and people often drag them into unnecessary drama), and because they feel such a strong need to help those around them. they’re also amazing storytellers, they really know how to charm people with their words. 

a friend of mine has her venus in the 2nd house and she really gives off sugar baby vibes, lmfao. older men are crazy about her and whoever meets her wants to spoil her. she gives off very innocent and sweet vibes and that adds to her appeal, although many people have tried taking advantage of that. as in, they use her compassion and empathy and ability to provide security for others, to be like a rock that’s there whenever you need her, so she’s often taken for granted. she’s very compassionate and shows that to literally everyone, which often leads to her feeling emotionally drained and needing to isolate herself to recharge + attracting emotional vampires that feed off of her difficulty in setting boundaries. she’s also often objectified - she’s very beautiful but has a very low self-esteem that incapacitates her from seeing it; she gets a lot of attention everywhere she goes, people turn their heads to look at her twice, strangers make conversation a lot of with her, and she also tends to get free stuff all the time. might i add – she used to be a literal model but stopped because it was a very toxic environment. she’s very charismatic and talented at dealing with people, she was elected the class representative and took it on herself to solve the problems of everyone in our class, wanting everyone to feel accepted, seen, and heard. 

i’ve been with someone who has his venus in the 3rd house, and people fell in love with his words. he wasn’t oblivious to it, he actually bragged a lot about how good he was with words and how he was able to sweet-talk someone into doing what he wanted. he was very communicative and valued solving all our problems through talking instead of ignoring it. people also fell in love with his intelligence, he was really thoughtful about any subject and loved having debates about it and people would get impressed with his analytical and rational mind, with his ease at making arguments and counter-arguments; with the way he had a really unique view on the world and his energy when talking. he was witty and just loved having fun in general, very open to making friends especially with powerful people. he valued a lot having new experiences and going to parties. he was also really loyal and constantly bragged about his friends, he talked about them like they were his family. compliments were literally his love language lmfao it doesn’t get more stereotypical than this, if he liked you he’d shower you with attention and praise all you do and he felt really confident when you’d compliment him back. he was like that one phrase “to know is to love” come to life because he placed a lot of importance on knowing all the details about you, having deep conversations, getting to know all your opinions and perspectives on every possible subject. 

one of my closest friends has his venus in the 4th house and, surprisingly, people fall in love with him after they fuck lmfao. i don’t know what it is about him but as soon as someone has sex with him, they become addicted and hold on to him with claws and teeth until he breaks their heart because, sadly, he’s awfully afraid of commitment. and i’ve been noticing this a lot with people with venus in the 4th house – you’d think venus in the house of family makes someone long to find their soulmate (and they do, deep down), but it’s like truthfully, they’re scared of actually finding it; so they leave after getting too serious in a relationship, perhaps due to a fear of intimacy even though they really crave stability. although, he’s very honest and values honor a lot, so he’s upfront about his intentions with someone… if he wants to fuck you only, you’ll know; if he wants to pursue a relationship with you, you’ll know. i think that’s why so many people are into him, he’s very assertive and goes for what he wants with no shame. he also is someone very reliable, especially with friends, whatever happens, you can count on him. he’s really a ride or die and is a very protective person so people feel safe around him; he’s also very family-oriented in the sense that he takes any of his connections very seriously, especially the one with his mother. he’s, like, the alpha in the wolf pack lmfao. 

two people in my friend group have venus in the 5th house, and might as well just call them genius masterminds. i swear, they have plans straight out of a movie. they can not and will not get bored because there’s always so much going on in their life. cue to harry potter saying “i don’t go looking for trouble, trouble usually finds me”. they lead very intense lives especially when it’s concerning their family and their relationships, but they still manage to make fun of the difficult stuff they go through. people fall in love with their laugh and their brilliant minds. like, these people are criminally intelligent and very much slytherins in the sense of being resourceful, cunning, with an ability to take a shitty situation to their advantage and to take advantage of every opportunity life presents them. they really give off main character vibes especially since they can’t fucking sit still for a moment, they always gotta be onto something. they’re very active and energetic and that type of energy is very addictive, they always know how to make someone have a good time around them. the problem is that some people might get too addicted to their energy and guilt-trip them into hanging out with them every day even when they don’t want to, draining their energies and making them feel like an animal caged up in a zoo there for other’s entertainment only. 

