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[littlemssapphire]

My Dom Shows Me Respect By...

Hearing me out even when he disagrees with me.

Backing off when I say something is really too much.

Keeping his ego in check when making decisions for us. 

Respecting my limits.

Loving me for being me.   

Handling tough discussions with care and a calm tone of voice. 

Being my safe place. 

Staying on top of his responsibilities within our relationship.

Seeing value in my personality, including the soft, cautious and sensitive parts.

Double-checking his views or decisions if I voice concerns.

Following the D/s hierarchy. 

Recognizing and accepting our differences. 

Working hard to earn my trust. 

Holding me accountable. 

Understanding that somedays submission is hard. 

Using D/s to help me grow in ways I find meaningful.  

Believing in me.

Showing up to support, guide, or discipline me as needed, even when it’s hard.  

Trusting that I am trying even when I fall short. 

Giving me boundaries. 

Protecting my sensitive heart. 

Being patient with me. 

Setting goals for me that are achievable. 

Building me up. 

Considering his impact on me. 

Trusting me. 

Being dedicated to me. 

Encouraging me to say ‘no’ when I need to. 

Doing his best to make the best decisions. 

Staying loyal to me.

Speaking kindly of me.  

Advocating for what is best for me. 

Caring about my pleasure. 

Being clear about what he expects from me. 

Analyzing his perspectives, beliefs, and actions regularly. 

Being open and honest with me.

Forgiving me when I make mistakes.

Viewing us as a team.

Keeping his promises and commitments. 

Remembering the value of my submission. 

[littlemssapphire]

i just want possessive sex but like lovingly you know? fuck me into the mattress while you grip my hips so hard you leave bruises like fingerprints but call me your precious angel in that soft voice while you do. pull on the collar with your name engraved on it so hard that it leaves indents on my throat like a claim but hold my hand and rub your thumb across my knuckles at the same time. leave hickies and bruises and bite marks all over me but kiss them each gently as you hold me to your chest. show me i'm yours and show me i'm loved and i'll do the same for you

[littlemssapphire]

Oh god yes please 🥺🥺🥺

i love.... attentive doms,, yano the ones that try to figure out exactly what you want and give it to you?

you're feeling soft and subby and wanna give them head and space out for a little while? okay, they'll guide you and pet your hair while you do 💕

you're sleepy but you still wanna get intimate with them? okay, they'll sit you on their cock and give you kisses while you watch movies together ☁️

you want them to fucking rail you? okay, they'll tell you how good you are for them while they fuck you to tears 💛

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skirts and dresses are cute but they’re even cuter with someone’s head tucked under them

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if someone could come over and put their tongue on my clit for just a few minutes (or hours), that would be greatly appreciated

[littlemssapphire]

Aww, what's the matter, baby? Are you feeling a little needy? A little desperate, horny enough not to focus on anything else and embarassed enough not to do anything about it?

Do you want me to pin you down? Tease you until I decide you're begging enough to earn relief? Kiss away all those needy little whimpers?

Oh, you're blushing! You're so cute when you're all flustered like that. If you want it, you're going to have to ask...

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like this? 🥺

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Signs of a fantastic Dom

We always talk about “signs of a terrible Dom” so let’s talk about some signs of an actually good Dom

They ask you about your day: They show compassion and actually want to listen about how your day went

They ALWAYS want to keep fields of communication open: Whether you’re in the middle of a kinky-as-fuck scene or you two are in a heated argument, the means of communication is ALWAYS open. Once you give your safe word, IT IS DONE

Aftercare is a top priority. No matter what this is for you in particular, they put a lot of emphasis on aftercare (cuddling, movie watching, bath time, etc.)

They aren’t afraid to scold you when you actually mess up. Sometimes we fuck up, both with our dynamics or we screwed up something at work or school. Doms will scold you, put also help cheer you up and might even offer ways to make it positive

Sex might be apart of the dynamic, but it’s not the focus. I get the fact some people get involved with other BDSM partners for the sole reason of sex, but outside of those VERY SPECIFIC DYNAMICS, sex is NOT the sole focus. It might be a fun “add on”, but it’s NOT the primary objective (penetrative sex or other forms of sex acts).

They are concerned for your safety, but don’t overdo it. They want you safe, but don’t take it to the paranoid level where they need to track every little thing you do.

They respect your privacy. EVERYONE has secrets (”skeletons in your closest”), even among romantic partners who have been partners for a long time, people have stuff they just don’t feel comfortable confessing every little thing in their life. A respectful Dom understands this and doesn’t need to go spying on you or attempt to invade your privacy (track internet history, track phone usage, track where you’ve been, etc.)

They trust you. A Dom who doesn’t trust you will purposely try to fuck up the relationship/dynamic, they will show severe jealousy, and other negative aspects. A Dom that trusts you will respect YOU as a person as well as you to keep your word on different things.

When disagreements happen, they use constructive language. There is not a healthy relationship on this earth that is 100% argument/disagreement free. However, whenever these do happen, it is NOT a “me against you” style argument (”I WON THE ARGUMENT”, none of that). It is done in a way with minimal accusatory/hurtful statements

They respect your hard limits. Doms know hard limits don’t mean “convince me”. They know to stay the fuck away from hard limits with a ten foot freaking pole.

[littlemssapphire]

Wow 😍😍😍

I started recording this after she had cum several times and this is me finally cumming inside her and her begging for it.

[littlemssapphire]

im full of softness n love but i am also full of trauma

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You can bet that I'll steal your hoodie.

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Reblog if your tumblr is your nasty little secret 😏

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ok but can you please take cute polaroids of me sucking your dick??

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i really can’t stop thinking about stretching out someone’s ass and slapping their pretty cunt every time they whine

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you gotta moan and tell her nasty little things right into her ears in between kisses when you fuck her.

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When you’re so sad even a two hour masturbation session and two DP orgasms don’t make you feel better 😞