i just! i wanna be the kind of submissive that isnt JUST a little sex toy but is *also* a safe haven for their dom. like, yes i want you to want me sexually and dominate me and use me, but i also want you to need me as much as i feel like i need you. i want the exchange to be equal, where we both provide a comfort and a shelter for each other, even if we provide it to one another in different ways. we both take care of each other, emotionally, spiritually, sexually, physically. we should make each other feel safe and loved and wanted in ways that no one else can, inside and outside of the bedroom. that's what i want!
It’s being forced to shop online and spend more money because the store doesnt carry your size
Its “we only sell this tshirt in unisex in your size” [many places only offer “womens” tees large and below]
Its having to buy two plane tickets for one person
Its having medical conditions overlooked because of your weight
It’s having fat people in media only be comic relief or the villain [or not featured at all]
Its people saying to your partner “you’re with *them*?”
It’s being found disgusting for sweating - even when you’re exercising
It’s being considered a fetish
It’s so much more than being bullied by words, but for some reason, people seem to think if they dont hear someone actively saying “fuck fat people they suck. I personally think fat people should die,” then nothing can be fatphobic.