i’ve known someone who had their venus in the 6th house, and… venus in the 6th people are so fucking particular, they avoid telling you how they feel at all costs but show you in the tiniest, most indirect ways possible (like telling you good night every night, always taking time out of their busy schedules to talk with you, rearrange your hair when there’s a strand out of place) and swear they’re being obvious. it’s so funny, they make me feel like a detective trying to decipher their behavior. they can also be very territorial about whoever they like – at worst, they can be very controlling and overly possessive, at best, they’re just hot as fuck like i’m sorry please do attempt to claim me. i’ve noticed that people fall in love with their power. they exude a vibe that makes people afraid to fuck with them because they know it’ll have consequences. they’re just so commanding and act like they won’t tolerate any bullshit or no one trying to waste their time, they’re all for business. they also tend to look expensive as hell, they could be wearing something cheap out of bershka and still make it look regal and like you’d never afford it. they have really high standards so people try very hard to impress them (and fail most of the time lmfao) and get just one minute of their time. the person i knew literally had fangirls following them around in school and begging for their attention. their response? “oh, they are? i didn’t notice and quite frankly, i don’t care.” 

one of the most important milfs that went through my life had her venus in the 7th house, and people fell in love purely with her personality. no, i don’t think you understand how charming and funny she was. she was an amazing storyteller and had an infinite amount of stories about her life to tell, and it was impossible to ever get bored around her because she had so much to say. she was also very expressive in her way of speaking, and you could feel her emotions through her words. she had an awfully mischievous grin that made her look like she was always up to something and it was so funny. people would gather around her to her and pay close attention to what she would say next since she was so unpredictable. she could also be very diplomatic and persuade people to her side, whether in arguments or business matters. she placed a lot of importance on education and knowledge. another thing about her was that she was so secretive - and that’s something very few people caught on about her since she was so good at talking and told so many stories, but i did find her personality difficult to pinpoint because she would only open up about superficial matters. as in, she would tell a story of her as a teenager going to parties and shit, but whenever i’d ask her a more private matter like how she met her husband, she’d laugh and say “that one’s for me to know only.” it was very hard to get to know the real her under all the glamour and popularity. she also gave me the sense of someone sinking on their own sadness but she hid that at all costs in the name of being the sun that lights up the room. i don’t know, something in her eyes. 

my best friend has venus in the 8th house – she’s very, very selective about who she talks to and gives attention to very few people. she fears opening up and sex is a tricky subject for her because although she loves talking about sex, it’s very hard for her to trust someone enough to even consider letting them close to her. she fears betrayal, rejection. she likes keeping her circle close, which i think is a way for her to avoid having to go through the process of letting someone in. she’s also extremely loyal and very aware that few people deserve that loyalty – once she likes someone, she only sees that person and no one else. she really longs for a meaningful and intimate relationship. i feel like people fall in love with her after getting close to her, she’s a very thoughtful person with a strong personality and, once someone gets to experience her intensity, they’re addicted. no one ever says this about 8th placements but they’re fucking crackheads, they’re very lighthearted most of the time and just want to have fun and a good time, they can have the humor of a 5-year-old and people find that side of her very endearing; they fall in love with her humor and the way she’s so good-hearted even if she tries hiding that fact. she can’t help that she’s so genuine. might i add that she really has that scorpionic look, with thick dark hair and big, deep-set eyes and you can really read her every emotion on them. 

one of my friends has venus in the 9th house and she’s the funniest person ever. seriously, she’s the life of the party, always looking to crack a joke and the room doesn’t feel as lively without her. people fall in love with her unpredictability, her light-hearted nature and how she’s always looking for something to stimulate her mind, by learning and finding new places, new people to deepen her knowledge. one thing about her is that people tend to underestimate her a lot. just because she loves having fun and takes nothing seriously, they think it’s okay to try and mess with her, and then they regret that shit deeply because even if she rarely shows her serious and ruthless side… oh, it’s there and she will not hesitate (especially if you fuck with her friends). she also tends to suffer a lot in love because she’s looking for a serious relationship and to bond with someone, but people tend to objectify her and use her for her body. but she’s too elegant to let that show, she really knows how to hide her suffering under a bright smile. she’s a very supportive person and things always end up working for her because she has such a good heart (the people who do her dirty get so fucked by life later), and people tend to envy how she seems to have it all. they don’t notice how hard-working and ambitious she actually is. 

