#Ie people who understand “conspiracies” and the importance of risk taking and don't flip out and Worry that their child is emo

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boomers n X'ers are mad that millennials Gen Z have woken up to all the child abusive norms in our society and we no longer give our parents respect just because they're our parents and teh bibble says so.

We also woke up to the fact that their politically passive and materialistic youth, where they took out a bunch of cheap usury loans and did nothing to stand up against central banking, has destroyed the economy for future generations. they have the audacity to call us lazy conspiracy theorists and essentially gaslight us for noticing such things.

A friend once told me she thinks that boomers and gen X are competing with their kids in this weird gross game to prove they're more successful and better, and I have to agree. They show no empathy for their own children's suffering, it's a generation full of casual and normalized narcissistic personality. I think this is a direct consequence of their culture which didn't encourage them to question their parents and see the humiliation and abuse they faced as children for what it is, unlike our culture today does. They actually believed that parents had kids out of virtue and selflessness and that the kids were obligated to repay the parents, not the other way around.

I notice a lack of individuation from the parents in most of Boomer and Gen X individuals. a "children must obey their parents" mentality. or... replace "obey" with "please" or "impress". Anyone with this mentality is primed for the narcissism demon. They will feel the constant need to prove themselves to the parents, to prove that they're successful and more worthy of praise, because in their eyes the parents can do no wrong and it is always their fault if the parent is abusing them or neglecting them. Then they project this gross mentality onto their children.

#Realizing I didn't have to obey was one step to liberation #Realizing I dont even have to please or impress or make them think anything good of me ever... is the final step #It's your job to adapt to the individual your child is #Provided they're not a monster who's hurting anyone #It's not their job to impress you and mold themselves to be something you'd like to see #Parenting is a chance for spiritual growth cuz it forces you to accept things as they are instead of how you want them to be #You must tell the difference between what is in ur power to change and what isn't #Otherwise you will cause great harm to your child #And you must expand your tolerance of diversity #Cuz your child could be anything ... Many such things which are not to ur tastes and which would trigger u as a small minded individual #Only ppl with expanded perceptions can be good parents. #Ie people who understand “conspiracies” and the importance of risk taking and don't flip out and Worry that their child is emo #And have a life outside of being a worrying parent to keep u going if ur child runs away or dies #Cuz there also comes a point in ur child's development where #(usually around 18+) #If ur giving them grief about their choices to risk death... for the reason that You don't want to see them hurt or killed #U are selfishly stifling their individuation process #For most older parents it's not about the kid's feelings and the kid's individuation #it's about me me me my feelings my fears my comfort my hysterical reactions #Regardless of how they hurt my child with said hysterias #Anyway .