#I'm hangry today I had to wake up earlier than usual to send my ma to a medical appointment only to find the snow cancelled driving as a co

[grammarpedant]

*sigh* someone has submitted an intriguing prompt to the Aspec Murderbot event that i'd love to try filling. it's basically "loveless aro Murderbot," the prompt makes it sound cool and fascinating to explore, but every time I try to search "loveless aro" to get, y'know, some perspective on an identity and way of life that I'm new to, what I find has me like "what the fuck are y'all talking about (derogatory)" and "what the fuck are y'all talking about (genuine)" what the FUCK are y'all talking about can someone please point me to Any kind of resource that explains What people mean by it when they use this term for themselves and why they use it that isn't, like, the aro wiki page that basically just explains that it's for people who don't identify with the concept of love. like i got that part thanks, can you say more that's a little more internally coherent. this is a sincere if frustrated request for help, btw.

#I'm hangry today I had to wake up earlier than usual to send my ma to a medical appointment only to find the snow cancelled driving as a co #concept. #I'll cheerfully admit I've only just scraped the surface of googling this shit but i figure my shitty search skills would be less valuable #than Just Asking someone who knows anyway #verso talks #gonna be real here chief some of what I'm finding has me like You Are White And Terminally Online #a lot of focus on the narrative of platonic attraction (not convinced this is meaningfully exists in amatonormative society) and like. #How I Personally Feel In My Heart About These Things #can you stop navelgazing for one fucking second and say something politically coherent? since you're not doing the dishes either way. #anyway not to trash the concept of loveless either. i kind of vibe with it but from a specifically non-white non-xtian political pov #which is perhaps the problem.