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Combining my two biggest fixations atm <3

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The person in the notes of that shipping post talking about "shaming afab sexuality" is so....

Imagine seeing someone say "yea it's weird ppl hate women in media & prioritize shipping the blandest cis guys together instead" & thinking that this means you hate afab ppl, which a huge portion of women are & a big fat zero of cis men.

Also the framing of afabs strikes me as a bit suspicious, like what do you think trans women get treated like in fandom spaces lmao

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She is so cool

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theres just something about (mostly white) transmasculine people being able to misgender themselves if it rhetorically helps them that makes my blood boil. my assigned gender is only ever a weapon against me.

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people born in 24 Are 2000 now

#why is there basketball in there

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commenting 'dungeon meshi' on any pic of anything

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there should be a socially acceptable way to say "im not sure what to say to that. can you say something different"

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*someone in the middle of complaining about the abundance of farcille on the farcille website*: and if you could take off your fucking shipping glasses, you'd see that you're missing out on big parts of the narrative!

*proceeds to reblog 30 pieces of shipart exclusively featuring two men who interacted once*

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i have a question for the tumblr girlies. what do you guys call these + where are you from

#spousebeater is taking me out #anyways thats a tank

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Sometimes i wish i had bigger boobs so itll be more awesome when i get rid of them

#ribbitz

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more chilchuck and da kids

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Caption: [A stitch with user @/sapphicyuji. The text on screen reads, " "you can't misgender cis people!", you have never had your gender questioned outside of your transness and it shows. sincerely, a trans poc".

I'm actually super glad we're having a conversation about this. The masculinization of black and brown women, because for years I felt like I endured this unique form of trauma until I realized other people went through the same thing too. And if there's one thing that I'd like to add to the conversation, there seems to be this misconception that this is something that starts at puberty. Like boys tell you you look like a man to hurt your feeling when that's so far from the case.

The first time I was purposefully misgendered was in kindergarten. I was constantly referred to by the masculine variant of my name, I was chased out of the women's restroom, and I had grown adults questioning what my biological sex was before I even knew what the difference was. And those behaviors persisted into adulthood because now if I present as anything less than 100% feminine, people will either compare me to men or animals.

And for myself and for many other brown and black women this is a life long act deliberately intended to humiliate, shame, and other us for the features we were naturally born with and I'm glad we're having a discussion on how harmful it actually is.]

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a very unserious idea that got out of hand ;_; i didnt mean to make it this long

#LMFAO

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Passive aggressive maybe, but like...healing and getting better isn't easy. When I see people make posts about "LOL google says I should make a schedule to help manage my ADHD but I can't make a schedule bc I have ADHD" it's like. People saying that stuff know it's hard. That's part of why you gotta do it.

Sometimes healing is easier. Sometimes it's something really small that becomes routine. But sometimes it's hard! Sometimes you gotta push yourself to do something and it sucks! But I don't know what to tell you, other than that you don't need to be good at it right away.

Using the calendar example, I have ADHD + semi-frequent memory loss, so it can feel really difficult to try and make a calendar when both of those things can directly get in the way. So I started with making sure recurring events were in it, like therapy and med reminders. Now I'm usually able to remember to put in appointments or other one-time events in as soon as I know about them. It takes a lot of work.

I don't know. I just think sometimes people on this site are sitting in mud and complaining about being dirty. You really do need to try.

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chilchuck pussy indulgence

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I wanted to draw marcille getting some hugs 🫂