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Me after spending almost 3 hrs in the car singing along to my music with my musician boyfriend:

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I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned “forever” into the only acceptable definition of success.

Like… if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it’s a “failed” business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don’t actually want to keep doing that, you’re a “failed” writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it’s a “failed” marriage.

The only acceptable “win condition” is “you keep doing that thing forever”. A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a “real” friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a “phase” - or, alternatively, a “pity” that you don’t do that thing any more. A fandom is “dying” because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things.

I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it’s okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success… I don’t think that’s doing us any good at all.

#this was really important for me to read right now

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Guess who went to the dispensary around the corner from her hotel

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lumax means so much to me i love them i love them i love them

prints available here

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Miao Lao-ban

English added by me :)

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“CHAPTER 8 - PAPA” STRANGER THINGS SEASON 4 (2022)

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Some very real Harringrove moments

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My comfort person

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Has anyone asked where the fuck Hellfire Club meets? Like what IS that space?

Why is there professional lighting and?? miniature russian buildings the background?? Did Eddie decorate it? Is it Murray’s basement?

What room in Hawkins High is the Big Throne, Stage Lights, Wooden Shack Walls, 2D Model St. Petersburg room? What the fuck?

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my personal thanks and regards to carmen carnero for bringing this bucky back into the world after more recent questionable hair and facial hair choices

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margot robbie’s barbie will change my life

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that's all I have in mind 24/7

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I also want to apologize for- for Chrissy, as well.

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Happy boy 😍

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you may hate billy but I love him and I would give him a kiss on the nose