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when you take the cd out of the cd player and it's warm that's because it's alive

#guys im going to cry #wdym you dont know what cds are man

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Who makes the porn bots. Where do they come from. What do they hope to achieve.

#iconic tumblr moment

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DAMN @cleomaybetalking dont hide this in the tags

my villain origin story is that i grew up on so many cartoons w friendship as the centerpiece and like. friend groups composed of 5+ people who all love each other dearly. and that does not exist in real life bitch

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Some Lemony Snicket for Thursday:

"I will love you if I never see you again, and I will love you if I see you everyday. I will love you as we find ourselves farther and farther from one another, where once we were so close... will love you until your face is fogged by distant memory. I will love you no matter where you go and who you see, I will love you if you don't marry me.

I will love you if you marry someone else and I will love you if you never marry at all, and spend your years wishing you had married me after all. That is how I will love you even as the world goes on its wicked way."

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jenny holzer

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Really obsessing over nature vs nurture rn.

How does one person grow up under horrible circumstances and become a serial killer while someone else undergoes the same experiences and becomes an activist social worker.

if bad/traumatic experiences are bullets, does that mean some people are born guns and other born teddy bears?

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Someone: how have you been doing?

Me, hanging on by a thread:

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The thing is, deep down nobody really believes nurture plays an immeasurable role in who you are.

Parents don't want to believe that. Because that places the burden on their shoulder's. It's easier to say, "they were just born that way".

Survivor's don't want to believe that. Because then everyone is just a sum of the experiences that they've undergone and when you've undergone horrible things you often don't want to have to acknowledge the part they play in who you are.

I've seen both of these first hand.

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#i fucking love this

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guy's look, it's staff

are you staff?

I am yeah

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Story time: I’m a trans guy. I have an identical twin. We’re both tall, androgynous, and have naturally deep voices

In high school a rumor was spread that one of us was trans. For years, everyone in school had convinced themselves that my twin was “the trans one”. She rolled with it to keep me safe, and said it felt like a compliment to be mistaken for a trans woman since she looked up to a lot of trans women. That didn’t stop the bullying, but it’s easier to deal with when it’s directed at the wrong person. I’m engaged to a feminine cis guy who is several inches shorter than me. I have 20-30lbs on him and I can dead lift him. He’s more delicate and soft both physically and socially. He cries during sad movies, owns half a million stuffed animals, and clings to my arm when he’s nervous or it’s cold out (oh yeah, also he’s adorable) Whenever the topic of being trans comes up, cis people tend to think he’s the one who is trans. Direct all “what do your parents think?” comments onto him. Completely ignore me. Ask him invasive/transphobic questions about his body. Tell him “you pass so well!” through grit teeth. Like with my sister, I get pretty pissed about this, but there’s not much I can do about it. I have had to argue with cis people to establish the fact I’m trans because they don’t believe me & think I’m joking. they’re like “but he’s - no, she’s trans!” and frantically point fingers at my fiance and sister. Because there’s no way an adult cis woman could be taller than 5′9 and choose to be bare-faced, and an adult cis man could love How To Train Your Dragon 2 with a fiery passion, enough to watch it 3 times in the theatre.  Terfs take one look at us and try to convince my sister she’ll never have a uterus or that she’s “appropriating women’s spaces”. Transphobes say my boyfriend will “always be a girl” and call him gendered slurs. They talk over them, block them, and grill them about what genitalia they have online. Completely unknowing that they’re talking to two cisgender people who are gay and gnc. @ young, closeted, scared trans people: any cis person who insists they can somehow “know” your “birth sex” by looking at you because “it’s so obvious!” is full of shit. people come in all shapes and sizes regardless of gender. Not only are they being transphobic, but they’re being homophobic too.

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post-email aftercare like that was a great email and you seemed so normal

#i am so good at adulting and absolutely know what i am doing

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#i-

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tumblr is a “public diary” to you. to me its a public journal. like men have. im masc.

#i’ll never not reblog this lmao