#+ who knows if dylan is even gonna be in it 🤷‍♀️

[three-headed-monster]

So I know what "Another one bites the dust" means but I have some follow up questions (and this is not meant to attack you, these are genuine questions and I mean no harm). Why do you not just outright say who it is? Like why do you have to have a scavenger hunt to figure out what you're talking about. And if it makes you unconfortable, why do you announce it but then play coy when people ask follow up questions?

And I understand why it would bother you, but why are you so focused on it? Like it seems to me that you actively keep tabs on them and who they're with and what they're doing, and doing that is causing you distress. Again, I'm not trying to come at you and attack you. I've followed you for a while and I like your blog, so I want to get a better understanding of where you're coming from

hi anon! so i'm gonna try to answer this as best as i can, question by question:

why do you not just outright say who it is?

uh mainly because i don't know how people might react to my posts and i don't really like the idea of someone they might actually know or them THEMSELVES going through the tag and finding out people are talking about their relationship

why do you have to have a scavenger hunt to figure out what you're talking about?

generally i try to be more specific if i know it's something really vague and no one will get but me if i don't explain it but i thought i generally explained it pretty well in my tags. it's also a public post so 🤷‍♀️

why do you announce it but then play coy when people ask follow up questions?

i don't try to??? if it's coming off that way, sorry i guess???

why are you so focused on it?

it was a public insta post...and i don't really focus on it at all and i'm most certainly not as distressed as you must think i am. yeah maybe the first time but that's because dylan "i'm gonna train in buffalo" cozens literally turned around not even 24 hours later and was in florida with a gf. i was also, self-recognizably, WAY too obsessed with him to a point where it just was not healthy and i was hurt by it cause he was a fave at the time.

now when i find out? i'm like lmao good for them, they seem happy! "another bites the dust" is just my way of being cheeky in acknowledging it but i'm not intending to be bitter. sorry if it comes off that way.

anyways anon i hope that give you a better understanding of where i'm coming from, but please in the future know that my posts are really not that deep at all and that trying to understand them will make you realize they're literally all just shitposts

#ask #i know you're not trying to be mean at all anon #but this feels a little bit like a psycho-analysis and it's a) not needed and b) not really appreciated either