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There he comes, securely locked in the chastity belt and ready to serve me. I'll scoot forward a bit and let him remove my panties. After that my relaxing evening can start, my chaste subby hubby between my legs, lapping away at my pussy, slowly working me up to the orgasm that I deserve, while I watch TV and sip some wine. Life's good for a keyholder.

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My favorite thing about introducing edging and denial is the predictability of the events that follow:

You’re in utter disbelief that someone would actually deny an orgasm.

Then comes the anger and frustration. How dare someone try to keep you from your orgasm! Perhaps some attitude will need correcting at this stage.

Soon you’ll be begging. Bartering. Negotiating. Trying anything to prove that you deserve that orgasm.

Maybe you’ll cry when you finally realize that it’s truly out of your control. You have no influence. Your body and its pleasure are no longer a priority or even relevant to the conversation.

And when kept denied, you’ll realize: you’re better without an orgasm. You’re a better sub, better plaything, better toy. You’re more obedient. Your partner knows what you need better than you, and you realize they were right: you don’t need to orgasm.

Then the addiction starts.

The neediness in your body settles as a new default state of being… you would feel empty without it. Directionless.

And suddenly, the same sub who said they could *never* handle be denied is confessing that being told no feels better than being allowed to orgasm.

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In a female led relationship, the woman has complete control of her man. She knows that she can exert her power anytime she wants. Stripping him naked will produce an instant submissive reaction from him: she’s full clothed and he’s exposed and powerless to hide his excitement and his erection. Gripping his hard cock while she talks with him is very persuasive and will ensure agreement from hi for just about any suggestion or argument she asks. There is no need to allow him to cum, in fact they will both benefit if he is tease and denied orgasm. His cock is under control: she likes it, and he accepts it.

Text borrow from SexyKinkyBeauty here at Tumblr

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In a female led relationship, the woman has complete control of her man. She knows that she can exert her power anytime she wants. Stripping him naked will produce an instant submissive reaction from him: she’s full clothed and he’s exposed and powerless to hide his excitement and his erection. Gripping his hard cock while she talks with him is very persuasive and will ensure agreement from hi for just about any suggestion or argument she asks. There is no need to allow him to cum, in fact they will both benefit if he is tease and denied orgasm. His cock is under control: she likes it, and he accepts it.

Text borrow from SexyKinkyBeauty here at Tumblr

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Denied and ruined 3 to 4 times a year. Several times a month, 2 to 3 times every week. I would to cum but she just stops and pushes my cage on me. I love it.

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It's not easy for her. Soon she starts to enjoy it.

You Tell Him He Can’t Cum

The first time and you feel awful.  It hurts you as he begs and tells you how much he needs it.  As he curses and his hand shakes as you make him put his cock away.  As he wheedles and tries to undermine your command and you aren’t so sure anymore this is what he wants, but you shore up and are firm and you tell him how it will be.  

It turns out he loves you for it.  It drives him mad.  Hearing stern rules almost makes him cum on the spot untouched.  Being denied fuels him in a way you can’t quite comprehend, and this first time as you fight guilt and relief in equal measure you don’t enjoy the power.

Oh but the next time… the next time you barely breathe in his direction and he’s hard?  You work him up with such little effort to the point where he tells you he needs to cum, asks you to cum… and this time you deny him with a smile.  This time the commands fly off your tongue.  This time wonderfully evil ideas spin through your mind and sorting through to pluck only one or two this time occupies far too much of your time.  You are soaked through.  

It is not just a no for now.  It is a no for the afternoon.  It is a no for the evening.  It is a no as you cum and he listens.  It is a no as you send him favorite porn of his.  It is a no as you let him choose what toy you will masturbate with.  It is a no as others tease him.  It is a no as you cum again.  A world of denial coming easily, and with each no his desperation is evident, but he doesn’t fight it.  He’s so grateful.  Drowning in lust and hotness and your attention.  Denied but not forgotten.  Allowed to edge and edge so pleasure builds, if not release.  

He has a time limit.  A count down.  He knows when his torment is set to end.  That does not stop him from asking.  From needing.  From begging.  From cursing, but with a smile.  Enjoying the teasing nearly as much, if not more, than he’ll enjoy his release.  That’s okay… you’ll enjoy that release enough for both of you, over and over and over.

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Tonight was supposed to be unlocked for edging.. instead I got the magic wand on my cage. Not even the cage but the ring under my balls. 40 minutes or so, got to the edge a few times just to be denied and left to cool off. All said and done I'm told May e Christmas or new year I'll be unlocked and should expect an awesome handjob but probably won't get ruined. Just denied. I love my edgings. All I get

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Next Generation

So it looks like younger girls are figuring it out. My wife spoke to her daughter the other day. She’s away at school and living with two other 20 year olds. She was talking about how her and her friends get a kick out of tease and denial and making their boyfriends wait to cum. Usually only hours or a day or two. My wife mentioned they’ll really start to see good results after about ten days, not just laughs. Apparently, they’ve already figured out ruined orgasms. Well, turns out about seven of these friends are doing Locktober this year. 

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The Cage

1. You are not punishing your man - you are protecting him from his perfectly normal lack of self-control…

2. You are not denying him sexual pleasure. In fact, when you do release him from his male chastity belt, sex will feel better for him and his orgasms will become much more intense…

3. You are not denying yourself the sex life you deserve. While he’s locked up he’ll use his mouth and fingers to provide you with sexual satisfaction on a regular basis. And, there are ways that you have satisfying penetrative sex while he is still under lock and key…

4. Men will try to claim they need to have regular orgasms to stay healthy. This simply isn’t true. They do need to have ejaculations every so often; but you can make this happen in a matter of minutes without him getting an erection or having an orgasm…

5. Hundreds of thousands of married couples are in the male chastity lifestyle. It’s not kinky. In fact, the odds are that several of your friends already have their husband’s crown jewels locked away…

6. When done correctly, your man will feel more loved by you than he did before male chastity became a part of your life. In fact, most men eventually thank their wives for insisting on the lifestyle…

7. While at first you’ll only keep him locked up for a few days at a time, eventually he should be restricted to eight to 12 orgasms a year. This is more than enough…

8. Over time he’ll start to feel like more of a man, because he’ll know that all of his sexual energy is going towards pleasing you. He’ll like the fact that he no longer feels like a little boy who can’t help but play with his little pee-pee when you are not looking. Instead, he will be saving himself for you…

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