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The ultimate betrayal is having your best friend tell them they want to be more then friends.
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I miss you and it scares me to miss you. I am supposed to be independent and the truth is I don't even know if I want to be a part if all this. I'm scared that this will hurt more then I can handle. I'm afraid that you're going to fall in love with someone in rehab like some fucked up indie movie and really that would be okay but I don't like not knowing. I'm afraid that if I stay with you after you're out that my life is gonna be a whirlwind of hurt, and caretaking, and prevention. I'm worried that if I don't stay with you in going to miss out on a life full of adventure, and love, and family. I feel that I can find that with anyone though, so maybe I've just become attached to you. Something I didn't want to do even when you were here. I have found something I've been looking for all my life; self-love and I'm afraid if I love you I will give that up because through all of my relationships that's the one the I haven't learned how to balance, how to love myself wholey and completely while loving someone else wholey and completely. I'm glad to have this month. I've got a lot of thinking and soul searching to do.
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Why does my confidence and autonomy completely disappear after entering into a relationship?
I might not be cut out for this. I might not be ready.
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September 1993. ‘US Boys Non Stop Wear.’
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I think I'm falling in love. And boy does that scare me.
You are loud and you sing at random times which is literally my greatest pet peeves.
You tell kind of ridiculous jokes and sometimes it annoys the hell out of me.
But you also listen when I talk.
You massage my hands when we wait in line for a table.
You are even more of a feminist then me, and you catch yourself when you make mistakes and apologize.
You kiss me goodbye twice when you leave in the morning because once isn't enough.
You let me ramble on about my crazy Harry Potter theories and you even throw in a few good ones of your own.
You tell me that it's sexy when I fart in front of you, even as I hide my face, because it means I'm human and real and raw.
I think I'm falling in love with you. Please don't break my heart.
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jaydebobnerdypants · 6 years
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I am real sad. I know that there are people here who love me but not being in Bellingham for my birthday is breaking my heart. I miss my people the ones who completely understand me, the ones who don't insult my clothes on my birthday. I feel guilty for being sad and for missing the people I do when I have such beautiful friends right here too. This is harder then I thought it would be. I knew I wasn't going to have all my stuff figured out by this time yet but my heart simply hurts.
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Hi yes I'm very scared that we are all going to die in 'fire and fury' and people keep telling me 'oh there's nothing you can do if it happens so stop worrying' and I just want to yell and scream and throw things and literally force Trump out of the Whitehouse nd beg Obama to come back. I get that some of you just like aren't scared but I am and I don't understand how you're not and I'm also kind of mad that nobody is because in lieu of fear the world is experiencing apathy and nothing is changing. Please be scared. Please yell. Please do something. Make change make waves. We need to do something.
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i’m so done with the way girls in twenties are treated. i’m so done with people who literally create timetable for us. 20- 24  find a guy, 24-26 make him propose to you, 27-29 get married. i’m so done. i’m do not want to get 2 a.m texts from my best friend who is freaking out that she is gonna die alone. i do not want see my 20 years old friend wasting her time on some guys who are not even interested in her. i do not want see us falling for every nice guy who does not look creepy. i do not want to see girls get sad or paranoid just bcos they do not fill in the schedule. you are ok. you should enjoy your life at its fullest and one day you will find 10/10 so do not pursue 6 just because you do not want to be single. it is ok and one day you will find someone. do not split your love with people who does not deserve it. keep it for yourself and when time will come you will know. i know it hurts. i know you wish u could just open part of yourself and release the buzzing love. but not every kind of love is romantic. show it to your family, friends, plants, yourself.
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jaydebobnerdypants · 6 years
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what is it about capybaras that attracts groups of small animals to them? Its not just mammals either its like birds and turtles and frogs too
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jaydebobnerdypants · 6 years
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FUCKING PREACH
We really need to start making older men AFRAID of seeing girls in their late teens as potential partners.
‘But she’s so emotionally mature’
No NONCE she ain’t!!!!! ‘Emotionally mature’ compared to what? She’s a baby!!! Her willingness to carry YOUR bullshit and nurse your ego is not emotional maturity!
Men are just scared to date women their own age bc they are so transparently fucking pathetic and selfish and utterly undesirable and know that women w more life experience will recognise those things about them immediately. Fucking losers
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