honestnoa

[honestnoa]

Hey I’m polyam, and I’ve been scrolling through the polyam tag and I’m a little concerned about 2 things

1. The misconception that polyam is inherently lgbt+ and then tagging it as polyam positivity (most of which I noticed were not polyam), polyam is it’s own community outside of lgbt+ but many polyam are lgbt+ (not an exclusionist, I believe you should have freedom in gender identity and sexuality)

2. I keep seeing people ask “how did you know you were polyam”, which worries me because you shouldn’t have an identity crisis over whether or not your polyam. It’s a decision like “well I want to move out of my hometown and into a city”, not that that takes away polyamorous struggles but it is concerning to see. Maybe you struggle to come to that decision and maybe you don’t, but I encourage you to discuss with your partner (if you have one) or look into other people’s polyamorous struggles and relationships

Some people could be happier making that decision, and some aren’t, regardless it’s a lifestyle choice

#polyam #non monogomous #actually polyam #i post twice and its about polyam #my friends who are following me are staring in awe #rip to literally everyone who went to tumblr to avoid me ranting about polyam #now you have it on your dashboard #confused on why i keep seeing that question #not belittling #questioning things is valid af #just a little concerned

[honestnoa]

Hello, I’m polyam, yes I know I rarely post anything and my account looks like a disaster

Polyamory is not inherently lgbt, everyone I talk to that’s polyamorous actually hates that flag for being visually unappealing, the person who made the flag was polyamorous and in the closet and created the flag for themselves and friends from what I read. They didn’t want to use the infinity heart

The infinity heart is a very used symbol in our community, you might recognize it placed over the flag as well, and as stated earlier it’s also been around longer then the flag (people often try to recreate the flag because they hate it so much)

Nonmonogamy is a choice to consensually date multiple people, many people who are monogamous have felt attraction while being loyal to their significant other (I have several family members like this)

Quite frankly due to how many people I see who are lgbt and monogamous believing they can speak on the behalf of people who are polyamorous, I also think it’s better this way.

Quick question: polyam people have a pride flag, so I was wondering if they're inherently lgbt+? They probably are, but no one really talks about it (to my knowledge) so I'm not sure.

(Do not answer this if you're an exclusionist thx <3)

#This isn't even mentioning the asexuals and aromantics in the community #Which again proves that it's more of a choice then it is an identity #A few might disagree #But I found a lot of people share this viewpoint #Please don't talk about polyamory if you're monogamous

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Sources: https://twitter.com/myangryuniverse/status/1297616494176735234 https://twitter.com/_dankou/status/1298187651728715778

Aaand here we have the problem. Fandom is international and I’m sick and tired of american morals being set as the one rule to follow. 

[honestnoa]

A Thing I had to Read

Turns out the cockroach was named Darrel. 

I apologize for my inaccuracies. 

Have nice day in the booty cheeks Darrel, <3

#I don't know you #How the fuck do you know about Darrel #Leaf what did you do #RIP Darrel the Roach 4/10/2020 #Hope the buggy bastard is burning in hell

[honestnoa]

I'm just going to post a lot and then pop off the face of the planet again

Which might be now so I guess I didn't post a lot but oh

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On account of that time I found twitter users arguing about how insensitive piss jokes were, I have decided to never join twitter

#Ah yes the pisscourse incident of 2020 #Was it 2020? #Pretty sure it was 2020

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Y'alls entrails ever sound like a whale?

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I'm like a wild animal in the sense I try to hide and not be perceived and if I do choose to approach you it is either cautiously and slowly or I'm storming towards you at full speeds making threatening noises

#This is both irl and online #I am a social disaster #I have gotten into relationships by accident on multiple occasions #Someone asked how I was doing and I told them I don't know thne had an emotional crisis on them #My first interaction with one of my friends is how a cockroach fell not only into my pants but also in my underwear

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I made the horrible mistake of looking back at all of my posts to figure out what completes this shitshow and now I’m being haunted by “my dog barked and I shoved a burger in my mouth by accident” because I can’t remember this and I’m trying to understand how the fuck that even happens and this is going to keep me up at night

Every once in a great while I post something strange, but only something strange and fandom related but this means months and maybe even years down the road I get a notification someone liked or reblogged it and then I have to stare at this awful post I made and wonder what the fuck I was thinking

[honestnoa]

Every once in a great while I post something strange, but only something strange and fandom related but this means months and maybe even years down the road I get a notification someone liked or reblogged it and then I have to stare at this awful post I made and wonder what the fuck I was thinking

[honestnoa]

fuck it. be creative even if you never really *make* anything. write out plot synopses of stories and then move on. design OCs you'll never use. make mood boards and concept art and don't do anything with them. life's too short to forget everything that inspired you and creation doesn't have to be "complete" to be worth the time you put into it.

[honestnoa]

Hot hot hot hot chocolate

HEY WE GOT IT

#KEEP IT COOKIN IN THE POT #SOON YA GOT HOT CHOCOLATE

[honestnoa]

Better question, if apprentices are trained individually by a mentor then whose assigning mentors

we should abandon the current US government system and replace it with the ranking system in warrior cats don’t @ me

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#Bungou Stray Dogs #Osamu Dazai #The start of it all

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Dazai's character song sounds like Wii Sports music

#I hate Wii Sports life sucks. #Then pass the controller #No #Just imagine Dazai on the floor #Wii sports is on the TV #I'm aware this song is very serious and gives important insight on his character #But Wii Sports #Dazai Osamu #BSD #Bungou Stray Dogs #My partner pointed this out #You must all suffer with me #I'll never be the same again

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A baby pika! Listen to his little cry. Someday it will be much louder.

#pika #best thing I've seen on my dashboard #I love it sm

[honestnoa]

i watch naruto because i can’t afford therapy