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😀 (at Woking) https://www.instagram.com/p/B65pCLOgEWF/?igshid=faeva0vl2k8q

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2020 ✨ Happy New Year. Couldn’t have asked for a better ending to 2019 surrounded by friends who have taken me in as one of their own. 2019 almost broke me but we’re still here. We survived. Here’s to a new decade 🥂 (Image Description: Oyinda is standing with one hand resting on a banister. Her other hand is at her hip. She is wearing a blue sequinned mini dress with a blue sash tied at the waist. Her legs are bare and she’s wearing gold sparkly heels. Her hair is curly and purple she is smiling and wearing makeup including a dark red lip.) (at Windsor, Berkshire) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6yG_y7gcbJ/?igshid=1aijfactk6396

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Dear Santa, It’s a long story 😜 Happy Christmas Eve 🎄 (Image Description: Oyinda stands holding her phone up the the mirror. She’s wearing a long pj t-shirt with the grinch on the front with the words ‘Dear Santa it’s a long story’ With baby pink lounge trousers and white and grey fluffy socks underneath. Her hair is purple, she has a red lip and she’s smiling.) (at Woking) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6c8krVguh0/?igshid=14f2wqa2wlrd7

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Definitely wearing this outfit again in 2020. 🐆 Jumpsuit: @jessontheplussize x @pinkcloveuk 1st edit. Bra: @elomilingerie Belt is very very old. (Image Description: Oyinda is holding her phone up to a mirror to take a photo. She is wearing a leopard print v neck jumpsuit, a leopard print harness bra is visible in between the neckline. She wears a brown wide belt round her waist. She is smiling and her hair is purple. ) #PlusSizeFashion (at Bournemouth) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6WCXKWANCO/?igshid=tqtzh8rz9gn5

#plussizefashion

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A week till Christmas but I’m more excited for New Year’s Eve. ✨ P.S This radiator was boiling hot. 📸: My girl @emily_louise_swain (Image Description: Oyinda is sat with one leg crossed over the other on a windowsill wearing a blue/purple coloured midi dress. She is smiling has her right hand resting on her knee and the left hand on the radiator. Her hair is purple. She’s barefoot.) (at Berkshire) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6OSMRjgQHh/?igshid=1nu8iczr8c3wk

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All of my photos from now till March/April will most likely feature this coat. (Image Description: Oyinda is standing wearing a white hat, a blue faux fur cropped coat, a lilac t-shirt dress with the word ‘Woman’ in black capital letters on a white rectangular background. Burgundy coloured tights and purple boots. She is smiling, her hair is purple and her arms are down by her sides.) (at Woking Town Centre Square) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6Lto75AObB/?igshid=hyzb7yysd45j

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Fun fact: I can change a nappy and bottle feed. Baby also needs Sudocream? I got you. I used to work in the baby room in a nursery which is my dream job. Working with children. Just happens that babies and low immunity don’t mix too well. (Image Description: A mirrored reflection of Oyinda standing in a toilet/baby changing room. She is wearing white trousers with a black spatter print, black boots, a black jumper and a cropped blue faux fur coat. Her arms are holding two grey crutches. She is using her right arm to hold onto her left crutch for stability whilst she holds her phone up with her right hand. There’s a watch on her left wrist. She is smiling. A bin and a baby changing table can be seen behind her.) (at University College Hospital, 235 Euston Road, London, NW1 2BU) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6BkvsNg8ix/?igshid=1btfpasfqvxan

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🐻 🎵 If you go out in the woods tonight, you’re sure of a big surprise. If you go out in the woods tonight, you better go in disguise. For every bear that ever there was, will gather there was certain, because today’s the day the teddy bears have their picnic. 🎶 (Image Description: Oyinda stands in front of a wooden gate in between a brick wall and wooden fencing. She’s wearing a purple jumper with a teddy bear pattern. A leopard print maxi skirt and black ankle boots. Her hair is purple and falls down in ringlets, her hands are down by her sides. She’s smiling. ) (at Woking) https://www.instagram.com/p/B53RrE5g5Gc/?igshid=7gv40buafts9

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Took my inspiration from rhubarb & custard sweets. Struggling today but holding on to the fact that tomorrow is Friday. (And my payday 🎉) (Image Description: Oyinda is standing in the garden on yellow and brown fallen leaves. She’s wearing a mustard yellow jumper tucked into a pink skirt with black leggings. She has purple Timberland boots on her feet. Her right arm is down by her side whilst her right arm is bent with her hand on her hip. She is smiling.) (at Woking) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5sdG_bAJ_n/?igshid=1xb02ink4dly2

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Having a day. Then I remembered this quote from Helen Keller: ‘Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired and success achieved.’ So whatever you’re going through; hold on, keep going. You’ve got this. (Image Description: Oyinda stands on a concrete slab on the grass in her back garden. Behind her is brown wooden fencing. She’s wearing a dark green leopard print jacket over a black mid length dress with a purple and white floral pattern. She has one hand on her hip the other is down by her side. She has one leg slightly bent at the knee with her foot up. She wears brown socks on and white trainers.) (at Woking) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5qPIkQgZVD/?igshid=ymprwrwa9ez5

