Oh. Oh no. Me bawling again. đđđđđ
It has just occured to me that in CMBYN is never, not once, said or written "I love you" - neither in the book nor in the film. And yet we are perfectly aware what is this all about.Wow.
10 times they said, âI love youâ without saying âI love youâ
1. Call me by your name and Iâll call you by mine (book/film).
Letâs just rip the band aid off straight away shall we? Up until this point, I would say Elio and Oliverâs interactions could be passed off as desire and/or lust. Sure, they had an idea about how big this could get, but they couldnât possibly know. This line changes everything. Call me by your name and Iâll call you by mine. I want to start with the fact Oliver is the one that says it. Oliver has been so reserved up until this point â playing off their first kiss like it was only to settle Elioâs childish needs when it was really him giving in to his deepest desire. By saying these words, he is binding their souls together. By saying these words heâs asking that they exist as one so that when theyâre apart, it shouldnât have to hurt, because Elio is Oliver and Oliver is Elio and they can never really be apart if they are the same.
âWhat is life without this? Which was why, in the end, it was I, and not he, who blurted out, not once, but many, many times. Youâll kill me if you stop, youâll kill me if you stop, because it was also my way of bringing full circle the dream and the fantasy, me and him, the longed-for words from his mouth to my mouth, back into his mouth, swapping words from mouth to mouth, which was when I must have begun using obscenities that he repeated after me, softly at first, till he said, âCall me by your name and Iâll call you by mine,â which Iâd never done in my life before and which, as soon as I said my own name as though it was his, took me to a realm never shared with anyone in my life before, or since.â
âTook me to a realm never shared with anyone in my life before, or since.â Imagine Elio was a real person for a second, and this book was a memoir, heâd have to have written it at least 20 years after these events took place in Summer â83. This bitch literally said, âor since.â It reminds me of when Elio tells Oliver about the fishing trip with Anchise, where Elio thought Oliver had died and where he goes onto say he wouldâve ripped out Oliverâs heart âbecause that heart and his shirt were all Iâd ever have to show for my life.â If that doesnât say âI love youâ in block capitals, underlined twice, then I donât know what does.
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this whole thread is absolutely stunning and it makes me cry. đ đđ
I made a little collection called âTHIS really happened and there is nothing you do to take it away from me, go ahead and twist it all you want but these moments stay imprinted foreverâ, hope youâll like it:
They kissed, really kissed, while they were naked and rubbing their genitals, they were kissing for 6 weeks
Timmy really went for the hammer, he looks very confident while pulling it upwards and Armie seems to enjoy it, i know theyâre in their characters here but come onâŠ
Yup, Timmy really filmed Armie while he was in the bathroom, literally peeing in the moment, and put it online
This really happened! Texas was everything, from the 7 minute speech to this, to realizing itâs the final award show and then the movie was done completely. A very emotional day
GA, should i even discuss this? Look at these husbands. They really do bring out the happiest of smiles on each other
Yeah, like, okay, this really happened and we saw it and okay, Iâll leave this dominant and hungry Timmy gif here and go
This was an eye fuck fest. And it really happened, period.
This. Really. Happened. This is how you support your co-star, or something more, but the fact that he let him go to shine and be the centre of attentionâŠitâs okay Armie, thatâs just my heart weeping
This really happened, okay?! He really showed up after being a ghost for 6 months, with a bowl cut that he hated in public for Armie Hammer and Armie took the opportunity to show him off as to say âHeâs mine, heâs here, for me, and no one else.â THIS was a special day/night, and it might have been a trigger for what happened less than one month later.
And finally this. This really happened, you can twist it all you want, say mean things and point out the things that arenât important but the fact is this really happened and there is nothing you can do to take it away from me.
