#ONCE AGAIN i saw some fucking creep whine and complain in somebody's inbox ''why is [unecessarily graphic description of a sex act] bad if

[tasmanianstripes]

I'm very much pro-kink but some of you motherfuckers make me embarrassed to be in the same community as you. Some people think somebody else not liking or being disgusted with your kink or even criticising it from a moral standpoint is a good excuse to send them unsolicited sexual messages and continue to sexually harass them after they said the topic makes them uncomfortable and they don't want to discuss it.

If somebody tells you no to a sexual topic you're brining up FUCKING. STOP? If you send somebody a sexually explicit message and they tell you to cut it out you. Stop. No means no. End of story. It does not matter if you feel personally slighted by them, or they said something rude, or you think they're being judgemental; none of these reasons justify continuing to send sexual messages to somebody after they told you no. Maybe they would be open to be more accepting if your first instinct when seeing somebody be grossed out by your kink wasn't to act like a goddamn predator.

Even if they started this discussion, even if you're not even very explicit about describing these topics, if somebody tells you actually this is making me uncomfortable I would like to stop discussing this you back off. Feelings can change, anyone has the right to step away from a conversation about sexual topics if it's starting to make them uncomfortable or distress them. If you care so much about the opinions of some stranger online then you need to log off and go outside.

You'd think that members of community which preaches about consent would know better.

#thylacines can talk #ONCE AGAIN i saw some fucking creep whine and complain in somebody's inbox ''why is [unecessarily graphic description of a sex act] bad if #its two consenting adults? what if [another sexually detailed description] would it be okay?'' after they told them REPEATEDLY to stop and #leave them alone. thats not an argument. youre not having a discussion. youre fucking harrassing somebody #im paraphrasing here because i dont want to screenshot their posts but I've seen it happen multiple times. It happened to me when I was #younger and kink-critical and let me tell you it only strengthened my hatred for the kink community at the time #obviously now my thoughts and opinions have changed but i am still filled with so much rage when i think about these parts of my community