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I’ve been ill because the cold + chronic illnesses are never a great combo. Here’s a picture from when I did feel okay enjoying my life with my friends in Liverpool 🙃 📸: @emily_louise_swain I look back on this photo and I have Emily’s voice in my head saying “Don’t trip queen!” 😂💖 (Image Description: Oyinda is standing against a brick wall wearing a light brown co-ordinated crop long sleeved t-shirt and a midi skirt. She has one hand on the hip the other is down by her side. Her hair is purple she’s smiling and wearing socks and purple Timberland boots with the laces undone.) (at Liverpool) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5n6FCMAAW9/?igshid=kakgduf0u3ck

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DONUTS 🍩 A fab day going to most of Liverpool’s museums with Em & Leo. Wearing AD- #Gifted @snagtights Tell me what would you get from this van? Donuts, Candy Floss, Popcorn, A Waffle with Nutella, Hot Chocolate, Mulled Wine, Sweets, A Fizzy Drink or a Slushy? My personal choice would be a slushy and candy floss. Why isn’t there an emoji for that!? 📸: @emily_louise_swain (Image Description: Oyinda stands in front of a baby pink coloured van with a big sign saying ‘Donuts’ in capital letters. There are various sweet treats and drinks displayed behind her. She is wearing a black midi dress with a pink print with burgundy tights and purple boots. Over her dress she wears a black hoodie with a faux leather jacket on top. Her hair is purple, her hands are down by her sides and she is smiling.) (at Royal Albert Dock Liverpool) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5a7EGIABNB/?igshid=1afgfvaqednyr

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I struggle with my body image can be very self critical. However it’s a lot easier to give yourself a break when you have cheerleaders like @emily_louise_swain and @leoaustin_ I wore this dress out to dinner with them in Liverpool. I haven’t known them long but they’re good eggs. The people you associate yourself with are a reflection of you. It’s an act of self love to cut ties with people that no longer serve you. It’s taken me a while to figure it out but I’m getting there. (Image Description: Oyinda is standing in front of a brick wall wearing a dark purple maxi dress. Her hair is also purple. Her arms are down by her sides and she is smiling. She has a red medical ID bracelet and a watch on each wrist.) 📷: @emily_louise_swain P.S It’s daylight because this is the morning after going to dinner the night before. I got back into my dress because we failed to get any pictures on the night. 🙃 (at Travelodge Hotel - Liverpool Docks) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5S_H1SAWjX/?igshid=mncixoj3jrm4

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Curve Fashion Festival 2019. @curvefashionfes I had a great time and met so many people that I admire. I’ve just had an amazing time in Liverpool in general; everyone is so nice! My favourite stalls walking round were @pinkcloveuk @snagtights (Obviously I love them and they had cupcakes too) @allbodyuk @curvissa @princesslaceboutique because the people there took the time to chat to me and each person/people were so proud of their brand/collaboration. I’ve had @stuartmacquire @emily_louise_swain & @leoaustin_ around me the whole time and it’s just been non stop laughter. 💛💛💛 (Image Description: Oyinda is stood in front of a purple satin backdrop with a purple neon sign above her head that reads ‘Glorious just as I am’ She has purple hair and is wearing a purple leopard printed maxi dress with ruffles. There’s a black belt round her waist and she’s using two mental grey crutches.) (at Liverpool Acc Conference Centre, Albert Dock) https://www.instagram.com/p/B49lEPpAZ_7/?igshid=f3oraab2oleo

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Currently on the train to Liverpool for @curvefashionfes on Saturday. It’s my first one and I’m so excited!!! This is a throwback from the day I modelled for @whatlydiamade I don’t often mention it but I often need the support of crutches. I get stared at a lot, I could feel the eyes on me on the bus, on the underground. I may not look ill but trust me; I am ill at every moment of every day. Most times I struggle in silence so I’m not seen as an inconvenience. I don’t think people realise how inaccessible the world can be. I’ve already experienced difficulties; I’m hoping it’ll all be worth it. I’m excited to be going back to Liverpool. Who am I seeing on Saturday? Have you ever been to Liverpool? What are your plans? Let me know in the comments! (Image Description: Oyinda is standing in front of a white backdrop. She is wearing a leopard print jumper underneath an orange v neck sleeveless dress. Her hair is short, black and wavy. She has cream coloured socks on and both arms are slotted into two grey crutches.) (at SWG3) https://www.instagram.com/p/B42ISPSg-OI/?igshid=1gut54l0rv4qy

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Bought new makeup, put it on yesterday and went to Nando’s with @minimarcus09 I’m glad she forced me out. It was what I needed even though I didn’t know it at the time. I’m not doing okay and it’s become a pattern at this time of year. I’ll be okay at some point; I’m being a lot more open with my GP this time round. My face is mostly @makeuprevolution I’ve got one of the I love Chocolate liquid glosses on and I’m in love. My lips smelt like chocolate all evening. Highly recommend just don’t lick your lips. 🍫 (Image Description: A selfie of Oyinda. She’s wearing a full face of makeup, including a dark brown lip gloss. Her hair is purple and curly, she is smiling. The top of her brown teddy coat is visible in the shot.) (at Woking) https://www.instagram.com/p/B4qJ5hOAIE0/?igshid=1knffgic2b7v4

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Birthday Throwback. (Image Description: Oyinda is lying on her tummy on a bed with a white duvet cover. She propped up on her forearms. Her eyes are closed with her tongue stuck out. Her hair is purple and falls over her nightie. She’s wearing a red medical ID bracelet and a watch on either wrist. Her nails are painted bright yellow.) (at Holiday Inn Guildford) https://www.instagram.com/p/B4kyvIiggHA/?igshid=1sipdx9ui1ego