Feel free to add your own âthis really happenedâ momentsâš
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Thak you so much, whoever you are for putting all this together in one place. I know it has to have been a lot of work. đđœđđœđđ„
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Armie Hammer statements:
13 January 2021 via TMZ: âIâm not responding to these b*llshit claims but in light of the vicious and spurious online attacks against me, I cannot in good conscience now leave my children for 4 months to shoot a film in the Dominican Republic. Lionsgate is supporting me in this and Iâm grateful to them for that.â
17 January 2021 via Cayman Compass: âI would like to clarify that the person in my video, which was stolen from my private Instagram, is not Miss Cayman. I am genuinely sorry for any confusion my foolish attempt at humour may have caused.â (Regarding leaked finsta video)
21 January 2021 via US Weekly: âThese assertions about Mr. Hammer are patently untrue. Any interactions with this person, or any partner of his, were completely consensual in that they were fully discussed, agreed upon, and mutually participatory. The stories being perpetuated in the media are a misguided attempt to present a one-sided narrative with the goal of tarnishing Mr. Hammerâs reputation, and communications from the individuals involved prove that.â (Statement also used in March 2021)
20 March 2021 via Daily Mail: âEffieâs own correspondence with Mr. Hammer undermines and refutes her outrageous allegations. As recently as July 18, 2020, Effie sent graphic texts to Mr. Hammer telling him what she wanted him to do to her. Mr. Hammer responded making it clear that he did not want to maintain that type of relationship with her. The screenshot below is just one of hundreds Effie sent to Mr. Hammer.âIt was never Mr. Hammerâs intention to embarrass or expose Effieâs fetishes or kinky sexual desires, but she has now escalated this matter to another level by hiring a civil lawyer to host a public press conference. With the truth on his side, Mr. Hammer welcomes the opportunity to set the record straight.'From day one, Mr. Hammer has maintained that all of his interactions with Effie  â and every other sexual partner of his for that matter â have been completely consensual, discussed and agreed upon in advance, and mutually participatory. Effieâs attention seeking and ill-advised legal bid will only make it more difficult for real victims of sexual violence to get the justice they deserve.â
NSFW text message sent by formal accuser Efrosina to Armie Hammer on July 18, 2020. Released to Daily Mail by attorney Andrew Brettler.
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The scandal began on 31 December 2020, when an Instagram account titled houseofeffie uploaded an exotic dancing video, which appeared to feature a voiceover by Hammer. This generated speculation and during the first week of January 2021, the woman running this account began to leak unverified DMs. What initially seemed like an expose of a kink-based sexual affair, turned to claims of sexual assault from around January 10-11.
Hammer was quarantining on the Cayman Islands from December 18 - January 1. He last posted to Instagram on 2 January 2021 and Twitter on 7 January 2021.
Initial/early reports:
11 January 2021 - The Sun: âWhy is Armie Hammer Trending?â
12-13 January 2021 - Daily Mail reports on leaked DMs. Uses HouseofEffie screenshots and a tweet from Jessica Ciencin Henriquez stating: âIf you are still questioning whether or not those Armie Hammer DMs are real (and they are) maybe you should start questioning why we live in a culture willing to give abusers the benefit of the doubt instead of victimsâ
13 January 2021 - Page Six brings back old interview comments from Hammer about enjoying rough sex/a violent ex-girlfriend.
15 January 2021 - Daily Mail reveals leaked private Instagram account.
17 January 2021- Pedestrian TV brings back more old tweets and Instagram photos. Implies cooking steak and pork relates toâŠcannibalism. Inexplicably highlights a 2016 tweet from Hammer criticizing Donald Trumpâs callous reaction to being accused by numerous women.
Early January 2021, Instagram celebrity gossip page DeuxMoi regularly posted on their daily story updates encouraging people to check out the leaked DMs on other platforms like Twitter, and posted at least one cropped screenshot of a leaked DM. They were a primary instigator in generating and directing attention toward the leaked DMs. Google images has many screencaps.
Late January 2021- blogger TheZenBlonde goes viral on Tik Tok with several videos detailing the allegations and DMs. She reveals she is close friends with Hammerâs estranged aunt, Casey, who is in the process of re-releasing her 2015 book âSurviving My Birthrightâ.
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The Women:
Courtney Vucekovich:
14 January 2021 - Interview with Page Six
Paige Lorenze:
22 January 2021 - Interview with DailyMailTV
25 January 2021 - Interview with Page Six
26 January 2021 - Interview with Inside Edition
28 January 2021 - Interview with Kyle and Jackie O
21 February 2021 - Interview with Sofia with a F
21 February 2021 - Interview with Dr Oz
23 February 2021- Threatens to expose HouseofEffie because she âedits and manipulates screenshotsâ.
18 August 2021 - Posts Tik Tok video stating Hammer should not have been canceled: âThat was never my intentionâ (now deleted)
Efrosina Angelova:
(Note: As of December 2021, the only known person to involve an attorney)
March 18, 2021 - Online press conference with attorney Gloria Allred, accusing Hammer of rape in April 2017.
