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being called baby?????? holding hands????!? being KISSED?!!!?!???????

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on my wedding night

me: *sobbing*

my wife: what’s wrong

me: I can’t believe a girl likes me

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Me: wow what a nice day A top: im a top

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*gently places a small clump of moss in your hand*

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Being raised without stability really fucks with your head, you’re forever trying to figure out a person’s “pattern“ to see how you have to approach them, whether they’re in a good mood and it’s safe, or if they’re in a bad mood and you have to be careful or maybe avoid them altogether, just because those who raised you could never keep a consistent emotional reaction

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lemme tell ya somethin’, new york is da greatest fuckin’ city in da world. my city. i was a kid in dese streets, i stahted in da fuckin’ gutta, and i made it to da top.

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late night cashiers at 24-hour convenience stores are the holders of our greatest secrets and most intimate selves

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I got drunk and I just want y’all to know. It is NEVER okay to like someone. Like Romantically

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you should never date someone for the sake of dating someone. you should be good friends, if not best friends with your partner. if you cant go to your partner for personal advice, if youre afraid to call your partner out on something, if you cant laugh and have fun with your partner, or if your conversations are only ever performative affection, you don’t have a good relationship

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Good looks on Girls™: • oversized denim jacket with patches and pins • dress shirt + bowtie • flower crown • long sleeved shirt + choker • glasses!!!1!!!!!!! • lacey lingerie • tank top+ basketball shorts • all • every look • i’m not straight

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My home will be a home with no loud anger, no explosive rage, no slamming doors or breaking glass, no name calling, shaming or blackmail. My home will be gentle, it will be warm. It will keep my loved ones safe. No fear, no hurt and no worries. I may come from a broken and twisted place but I will build something whole and safe. I’ll sing in the shower again, cook with a smile and dance in all the rooms. I will heal.

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I refuse to fight for anything or anyone who does not want to be a part of my life. If it wants to leave - let it.

#someone slap me with this post

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reminder that trans girls are welcome on my blog and transphobes and terfs can die in a fire! 💕