#Like how else do you learn and in your own community idgi?

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Maybe people don't have the lexicon and philosophical prowess to communicate their intentions and needs perfectly and maybe they stumble or use outdated/"problematic" vocabulary or whatever and maybe that still does not exclude them from aligning with whatever identity sits right for them. Maybe the expectation of ideological purity is like... really unhealthy.

#Im people #I mean I draw the line at exploitation and stuff #Racists should lose their jobs kind of thing #You can't not harm if you're preying on a group you hate #But like I saw someone get yelled at on reddit for using amab/afab and maybe they just don't know?! I didn't once upon a time? #Then someone nudged me and said hey have you read this? And I was like No friend ty for welcoming me in and that was that #Like how else do you learn and in your own community idgi? #But it always makes me self-reflect like damn I've also been the callout person & it's not a nice feeling either. The fight for fight sake #Idk I'm anxious rambling n here's my 2 cents @ myself call me a snowflake its OK #Back to the scheduled existential brightmare