i have venus in the 10th house. people fall in love very easily with me, but it’s never actually with me because they don’t know me, they fall in love with my image. as in, people often approach me to tell me they fell in love at first sight with me just because they saw me on the bus or some shit, or they talk with me for 3 days and swear i’m the one when i haven’t revealed anything about me. men also tend to suffer from “i can fix her” when around me. it’s the effy stonem disease lmfao, they see me being pretty and fucked up and try to fix me, plus, i don’t do relationships so they always think they’re gonna be the one to “tame” me. i also give off very cold and unattainable vibes and the first thing people notice about me is how i’m hard to get so they often portray me as the forbidden fruit, someone they’re never gonna get but they still try. which makes me feel really objectified at times because it’s like…. you don’t know me, you don’t even try to know me, you just idealize me in your head and put me on a pedestal. which is why i think i have an aversion to love, most people don’t experience it; they experience infatuation and confuse it as being the same thing as love, and it’s too superficial for me. if you have your venus in the 10th house, chances are you’re very desirable and sought after but that has given you a very difficult relationship with the concept of love. 

if there’s anything about people with venus in the 11th house… they’re passionate. so passionate about anything that they believe in, and they make that very clear. they put a lot of importance on fighting for what’s right and for justice, so they get very emotionally involved in others’ problems, even if it doesn’t in any way benefit their own lives. and when i say this i don’t mean just getting involved in social causes and organizing charity events, i mean that they intuitively feel what’s wrong with the people they love and they don’t rest until there’s a solution. they’re masters at providing emotional comfort and bringing people together because they don’t believe in the differences between human beings, we’re all idiots going through the same shit called life. and that’s what people love so much about them: their tenacity, their drive, their ambition, their big dreams. their compassion for everyone’s problems, the glint in their eyes when they’re speaking about subjects ranging from animal cruelty to how wrong capitalism is lmfao, their need to feel passionate about everything. most of them have struggled with the loss of someone they loved and are now very aware of the need to live life to the fullest. these people also have a way of making someone they barely know feel like their best friend. 

i’ve known someone who had his venus in the 12th house, and he was probably the most emotionally complicated and troubled person i’ve ever known. he was very withdrawn and the quiet confident type (although he had a lot of insecurities deep, deep down) and everyone knew his name, he was constantly surrounded by friends but it’s like no one actually knew him. he stood out so much, not even in his appearance even though he was beautiful, it was his energy. he also wasn’t afraid of standing alone and he’d do it whenever he disagreed with something or to fight for his beliefs, so he was respected by everyone. anyways, to be one of the lucky few to get past his distant persona, you had to be just as thoughtful and interesting because he really didn’t waste his time with people who weren’t worth getting to know. people fell in love with his way of seeing the world, his empathy (that’s something you’d never expect from someone who had such a “harsh” exterior – he never acted without considering the consequences and he’d feel a lot of the world’s pain), his intensity, the way everything was so serious to him and there was no room for superficiality. he was a very unforgettable person, i don’t think i’ll ever be able to forget his eyes or how he seemed to fight a daily battle just to keep going. 

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🌸OBSERVATIONS!! (finally lmao)🌱

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It's been a long time coming! So happy for spring being finally here! Here's the long ass observation post you guys asked for. Since it's quite a big amount of observations, I've decided it'd be a good idea to number them so that it's easier to reference them. As always, enjoy them!

🌸 1. Lilith in the 2nd house can indicate something fishy going on with the relationship between the native’s parents.

🌱 2. Malefic placements such as pluto, chiron, Saturn or Lilith in the 12th indicates a lot of skeletons in the closet when it comes to family and family history

🌸 3. Chiron in Aries/1st house or Leo/5th house is kind of bitch placement. The person basically feels like they can’t be themselves and there’s a lot of self-denial and/or not accepting themselves, how they really are, what they really want, etc. Lots of self-esteem issues

🌱 4. People with sexual placements in the 2nd house (Mars, Venus, Lilith, Eros, ruler of the 8th house) base their self-worth on how sexually attractive they are. If they don't feel sexually desirable to everyone, they feel like they're shit

🌸 5. Lilith is what people think Pluto/Scorpio is!!!! All that stuff about magnetic, sexual and intoxicating but dangerous? Lilith.

