fun seeing "its so cool how no one smokes anymore" float around an insular online space again, like the overwhelming majority of every coworker ive had doesnt smoke like a dragon with allergies. like i don't sit on the porch with people whole they smoke, like there ain't smoke at every cookout. people ten years younger than me and fifty years older.
part of the reason why the whole "men/boys are taught not to cry!!!! its so sad for them!!!!" thing bothers me is because so many women i know went through childhood and young adult life staring into the middle distance in order to be taken seriously as people. its devastating to learn as a child that crying is associated with "femininity" weakness and hysteria and to witness all around you how these farcical patriarchal claims are used to dismiss women's distress. different human emotions being assigned specific genders and "feminine emotions" specifically being belittled and degraded can actually make women recoil from them in order to be treated like a person, isn't that funny
its really easy to love someone too much. it happens all the time. an amount that makes them uncomfortable, a way that will never be returned to you. loving someone unethically, inappropriately, unreasonably. don't pretend like affection is only good. like happiness can't be miserable.
you can get over it, or cope with it, but that doesn't make it good. love is an ugly thing.
experience half an hour of my blessed time on this beautiful earth doing literally nothing, not to rest, not to relax, not to appreciate the wonder of living, no. the nothing is only a prison
there’s a website where you put in two musicians/artists and it makes a playlist that slowly transitions from one musician’s style of music to the other’s
having sex with your friends is so very normal please stop poisoning the youths minds with shame surrounding hooking up with your friends. especially if you’re gay
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