Submission. Listen babe, stop blaming your lack of submission on other people. It’s all us and we know it.
We were taught to be independent and do everything for ourselves but this is because we come from women who “did everything themselves.” We were taught to be a strong woman, just like them but baby, I’m here to tell you that those days are through.
As long as your submission isn’t fumbling your finances or messing with your bank account, exude that submissive energy.
Let him do it.
Submission has been objectified and we’ve seemed to have lost the true meaning.
Submission has never been inferior, submission makes you superior. And this does not apply to just relationships, you can use your submissive energy daily. Even as a single woman. Especially as a single woman.
Homework: Allow that random man to open your door, allow that guy to carry your groceries, allow that dude to pay your tab at the register. You’re a woman for god’s sake, a feminine woman, a queen. If you wanted to do it yourself, you could, we all know that but you’re not. You’re way too pretty for that.
As a feminine woman, the only thing you should be worried about is what nail color you’re going to get next week. Let the men, do a man’s job and trust me babe, they’ll enjoy every moment of it. Men love to feel needed.
(Do’s: saying “yes”, “it’s so heavy”, allow a man to do it for you.)
(Don’ts: saying “no”, do everything for yourself.)
Y’all remember that it’s okay to have your own interests and still be feminine. I just had someone tell me that I can’t be feminine because I like horror movies…?? Don’t listen to these people, you don’t have to change your entire personality and interests just to be feminine.
Women are dynamic too. Women can enjoy things that are unorthodox. We’re human… Femininity is so much more than the surface level jargon spoken about half the time.