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i knew the state of society’s view of children was bad but i didn’t realize just how dire the situation was was until the lockdown began. this last month or so has really opened my eyes to how much people dislike children, even their own children, simply because they exist and they need them because you know… they’re small humans without the capacity to care for themselves.  it seems harmless but memes talking about how parents need alcohol to deal with their kids or can’t wait for their kids to go back to school so someone else can deal with them does harm in that it dehumanizes children and puts blame on the children for existing when it’s not the child’s fault they were brought into the world. it also brings about another uncomfortable fact: if you don’t like the way your children behave, barring them having a behavioral disorder or disability, you’re probably to blame and need to reevaluate how you’re raising them. children are more than innocent bystanders… they are helpless and absolutely reliant on the adults around them to not only provide for them, but to show them love which in turn sets the precedent for how they will love in the future. this attitude implying they asked to be here and that it’s okay to joke about how annoying they are has got to stop. 

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https://youtu.be/GEBnUK_kV4I

Heyyyyyy making good progress back to where we were. I’ve really isolated the issue as my hand movement really confusing her Will slowly start to proof that before I put it back towards the middle of my body.

Still seeing some tiny sparks of doubt in her. Yet it no longer has to do with the stop -> movement scenario and has more to do with duration. Which is easy to heal with time.

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i love this trick so much

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Pet Tree Houses on Etsy

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Doing online classes really just be like *has a list of assignments* *have no motivation what so ever* *watch random youtube videos* *stresses* *looks at assignment list again* *stresses more* *eat a snack* *sudden burst of productivity that last only about five minutes* *rewards self by checking phone* *stresses*

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Fury and her brothers, Banner and Parker

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Boundaries

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Max Keeble’s Big Move

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“This won’t do. What’s the matter with you?”

Peter Pan (1953)

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How cozy is this space?? 😍🌙

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lorde - hard feelings

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forgiving yourself constantly and generously, so frequently that it becomes habit, is a great form of healing. most of what you punish yourself for is wasted potential that exists in an abstract and invisible place only you can see.