June 8, 2021 via Vanity Fair - âWhile I am glad that Armie is finally getting the help I begged him to get for so long, this does not take away all of the immense pain and suffering he has caused me.â
August 31, 2021 via People: âEffie has not brought any legal action against [Hammer], nor has he been legally charged.â
Other:
Julia Morrison: (Note: Morrison never met Hammer in person)
April 20, 2021 via White Hot Magazine: âJulia Morrison mints the first #MeToo NFT about escaping Armie Hammer in âArmie DM TMI NFTsâ
September 11, 2021 via Instagram: Posts Instagram story about allegedly being followed/threatened in April; believes it was people sent by Hammer after she leaked/published the NFTs. Later posts a police report she filed about the alleged threats, but police closed the case.
21 September 2021 - Morrison leaks several more similar DM (consensual) conversations.
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There were several unverified, anonymous names circulating in January, all on social media: milkandhoneyroses (later found to be catfishing/using another womanâs images and was called out on Twitter by the woman), houseofregret (claimed Hammer attacked her in 2019 but was not going to report anything or go public, she fell out almost instantly with Effie, vanished for months then reappeared briefly in November before vanishing again), and Velvet (appears to have been debunked as a catfish too). A woman named Ellie Beers Fallon also posted an Instagram story claiming she was a victim but has said nothing further in approx 10 months now.
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Building the narrative:
Sophie Ross:
January 14, 2021: âIf I See One More Person Defending Armie Hammerâ (Note: Ross also tweeted an unverified Reddit story about Hammer allegedly buying an axe and rope, and a thread of tweets displaying the unverified DMs)
OK! Magazine:
18 January, 2021: 'Heâs Always Wanted Thisâ: 'Perverseâ Armie Hammer 'Secretly Enjoying All The Attentionâ After Alleged DMs Take Over The Internet (Note: Completely unsourced, no names)
Variety:
February 4, 2021: âArmie Hammerâs Hollywood Career Is in Freefall as Sex Scandal Explodes on Social Mediaâ
Vanity Fair:
March 11, 2021: The Fall of Armie HammerÂ
June 8, 2021: Armie Hammer Has Checked Into A Treatment Program
The Hollywood Reporter:
May 27, 2021: âIn #MeToo Era, Defense Attorneys Combat âan Assumption of Wrongdoingâ (Featuring comments from attorney Andrew Brettler: â[Brettler approached] many of the news sites that covered Effieâs rape claim and ask them to include exculpatory text messages that might contextualize the relationship better, but the attorney found no takers. He settled for the Daily Mail, a news organization that followed the Hammer case prodigiously but is generally not considered trustworthy. âMany media outlets donât want to be seen as blaming the purported victim or be seen as an apologist for the accused,â Brettler adds. âBalance is key. If the press is going to report on accusations based on gossip or rumors on social media, then it needs to report both sides of the story.â)
Blind Items:
Crazy Days and Nights
Blind Gossip (hinting HERE at the police investigation a month before it became public knowledge)
Rehab coverage:
(Note: There is no official confirmation/comment in any of these articles)
June 8, 2021 via Vanity Fair: âArmie Hammer Has Checked Into A Treatment Programâ
September 3, 2021 via The Sun: âArmie Hammerâs new girlfriend is âstanding by himâ as he extends rehab stay amid police investigation over rape claimâ.
