kianbamonsomergraham-blog - Tumblr blog

kianbamonsomergraham-blog · 7 years

Text

my opinion and how i feel about Ian Somerhalder

It's interesting, I am seeing so many comments about Ian's looks on youtube. I see these comments on so many videos about Ian. Yes I do find him very attractive but for me it's not just his looks that make him sexy and attractive, for me it's his personality: it's his desire and love for helping people, the environment with his Ian Somerhalder foundation, his intelligence, compassion, his generosity with his fans and charity work and his talent as an actor and a director. To me and in my opinion, that is what makes Ian Somerhalder sexy and attractive. All of these comments I see about people saying oh he is so hot. Yes we know he is hot, I know he is hot but for me, sexy comes in so many different ways. It's a shame that people only look and judge Ian by his appearance and not by what he says and does for the world, I have seen people comment and say on different videos they don't like Ian because he interrupts people in interviews and panels and how he is an attention seeker because of it, to me, him interrupting people is just one of his flaws that I love because no one is perfect, everyone has a flaw or a bad habit, it's called humanity. We are all humans, just like Ian. Everyone is entitled to their opinion about Ian but I just wanted to say this because I just feel that Ian has always been so much more then just a beautiful, pretty actor who is adored by millions of women and young girls around the world. I adore him, I think he is beautiful but I also respect, admire, adore and love him as a person and for the man that he is, not just for his looks.

#ian somerhalder

8 notes · View notes

kianbamonsomergraham-blog · 7 years

Text

Bamon will always be endgame to me despite the Vampire Diaries finale! Here is my main reason why

I personally feel and will always believe and feel that Bamon will always be endgame for many reasons and why I think Delena is completely wrong. In Season 5 episode 10 Damon told Elena that he is bad for her, 6 episodes later in Season 5 episode 16 he confirmed what I have always thought and what a lot of people deny and refuse to accept that Delena (Damon and Elena) are toxic and are not and never were right for eachother. People that continue to deny that should watch the Elena and Damon breakup scenes in Season 5 episode 10 and Season 5 episode 16. All of this about Delena being toxic and bad for eachother and how they don't work as a couple comes straight from Damon's mouth in Season 5! I have always felt that Elena wanted to change Damon for her own benefit, not for Damon himself which is why I always think and believe that Bamon (Bonnie and Damon) belonged together and were and are the right match for eachother, more then Delena. What I like about Bonnie is that Bonnie never had to force Damon to change, he did that himself with Bonnie's help and guidance, Bonnie doesn't put up with Damon's bullshit, when he's in the wrong she doesn't defend him, she lets him know what he has done wrong and allows and makes him decide to do the right thing, she accepts him for who he is. Bonnie and Damon are able to have deep, meaningful and heartfelt conversations with eachother, all Damon and do is have sex and argue, Damon has never told Elena he loves, respects and admires her the way he has done with Bonnie (the letter scene in Season 8 episode 10 and when Bonnie tries to kill him in Season 7 episode 21) Damon can be himself when he is around Bonnie without worrying about what she would think and how she would feel, like he had to do when he was with Elena, Damon genuinely smiles and laughs when he is around Bonnie but not with Elena, he has never laughed or smiled with Elena, he has done with Bonnie (Season 6 episode 15. The Bamon reunion hug when Bonnie returns) Damon and Bonnie work together as a team when fighting the villains and are always saving eachother's lives, I have never seen Elena and Damon work as a team, Damon is always saving Elena. Damon dessicated himself for Bonnie and Stefan not for Elena. Damon tells Bonnie things about his past that he has never told Elena (like his war stories in Season 8 episode 10) I can go on forever but people will get bored. Yes I am a bamon shipper but I do watch the show and I have seen many differences between Bamon and Delena and I agree with Ian about how he thought that Bonnie was a healthy relationship for a Damon, yes he is a bamon shipper like so many others but people have a tendency to say he only likes Bamon because he is not a fan of Delena. I personally feel that he, like myself just watched the show, knew his character well and was only speaking the truth about Damon's character development because think about it, Damon was still hung up on Elena he didn't move forward because of Damon pining for Elena and for Ian that must of been so boring as an actor. I think some people can't accept change as believe that Damon should only be with Elena, if people think that they obviously didn't watch the show and didn't pay attention to the show and the storylines and only paid attention to the Delena storyline but what didn't help was Julie Plec's obsession with Delena. People say Bamon was only friendship or a brother-sister relationship but I disagree, I saw friendship and romance between Damon and Bonnie. Bamon have a lot of things that Delena will never have and could never compete with when it comes to Bamon, Bonnie did more things with and for Damon then she did with Enzo, Bonnie expressed so much more emotion whenever she was with Damon then she did with Enzo, Bonnie did more things with and for Damon then Elena did, Damon did more meaningful things and said more emotional and loving words to Bonnie then he did with Elena. In my opinion Damon was human when he was with Bonnie, not with Elena and no one can convince me otherwise, I am extremely proud to be a Bamon shipper and a Somergraham fan! Bamon shipper and Somergraham (Ian and Kat) fan for life!

#bamon #somergraham #kat and ian #bonnie and damon

180 notes · View notes