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A really simple test.

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It's my core belief that every woman should be entirely independent and be responsible for her own finances regardless of the man in her life. I do not support tradwives or housewives even if it's their own choice to become one. Literally every housewife i know, whether personally or the ones i came across on social media platforms, have one common trait; internalized jealousy. One might tell you she supports independent working women, but once u get to know her you realize she keeps dragging you back toward 18th century patriarchal society. Another might show you the so called luxurious life she's living that her husband provided for her, but that's just her deceiving you to make you believe a man will make your life easy. She's intentionally not showing you the in between parts of her life where she has to be a complete slave to that man just to get some money thrown on her face later. Believe me when i say this, no man is going to provide for you without expecting you to be subservient in return. Every man believes being a provider makes him more valuable, and some even believe that that should be the reason they deserve to have more than one woman. So don't give these incels the power to have authority over you by not being dependent on them. There's a reason why, statistically, independent women are happier than 90% of housewives. Go get your own money!! Be independent!!

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this video was just a bunch of tiktoks and clips of many "normie" women explaining to younger girls why tradwives are not and have never been a real thing.

i think we need to acknowledge that a lot of the misogyny online is aimed at young impressionable girls because the fact of the matter is older women are not as easily swayed. they are all aware of what being at the mercy of a man means. even their mothers insist that they have their own money regardless of their marriage to a man.

that's why a lot of these patriarchal propaganda campaigns are aimed at girls at younger and younger ages because most men have given up on older women (women in their mid 20s and up) so they have to lie to girls.

it isn't really there to convince grown women but to groom impressionable girls, so it is not just a misogynistic campaign but more accurately an aggressive grooming campaign.

please be more present and active in the lives of younger women around you! they need their older sisters now! they are the ones men are targetting.

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I often wonder how many old folklore creatures that used to steal people from villages were just made up by women in case they ever needed to get out of dodge without their husbands looking for them. Poor Margaret was taken by the Fae, no sense looking for her, there will never be a body found.

downside of researching folklore is the occasional reminder that oh yeah, women were the literal property of their husbands cross-culturally and could be beaten or killed at his discretion for disobedience

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There are girls in my class that I fucking loathe but still tapped my bus pass on their ride home for, because they were out and needed to get home. Again, hated these women. Still wouldn't leave them stranded on campus no matter how much I don't like them.

I have had my roommates very VERY drunk friends fall asleep on my shoulder at 3 am when they got way over served and couldn't keep their heads out of the toilet. I had never met these women in my life, but I got my ass out of bed at three in the goddamn morning, got them into the apartment safely, braided some girls hair to keep it out of their faces, and carried them to bed so they weren't asleep in the bathroom.

When one of them was so agitated that they wanted to leave, I offered to have her sleep in my bed while I slept in the living room because I didn't feel safe sending her alone, in the state she was in, at that hour. Again. Never met this woman in my life.

Stand up for your fellow women. Do not let them be vulnerable and alone if you can help them

“girls support girls” no. girls protect girls. I could hate a girl to death and I still wouldn’t take my eyes off her drink at a party, I could hate her like she was the devil but still I wouldn’t make her go back to a man that was beating her.

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I asked a nonbinary ex-friend of mine why TRAs oppose gender abolition and essentially just make more boxes to fit in and why radfems and TRAs don’t have the same goals. Cause like, they should, right? We both understand gender is oppressive and both understand that your sex doesn’t define what you like and who you are.

You want to know the answer? You want to know what the response was to “isn’t gender inherently oppressive? Why would you want to make more of them instead of everyone just not having a gender?”

The answer was: “because some people like the idea of having a gender. Besides, it’s impossible to abolish gender, so why not make more.”

O….Okay? So, TRAs want to uphold the oppressive nature of gender and gender roles because….they like the idea of just…having a gender?

And they call themselves leftists but say “abolish gender? Too hard. Let’s continue to use an oppressive system that kills women,” yet claim to be fucking anarchists, revolutionaries, and apparently can abolish the entire police force and scream ACAB (which I agree with, fuck police brutality) yet abolishing gender is just “too hard.”

Womp womp. They created a fucking gender out of not having a gender (“agender”) and they’re so close to getting it but so far.

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Do trans activists just think that the troons should just be allowed to violate all rules as they please?

you cannot make your url some shit like cumsoakedcatgirl while posting barely censored furry porn then wonder why your posts are being flagged like i keep seeing so many of these people complaining about that recently

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So what you're saying is

You don't actually want feminist book recommendations

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Claiming that defining women as "adult human female" is "reducing women down to genitals/reproductive organs" is just a way to try to flip the, "Stop sexually objectifying women" on feminists.

Sexual objectification is not seeing women as anything other than a reproductive resource or something to fuck.

But saying "all women are female" is not saying "Women are only vaginas and reproductive organs". Femaleness is not inherently "just something to fuck", and saying "all women are female" is not saying that we aren't also human with thoughts and feelings.

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Men will say that women have “changed” and used to be better in the past but the only thing that changed was us gaining the right to not be subjected to any evil actions a man could get away with doing to us.

Like guys who think like this should just purchase sex dolls because it’s all they want in a relationship (and all they could reasonably get lolll)

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The preservation of male sexual access to women is at the heart of racist and sexist movements, presently and throughout history. I am critical of anything that encourages women to "evaluate" or dissolve their sexual boundaries and anything that forces women to be accessible to males.

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Women who can't get pregnant still get paid less than their male counterparts

Women who can't get pregnant can still be raped and males are the most likely offenders

Women who can't get pregnant can still be subjected to medical misogyny.

Women who can't get pregnant are still more likely to be victims of domestic violence than males

Women who can't get pregnant are still subjected to FGM in countries that practice it.

Women who can't get pregnant are still told that they need to be mothers and that they're selfish if they don't have kids. Women who can't get pregnant often feel pressured to explain that they are infertile by people pushing them to have children.

Women who can't get pregnant are still women. Real women, female people. They experience all the misogyny other real women do, but they experience it differently than fertile women do. The same way Asian women and Black women experience misogyny differently than white women.

This is the most offensive evil bullshit goddamn I loathe these men with my entire being how fucking dare you good grief!!!

FGM? Breast ironing? Foot binding? Femicide? Incest? Rape? Legally enforced gender roles???

Pornography, plastic surgery, the sexualization of girl children, illiteracy, the wage gap, fashion, makeup, being barred from education, being barred from holding a job, being barred from spending money, being barred from controlling your own body, being barred from medical care, being taught that your only purpose in life is to serve men all of it that is all female oppression it happens to females in order to keep them oppressed and controlled by men and it works.

Has nothing to do with the fact that infertile women exist and everything to do with the fact that we live in a misogynistic patriarchal world. Women are seen as inherently inferior to men and have been subjugated for men’s pleasure and desire for thousands of years all based on their extremely obvious anatomical differences