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how to remain the only girl of your dreams

always move in silence.

don’t internalize people’s actions toward you.

redirect your negative self talk.

routinely pamper yourself.

show don’t tell.

utilize all of your character traits.

set standards and enforce them.

determine and display boundaries.

know it’s a privilege to be associated with you.

go after what you desire actively everyday.

nurture your spirit.

be selective with the company you keep.

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Hypergamy rules

A man’s words mean nothing. His actions mean everything.

Don’t nag, find another better man to do the job, competition breeds perfection.

You’re not competing with other women, your competing with yourself.

No man will live in your head rent free, have a roster of at least 3 guys.

Never give up your hobbies, plans or ambitions for a man. Ever.

Never stop improving-physically (gym, procedures, surgery) mentally (school, tutors, learning languages, reading), emotionally (reading, therapy, medication), and financially (paying down debt, investments, real estate, savings, stocks, bonds, etc)

A stingy men are just as bad as broke men.

Closed mouths don’t get fed.

Restaurant first dates only.

You’re single until married.

Goes without saying but

No sex until a relationship and commitment has been established.

(No broke men. Duh.)

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Dorothy Dandridge, 1950′s

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diamonds & tiaras

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“That girl will get whatever she wants” it’s me I’m that girl

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that girl, will get whatever she wants

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You must get it together honey. Your life is your responsibility. It’s something YOU must decide to do. Discipline. Stop acting like you have nothing. Life doesn’t have dead ends. Stop being dramatic. Something can always be done. I have so many posts on changing your mindset on here. I’m not here to baby an adult. You must wake up👏🏼 There’s an entire life to live🥂

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I’ll always be for this, always

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Jeanny Soares - 

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credit: Renée Kemps

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You deserve to be treated well. Not just better. Well.

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“I’m high maintenance a little bit but not in a negative way. I just like extremely expensive things,”

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Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for demanding more. Set your standards and don’t waiver