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𝐁𝐋𝐎𝐆 𝐑𝐔𝐋𝐄𝐒 & 𝐑𝐄𝐆𝐔𝐋𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐒

nothing too bad, just some ground rules. please read and apply as you must while scrolling through my blog :)

NO BULLYING

this comes in many forms, but, I do not want to see any negative or mean comments towards anyone on my blog. you will be blocked, if not instantly, then immediately. this is simply a no tolerance zone for that type of behavior, and I welcome you to spend your time elsewhere.

ADVICE STIPULATIONS

if you come to me for advice, I want you to ask yourself three things. Am I ready to listen? Am I ready to learn? Am I ready to apply? Please understand that no, I may not have all the answer in the world (this is a very large world, indeed, inside a much larger universe) but, I do know a thing or two about self development and tarot. otherwise I would not be offering my services online.

one of the many things even I struggled with at first (and still do at times), when it came to spirituality and personal peace, was actively learning and attentively listening. no matter what someone has to say, there is always value to it. there is always a lesson, even if you must teach it to yourself. so, when listening to some harsh advice, or a less-than-utterly-blissful sunshine-and-rainbows tarot reading — keep an open mind — and understand that what is being said always has pieces of the puzzle you feel are missing.

NO TRAUMA DUMPING/RANTING UNANNOUNCED

if, for any reason (and I say this without judgement because I understand) you feel you want or need to talk to me about something very personal, I ask that you ask first, and have a specific little tag at the bottom of your ask (if not through DM) that let’s me know who you are. unless, of course, you are not on anonymous, then only the previous rules of “asking permission” apply. I also expect and demand that you have a tw/cw at the top for anything possibly triggering, inappropriate, or graphic. there is nothing wrong with these things, we deal with situations involving these topics on a daily basis in our routine lives — however — this is a safe-space away from that world, and I would like to keep it as comfortable and conscious as possible.

DON’T BE RUDE

ah, yes, the age old. please do not be inconsiderate when asking for my time or services. please do not be inconsiderate when asking for my advice or consultation. I do not owe these things to you, they are a choice. if you ever feel as if a certain emotion of obligation is thundering somewhere beneath, take a moment to ask yourself why, and humble yourself. I am here out of free will, and will exercise that as I please.

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Now, I must start off by saying that I have no intentions of being a big or consistently posting blog. Not that I detest the idea or that I wouldn’t like it, but honestly? I felt a slight calling to tell a few people some messages through my cards, so that’s what I will do.

I will be doing free readings when announced, so please look at my events+ masterlist; other than that, I will be doing general readings at an unsubstantiated and undetermined rate haha..

Since we’ve got that out of the way, let me truly begin my note, from me, to you.

How are you doing? In this very moment, let’s take a second to evaluate these feelings and understand what has been circulating throughout our body today, wether early morning or late dusk. Let’s sit in this feeling, and perceive that at this very moment, whatever emotion is bubbling up or swirling below is call, or cry, from your inner child. Let us answer it, by smelling a rose.

Take a deep breath, as if you are enjoying the sweet, fresh scent of flower petals and ask ourselves where we have ever first felt this feeling. It doesn’t have to be specific, or certain, but find that memory and cling to it until it is as clear as you can manage. Blurry is still success; unsure is still progress. Now answer it.

“ I hear you, and I love you. I feel this feeling and I want to understand it on a deeper level. I will work with you, to learn and grow from this experience and further myself. Thank you, for trusting me with this emotion. ”

Wonderful! You did a great job, today. Yes! Today! Wether it be morning, or late dusk! You have come so very far in this moment, so recognize that. I am proud of you, and you should be too, but you don’t have to. Know that I am, and I will continue to be proud of each and every little growth until you are strong enough to try it out for yourself. Thank you for trusting me with your time and energy, dear reader. I appreciate you so much.

#a little note from me to you #oat waz here

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“ you are by no inclination to stay, but I thank you for your time and presence anyway ”

hello there, my name is oatie but you can call me oat. this is a side blog, so no replies unless it is dm or ask, but I am 19 and kind of a “freelance” tarot reader?

young. black. manifestor and avid self-help and development connoisseur.

𝐈𝐌𝐏𝐎𝐑𝐓𝐀𝐍𝐓 𝐋𝐈𝐍𝐊𝐒, 𝐌𝐀𝐘𝐁𝐄

tarot masterlist (soon, I assure)

tagging system

blogs rules and regulations

a little note from me, to you

#oat navi