16 October, 2021 via TMZ: âArmie Hammer Still in Treatment for AddictionsâŠGetting Better Every Dayâ (Note: As of November 25, Armie is confirmed to be back on the Cayman Islands, visible on Elizabeth Chambers Instagram story during a Thanksgiving lunch. This would mean either TMZ or The Sun - or both - were incorrect in their unverified reports. The Caymans still require quarantine before entering, meaning Hammer had to have been back on the island for most of November, at least).Â
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Exited Roles:
Shotgun Wedding
The Offer
The Minutes
Billion Dollar Spy
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Celebrity Statements:
Bella Thorne via Instagram: âI honestly canât believe this. People are crazy to fake this kinda shit â this poor guy and his kids, like leave him and his family alone. No way heâs a freaking CANNIBAL. Also, thereâs a million fake screenshots going around.â (January 2021)
Rumer Willis via OK! Magazine: âShe wanted to defend him when the cannibalism stories first came out because she thought they were outrageous. Now she feels badly for all of the victims. Sheâs really grateful she didnât get caught up in the Armie nightmare.â (Unverified) (February 2021)Â
Michael Stuhlbarg via The Independent: âIt will blow through.â (March 2021)
Josh Duhamel via Man About Town: â[Replacing someone] is not how I like to get roles. I know Armie a little bit, and when I knew I was gonna get the part I emailed him and said, âListen, I know you are going through it right now, I donât like to get roles like this and I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you and good luck, get through it. He emailed me right back and said thank you so who knows, hopefully he gets through it.â (May 2021)
Timothee Chalamet via Time Magazine: âI totally get why youâre asking that but itâs a question worthy of a larger conversation, and I donât want to give you a partial response.â (October 2021)
Kenneth Branagh via Variety: âWhatâs gone on there is a personal and private matter of which I have no knowledge and of which I think is going through a process which has to be respected. Those very serious issues are being dealt with seriously.â (October 2021)
Dakota Johnston via The Hollywood Reporter: âI never experienced that firsthand from any of those people. I had an incredible time working with them; I feel sad for the loss of great artists. I feel sad for people needing help and perhaps not getting it in time. I feel sad for anyone who was harmed or hurt. I do believe that people can change. I want to believe in the power of a human being to change and evolve and get help and help other people. I think thereâs definitely a major over-correction happening. But I do believe that thereâs a way for the pendulum to find the middle. The way that studios have been run up until now, and still now, is behind. It is such an antiquated mindset of what movies should be made, who should be in them, how much people should get paid, what equality and diversity look like. Sometimes the old school needs to be moved out for the new school to come in. But, yeah, cancel culture is such a fucking downer. I hate that term.â (November 2021)
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LAPD statements:
March 18, 2021 via Deadline: âWe can confirm that Armie Hammer is the named suspect in an alleged sexual assault investigation, initiated on February 3, 2021âł.
June 8, 2021 via Vanity Fair: âOn Tuesday, LAPD officer Norma Eisenman told Vanity Fair that detectives are not commenting on the case.â
San Bernardino County Police:
February 8, 2021: The Public Information Officer for the Sheriffâs Office exclusively confirmed: âArmie Hammerâs name has NOT come up as a suspect at all [in a murder investigation]. We have no plans to investigate himâ.Â
Elizabeth Chambers (ex-wife):
February 1, 2021 via Instagram: âFor weeks, Iâve been trying to process everything that has transpired. I am shocked, heartbroken, and devastated. Heartbreak aside, I am listening, and will continue to listen and educate myself on these delicate matters. I didnât realize how much I didnât know. I support any victim of assault or abuse and urge anyone who has experienced this pain to seek the help she or he needs to heal. At this time, I will not be commenting further on this matter. My sole focus and attention will continue to be on our children, on my work and on healing during this incredibly difficult time. Thank you for all of the love and support, and thank you in advance for your continued kindness, respect, and consideration for our children and me as we find ways to move forward.â
On 25-26 November 2021, Armie was visible on Elizabethâs Instagram story, attending her Thanksgiving lunch.
Talent agency and personal publicist exit:
February 5, 2021 via The Hollywood Reporter: âArmie Hammer has been dropped by WME. Sources tell THR that his personal publicist has also stepped away.â (Note: No official statements from WME or his publicist ever eventuated).
Director and cast of Crisis being penalized by press due to the scandal:
April 8, 2021 via Moviemaker: âWe had all this [press] lined up. Little by little all these things evaporated and all this press â they didnât want to do a feature about Armie Hammer because, letâs be honest, the story was Armie Hammer, cannibal. But the subtext of the story was Armie Hammer, sexual abuser. And now the further subtext, which now has become the text, is Armie Hammer, accused rapist. One network was eager to have Gary Oldman appear for an interview but insisted, âheâs got to answer two questions about the Armie Hammerâ situation.âI think the only time they ever met each other was at a dinner I had to kick off the movie.â
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