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I promise you, relationship anarchy is a good thing. Tell your friends you love them. Go on dates. Domme them. Take them to weddings. Have a relationship with the sub from the dungeon where she does your taxes or you mow his lawn. Help your neighbor plant begonias and become their honorary granddaughter. Become friends with your partner’s partners. Cuddle with your book club and talk about Polysecure or something, idk.

I don’t care. Just stop expecting every relationship to follow a specific pattern and instead find the beauty you both want in your specific relationship with that other person.

Life is more than the nuclear family and strict pseudo-Christian mythological ideals.

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book abt a twink and a lesbian who are roommates and just went through bad breakups and swear off sex until they realize they’re both incredibly horny so instead of going out to get their hearts broken again they just fuck each other since there’s zero chance of falling in love.

book ends with them both finding good partners and coparenting kids together. no IVF necessary bc that shits expensive.

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Some of you don't have firm principles that transcend ideology, and it shows.

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YES I'M GAY:

faGgot

dykAe (the a is silent)

trannY

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senselessly hating on a character ≠ talking about the characters flaws and failings (which make them compelling and worth engaging with) is still kicking people’s asses

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Hot take but I’m kind of tired of this attitude that “non-sexualized female character = feminist writing”

There are very sexy/sexualized female characters that are complex and well written and there are non-sexualized female characters that are written TERRIBLY.

A female character’s physical appearance and sexuality shouldn’t determine the quality of her character.

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The spirit of Diogenes is alive and well

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Do you guys remember how kidnap fantasies were popular on wattpad because young girls and queer teens were both made to feel shame at the thought of their own sexualities, so the fantasy of being kidnapped totally against their will was a way for them to engage with a romantic or sexual fantasy without feeling morally in the wrong for doing so? Added bonus that the fantasy involved being whisked away from repressive environments like home or school, right?

Finding out that Bram Stoker was in a sexless marriage and that scholars believe that he very likely was closeted gay puts the entire book into perspective as to WHY it reads EXACTLY like a self insert wattpad Dracula kidnap fic:

“I TOTALLY love my wife and would never do anything that an upstanding Good Straight Working Man wouldn’t do but oh nooo, big strong man with broad back and strong enough arms to carry me back to bed like a princess trapped me and claimed me as his, completely against my will 👉👈 But he protects me against the bad evil sexual women (who I assure you, I am TOTALLY sexually attracted to, as any straight man with a choice would be) but trust me, I do NOT want ANY of this. What’s that? The Count is not capable of feeling love? Would be a shame if I had the special ability to change tha-”

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worst relationship status to have w someone is “objectively they’re a fine person who is nice but i don’t enjoy their company as much as they enjoy mine”

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Stop saying "fuck that old man" and then showing me guys in their 30s. If he's not 60+ you're not allowed to call that an old man

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children existing in public spaces is genuinely like. necessary for the continuation of society. it doesnt have to be your kids you dont have to volunteer at a daycare or whatever but you need to be able to tolerate the presence of someone who is learning how to exist as a human and interact with people

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Please stop telling people, for any reason, to kill themself. Stop advocating for suicide in any form or capacity.

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queer people who have done zero self reflection when they see someone who doesn't look fem in their space

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trans whitebeard with post op titty decorative scars like how they do with illustrations and he deliberately made it like that cuz its cool

#Whitebeard #One Piece #YES TRANS WHITEBEARD #genuinely not into the crocomom theory I'm gonna be honest #trans whitebeard though... good

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The older you get the funnier anon hate gets. Like I do not have time for this I have to figure out what a 1099-K form is.

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#with my whole chest #PEANUT BUTTER