🌱 6. Scorpio/Pluto in 4th could mean that the person had to work hard to survive something growing up. It could be poverty, their parents’ expectations, an early trauma, etc. Whatever the situation is, the native felt like they grew up in a high-stress environment where they had to endure and survive

🌸 7. When it comes to degrees, the higher the degree, the bigger or stronger the effect. For example Leo degrees (5º, 17º, 29º) are fame degrees. 5th degree would give small fame, 17th degree would be normal and significant fame or recognition inside the person’s field and 29th degree is moreso widespread or permanent fame

🌱 8. Saturn in the 5th house is a huge indicator of turning your hobby into your job. Also these people can be very awkward in their personality

🌸 9. I’ve noticed people with Neptune in the 6th (maybe 2nd) house may have been hospitalized and if Uranus or Pluto are placed here also indicates getting surgery or operations for health reasons

🌱 10. People with Uranus or Pluto in the 1st, 2nd or conjunct the ASC could get surgery due to aesthetic reason

🌸 11. Mercury dominant people (or strong Gemini energy in the chart) like to have or get things quick and easy. For example they prefer a straight forward summary over an in-depth and elaborated explanation with too many details

🌱 12. Your moon sign shows how you see your past. Your 4th house represent how you see your childhood. But your moon represents under which light you always view your past and everything that has happened in your life in general. It also shows the type of stuff from your past you tend to focus on. Since Cancer and Pisces represent past and remenaicence, that's why Cancer and Pisces moons have trouble getting over the past.

🌸 13. Your 10th house on the other hand is how you see your future. Whenever someone asks you “where you see yourself in 5 years?” your 10th house is the one that’ll be answering that question

🌱 14. Gemini moon/mars are the LEAST likely to hold grudges (unless chart says otherwise)

🌸 15. The house where you have your Neptune indicates the themes you tend to lie about, don’t give much info, say stuff about it that are misleading etc. and in consequence people might not have a clear/correct idea of this part of your life

🌱 16. Virgo risings rarely or basically never pose for pictures. They just look straight forward to the camera, sometimes smile and maybe make a small gesture like putting one hand in their pocket or tilt their head but that’s it. (Virgo = minimalism)

🌸 17. Scorpios really don’t give a single fuck they just DON’T 😭💀 Remember this sign is all or nothing, they either care too or don't care AT ALL

🌱 18. I said it once and I’ll say to a hundred times more: Geminis are not two-faced, it’s LIBRA!! Seriously Libras are the FAKEST people I’ve ever met. Why? Because it's ruled by the planet of love (Venus), which means Libra has a knack for being liked by everyone and making everyone feel liked. HOWEVER Libra is an AIR sign and air represents mind, NOT feelings. In conclusion, Libra can make you feel "loved" (venus) and still not give a damn about you bc its air nature makes them prone to emotional detachment. That's why they are able to roast you and make it look like they're complimenting you, specially when they have Scorpio mercury.

🌸 19. Just like you look at where’s the ruler of your rising sign to get more info on your rising, check the ruler of your Sun sign for more info on your personal identity (check sign and house). For ex. I have Virgo Sun in the 9th. Ruler of Virgo=Mercury. I have mercury in Libra in the 10th house which makes me more serious (10th house) and diplomatic/people pleaser (Libra)

🌱 20. If you found that you “couldn’t” do what’s previously described because you’re a Leo sun, check the degree and decan of your Sun

🌸 21. I’ve noticed mercury retrograde people are the type of individuals who always know exactly the right things to say. You’ll always see them take a couple of seconds before answering but they tend to give very good responses

🌱 22. I’ve noticed many women with Virgo Venus/Sun/MC/Lilith have been slut-shamed at some point of their life or they’ve been seen as promiscuous/sexual/etc.

