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i just want to be a better woman. upgrade my vocabulary, my lifestyle, how i handle people + situations. i am focused on positivity and growth. i don't want any distractions or negativity around me while i am on this evolving journey.

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don’t allow a man into your life unless you know he can give you the world. never settle for less. be with the man that shows you how much he adores and respects you, someone who adds value to your life. stop wasting your time with low value boys who make you chase them.

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#ambitious #trophy wife #dream life #ambitious woman

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Date in private, love in private, be happy in private.

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nothing compares to a man who’s healthily protective & obsessed, athletic, career oriented, believes in princess treatment to his woman, emotionally mature, and well mannered.

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Just because they’re nice to you, doesn’t mean they value you. When you value something, you deeply understand it’s worth. It’s precious and means the world to you. If someone values something, they take good care of it. They’ll check up on it, make sure it’s needs are met and keep it safe.

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Motivation Affirmations ✨✨

I am capable of achieving my dreams.

Every step I take brings me closer to my goals.

I am deserving of success and abundance.

Challenges are opportunities for growth.

I am focused, persistent, and driven.

My potential is limitless.

I believe in myself and my abilities.

Every day, I become a better version of myself.

I am resilient and can overcome any obstacle.

Success is a journey, not a destination.

I am in charge of my destiny.

My goals are achievable and realistic.

I am surrounded by positive energy and support.

I am constantly inspired and motivated.

My actions align with my purpose.

I am deserving of all the good that comes my way.

I am a magnet for success and prosperity.

I am committed to my vision and purpose.

I trust the process and the timing of my life.

Every setback is a setup for a comeback.

I am fearless in the pursuit of my dreams.

I am worthy of all the success I seek.

My determination is stronger than any challenge.

I am constantly evolving and improving.

I am focused on solutions, not problems.

I celebrate every small victory along the way.

I am in control of my thoughts, actions, and emotions.

I am surrounded by opportunities for growth and success.

I am driven by passion and purpose.

I am unstoppable in the pursuit of my goals.

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These are the things I do for MY own health. Emotionally, mental and physical. These habits were incorporated in my life little by little, not all at once, and are now part of my lifestyle. This post is basically a reference or suggestions for anyone who is interested, not me telling you that you have to do all of these things.

Pilates and light weight work outs 30-45 minutes daily.

10k Steps daily.

Eat the designated amount of nutritional intake for my body daily.

1 Gallon of water daily.

Morning and evening skincare routine.

1 Facial a week.

1-2 hours of reading daily (mostly audible).

Meditate in the morning.

Communicate my feelings about any given situation.

Sleep with silk gowns and a silk pillow.

Spearmint tea 2 times a day for hormone regulation.

Create a to do list daily.

1 hour of learning something new.

Scroll social media for 1 hour max - I have a timer on my phone that disables apps.

Remove anyone who stresses me out.

Massage 1 a week.

Dress up every day even when i'm working from home.

Treat myself to something when I accomplish small goals.

Take supplements daily.

Journal my feelings.

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One day I am going to be a beautiful wife, in a happy loyal marriage, with our beautiful children, family all healthy, successful managing my own businesses because I want to and it’s my passion and still being able to cater to my successful loving beautiful man and being the best mother, driving around in my g - wagon, jetsetting off to islands, shopping when I want to, attending all of my children’s plays, getting my beauty treatments, keeping sexy for my man, maintaining faith within my family, being a philanthropist/ giving back, baking for my family, meeting up with my friends, organising events for myself and my husband’s business, investing, picking up the kids up from school in my g - wagon with my hermes bag, going Pilates on a morning after dropping off my pumpkins, going for a swim in our home pool, spending the evenings relaxing in the sauna with hubby, being able to look after my family, having great health, being a great role model, being poised and feminine, always keeping God centre, being successful, having a supportive husband, having a beautiful mansion home for my family and I, being able to have house help but being able to maintain my household.

Just a few things I look forward to in my future 🤍

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A man telling you you’re hot is not a compliment. A compliment is him wanting to marry you, take care of you and respect you.

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SECRETS OF THE ELITE WOMAN

Exercise your right to remain silent. Everything you say can and will in fact be used against you.

Meritocracy >>>> Democracy. The girls that get it get it the girls that don't find out.

Happiness is not an event its our interpretation of the event. Opinion/ perspective shapes Experience.

As a queen thinketh so is she.

Know your worth then charge tax plus insurance

When a queen does not like where she is, she plans her exit

Don't let them in. Don't let them see. Be the absolute queen you've always loved to be. Conceal. Don't feel. Don't let them know.

Feelings?? Canceled.

Selfish girls win.

It is what it is sis. Do what you must and let it go #stoicism #Taoism

Not your monkeys not your circus.

If you don't like clowns don't go to the circus.

It's you. Its you. It's all for you. Everything you do is for you.

Whoever said money can't solve your problems must not have had enough money to solve them.

There is no such thing as a soft life choose your struggles wisely.

Looks matter. Sex sells.

We don't do it for the men, men never notice.we do it for us, we are the fing coldest.

I'm never going back, the past is in the paaaastttttt

You automatically lose all the chances you did not take

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To achieve your goals you have to turn your feelings off. Maybe off is too off point,it's important to feel your feelings but they should never be the determinant of your actions, so yes essentially you do turn them off.

Tell me something darling, do you really think any of us wants to work out. That we wake up and think omgggggg!!!! Planks!!! Pilates!!! Omgggg we are skipping the sugar that's so great!!! Omg we are waking up at 3 am to study fun!! Yayyyyy we are skipping the partying because we wanna study!!! Omg we are resisting the hot boys because we are celibate!!! Fun!!!. Do you really think anyone thinks Ike that? That the ladies you see winning just love doing all that? That they always did? Have you ever held a plank love?

No. We don't. What we love is our goals. So when we wake up and think yeah no we are not holding a plank we lazy we also think yeah no we are not not having abs and hold the damn plank. Does it suck? Yes. Do we feel like it? No. I can not name one day I thought YAYYYY. IM NOT EATING FOR SIXTEEN HOURS!!. Ever. But I do it for the ADHD. For the health. Why? My health is more important than my cravings so feelings off. Logic over emotion. Goals over feelings.

You want your goals? You turn off your feelings. [I hate saying this btw I just have no other phrase to use]. Mind over body. Goals over your feelings. Feelings are a direction towards survival, not towards what's right so when you feel like running back to your toxic dusty ex you turn that shit off and stick to your goals- healing. You feel like sleeping past your alarm you turn that shit off. You feel like breaking your celibacy you go home. You feel like skipping workout you turn that shit off and hold that plank. Mind over body, always. Your feelings are a compass to comfort not progress, remember that.

Also remember the difference between feelings and instinct.

Feelings? Canceled.

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