🌸 23. Capricorn moons are not emotionless machines. The thing with these natives is that their mothers treated them like an adult the second they came out of the womb, so basically they skipped the “love and affection” stage and went straight to the “grow up” stage, but they can love really hard and real deep (Capricorn is deep down a very sentimental sign). They are very ride or die people tbh, they are very patient, accepting and understanding

🌱 24. I've noticed that people at first deny their rising sign in Vedic astrology, but eventually they end up accepting it and they actually end up relating to it a lot. I feel like this is because our rising sign in Vedic astrology is usually the sign of our 12th house in Western astrology, which leads me to believe that our 12th house sign is not our shadow side but more like our deep subcontious personality and that's why we have a hard time accepting it when we see it as our rising sign in Vedic astrology. It's like your rising sign (in western) is the director of the play but your 12th house is the energy that previously wrote the script

🌸 25. So many celebrities have moon in the 11th house. Also this placement indicates that you had a mother that put you out there constantly like posting everything about you on social media, bringing you to big events or your mom was “famous” in some capacity

🌱26. Gemini risings tend to believe everything they are told. More specifically, once they find someone that knows a little bit more than them they’ll believe everything they teach them and will most likely rely on them intellectually, for advice, guidance, etc. This is bc they have DSC in Sagittarius which makes them see the people they associate with as masters and mentors while, as a Gemini rising, they identify as an apprentice.

🌸27. Both 8th house and 12th house have been associated with secrets. The different is that the 8th house represents what you CONTIOUSLY and deliberately hide from others and most likely deny to yourself (or not, depends on the person). 12th house on the other hand represents subconscious, things that are hidden even from you and you didn’t even know were hidden. 4th house is not necessarily secrets, it represents privacy, like when people have a sanctuary to just relax, unwind and feel secure, that’s the 4th house.

🌱28. Sun or Moon in the 4th house will make you a sociable but private person.

🌸29. Sun or moon in the 8th house will make you an intriguing and mysterious person.

🌱30. Sun or moon the 12th house makes you a very elusive or wishy-washy person

🌸31. I’ve seen many Scorpio sun/moon/mars/rising individuals obsessed with the idea of being prepared for a catastrophe. They could be the type to, for example, have some saved cash just in case something bad happens with their bank money, have a backup account just in case their main one gets deleted, could have a “leave before you get left” philosophy, etc.

🌱32. Is it just me or the astro community talks a lot about Aries moons???

🌸33. I’ve noticed people with 4th house in Virgo could have been raised in a very judgemental household where there was lots of taboos and prejudice as to what’s right and what’s not and the family was too preoccupied with a perfect and immaculate reputation. For example could have been raised with values such as “only criminals wear tattoos” or “you should stay celibate till marriage or else you’re a whore”, etc. and if the native broke those rules they could have been very criticized and almost loathed by the family. They native could have been highly criticized in general by their family

🌱34. I’ve noticed women that have their moon harshly aspecting Pluto, Uranus and Mars or overall have a very afflicted moon tend to have very painful period cramps

🌸35. Something I have noticed with Venus or Moon conjunct Saturn people is that the concept of unconditional love sounds like alien language to them. That of course doesn’t mean they can’t love but they have this deep belief that they have to achieve something in order to deserve love and stuff like that

🌱36. Also, I just noticed that people with Saturn conjunct sun/moon/Venus/ASC, Capricorn big 3 or Capricorn degrees in personal placements have gone through IT man, specially on an internal level. I've noticed going through depression is a common theme for people with this Capricorn/Saturn influence

🌸37. Virgo Suns could often struggle to find balance between having healthy ego and being humble.

🌱38. Also people with Virgo+Leo energy are the MOOOOST judgmental people out there. Imagine ego mixed with a sense of knowing what’s correct. They tend to believe they’re morally superior and easily liable people as inferior

🌸39. The underdeveloped energy of a sign asimilates negative traits of its sister sign. For example underdeveloped Virgo is overly perfectionist and judgmental to the point where they have unrealistic expectations (Pisces)

🌱40. On the other hand the developed version of a sign is balanced out by understanding its sister sign. For example Leo knows they are unique and special and deserves recognition but understands everyone is also unique in their own way (Aquarius)

🌸41. I’ve noticed a person can very easily manifest the stereotypical characteristics of the sign that naturally rules the house where their chart ruler is. For example if someone’s chart ruler (ruler of the ASC) is in the 7th house the person can easily manifest stereotypical characteristics of Libra like being a people pleaser

🌱42. Sagittarius ASC/Mars people are all fun, amicable and outgoing.... until they don’t get their way. They will get away from people and situations that won’t give them what they want and they can genuinely dislike people solely because those people don’t let them have their way. They tend to go around life like they have a free pass to get away with everything they want.

🌸43. People with ASC-Neptune aspects don’t have a very reliable vision of reality or themselves to be honest. I don’t know how people with this aspect haven’t lost their mind already. They are prone to subconsciously manipulating or easily getting manipulated. With hard aspects this is a lot more obvious but I’ve noticed with easy aspects this energy tends to go almost unnoticed and they easily get away with stuff

🌱44. Have seen many famous people with North node in the 2nd, 5th, 11th and 12th houses specially

🌸45. Air risings or air dominance with Sagittarius placements/degrees are people who love cartoons/animations/videogames regardless of their age.

🌱46. When I got into astrology I didn’t understand why Sun is in detriment in Libra, but oh man... All Libras I’ve met had HUGE issues with trusting themselves. They doubt themselves 24/7 and that’s not even an exaggeration and I’ve noticed they actually may have grown up doubting themselves for some reason or they had a family (their dad) that caused this feeling in them. Also I’ve seen that those Libras with Scorpio placements feel like they have to hide something about themselves otherwise they’ll be rejected. Yes they are endlessly charming, but that's because they have essentially created their personality around the desire of being liked/accepted. They always need to feel they have SOMEONE. Their sense of self, INDIVIDUALITY, independence and assertiveness is lost in the process. Unless they have fire and specially Aries placements to balance this out they can feel like they have no personality and that’s why they are often perceived as fake or shallow.

🌸47. Literally ALL Virgo placements one way or another will always suggest a way to solve your problems when giving emotional support

🌱48. I have a theory that, since 4th house is how you were raised, your home and your parents, your 10th house is how you’d be as a parent yourself and the type of home you’ll create yourself

🌸49. Contrary to my expectations, I’ve seen priests having a much more prominent 4th house (many times combined with 8th house/Scorpio energy) than 12th house. People with 12th house placements or stellium seem to prefer artistic fields rather than classic spirituality

🌱50. The house where you have your Pluto is a house you just can NOT take lightly EVER. This area of your life feels like a heavy topic to you in some way (you are either obsessed with it, find It traumatic, get extremely defensive over it, find it spiteful, you feel everything goes wrong, etc, etc.) Can also apply to the house where you have the sign of scorpio

🌸51. In synastry, Venus falling in the 12th house creates a healing dynamic in the relationship, the connection can feel cathartic specially for the house person. The house person might tend to always be comforted by the venus person’s support, always feel better (or even energetically “cleansed”) after being with them. The venus person never judges the house person and accepts them and is always willing to be there.

🌱52. I’ve noticed this pattern in people with mutable moons where they have absent mothers in some shape or form. Their mother is very inconsistent, she always comes and goes. Very often the native may have felt like their mother always “left them be” (virgo moon moms put restrictions but eventually are rather flexible)

🌸53. People with cardinal moons have bossy mothers. In many cases they can have the type of mother that is constantly making decisions for them, like their mother decides what/where they’re going to study for example (the house tells what type of things the mother tends to make decisions on).

🌱54. People with fixed moons have possesive and protective moms. While mutable moons have absent mothers, natives with fixed moons have mothers that are ALWAYS there in some shape or form. At the very least the influence of the mother is always there and they always have this sense of “loyalty” towards their mom.

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That's it for now, next observation post is just as long but much better, stay tuned and safe loves 💕

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How you might meet your spouse💍👰‍♀️

Based on the rising sign of the Juno persona chart

❗️These descriptions can be useful if you’re looking for interpretations of the signs in regards to meeting in general, so it can be valid for any other method used to predict meeting through signs and not just juno persona chart for example Jupiter placement in natal chart, 7th house ruler etc

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How to find your Juno persona chart

Interpretations through signs:

Aries

Taurus

Gemini

Cancer

Leo

Virgo

Libra

Scorpio

Sagittarius

Capricorn

Aquarius

Pisces