#SMTH U DO NEED TO KEEP IN MIND IS THE BIGOTRY! there will be in world explanations for why x is not misogyny and racism. we as readers

[sopebubbles]

omg ur reply got me all giggly & jumping up n' down on my seat!!

TNX U SM!!

tnx u 4 takin' your time to reply & esp to talk more abt the inner voices of y/n & explain all the details,differences & origins of them!!🥰🥰🥰

& now that ik it's a thing,i'm super excited to see how u will write the development of her voices & how her relationship w/ her inner child will change & what is going to be the catalyst of that shift in her!!

also how the voice in bold,the one that comes from having to internalise bigotry to learn her way around it in order to keep herself safe as much as possible,the one that "tells her not to do things that she needs but knows will get her in trouble, like nesting" that she needed up untill now to kinda protect herself in her specific toxic environment, i look forward to seeing how it will change from smth that she needs & depends on 4 her safety,to smth that she slowly learns to leave behind bc is actually holding her back from actually healing & finally being truly safe & happy

dw,i'll wait till the end of times to get to the point in the story where we get to see more of tae's sad past & jin's development & all the beautiful creative things u have /will have in store 4 us,at your own pace & w/ your own timing ofc!!🤗

i absolutely love hobi w/ all my might, but if he doesn't realise he needs to change some things in his dynamic w/ jin as to not indulge jin in feeling like his care & love 4 hobi justify any reaction & treatement he may have towards others,i'm gonna do it myself & put that alpha in a corner to reflect abt what he's doin'💀👉🚪

"Thats exactly what this story is about! Its bts so i feel like they’re perfect for a Love Yourself journey!" BTS fits perfectly this concept ofc,but it's the mastery of your execution & how well your able to mold a whole universe around it that is selling this story!! this concept already wrks nice bc it's bts, but the story is so succesfully immersive & captavating tnx to nothing but your own writng ability & how your mind wrks & then is able to put that down on a keyboard,to create such an amazing story!

the amount of thinking,details, parallelism, sensitive & intersectional topics treated very well & included smoothly into the plot & depth given to each character & their interactions is at the base of this story & it's a constant in your writing, which i'm sure i couldn't even catch all of it(srry 4 that😭) is what makes reading your wrk so mesmerising, like actually seeing the lives of the characters unfold & being a part of how they progress! it puts me in a position in which i can't help but be impressed by your talent & be passionate abt your creation & process behind it!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

ps. i didn't bring him up cause i didn't want to turn half of my ask in me screaming abt how u wrote him!! cause i'm definitely madly in love enough as it is but u took it to a whole 'nother level.🤣

pps. saving ch 7 as a lil' treat 4 later^^

take care of your precious self & i hope you'r doing well!!💜💜💜😊

This ask just made me a blushing mess. Idek how to respond but i really appreciate you saying such nice things about my work 🥺 Im just so happy that it engages you and makes you think deeply about it. I honestly couldn't ask for more. And just thank you so much for generously sharing your thoughts with me.

You've really made my day and i hope you have a great one as well you beautiful human. 💕💕💕

#lone wolf asks #im sinking in mud #i need something to call you #sopebubbles 🧼

[littlebabycrybtch]

i understand that as minorities we have to distance ourselves from our oppressors most of the time but. ngl ppl have let themselves become So Wildly Disconnected from just knowing about the actual bigotry happening in the world and how it works, how its evolving and resurfacing, that its fucking up our politics big time. like. ppl out here literally genuinely think that transphobes and homophobes have not only the Want, but the community knowledge on how to distinguish and separate their treatment of ~the mogais~ from other lgbt+ people. REGs rely so much on discourse now that their fatal flaw is the assumption that cishets understand or talk about these same niche ideas of gender and sexuality in the way that they do. that they want or would even allow a safe median between cishet and lgbt+ to exist. that they care about this. yall. you need to realize that your oppressors do not care about the same stuff you do. they could not care less about who you relate to, its solely about rejecting everyone they dont relate to, and the line is extremely fucking thin. they flat out dont have an interest in understanding or comparing the labels people use, if you’re not cis or not straight, they will have a loud vocal huge problem with your existence, bc they have their OWN hypercritical restrictive ‘you dont belong in my community’ stigma, and its been around for much longer. they are relentless and will never base who they give privileges to on Your beliefs. prejudice is not nuanced. your oppressors would not respect you more whether or not certain groups existed. they oppress people like you for power, out of hate and bigotry. the root of prejudice is literally ignorance, and in this case revolves around the idea that anything that diverges from cisheteronormative ideas deserves to be socially rejected. no amount of bootlicking and trimming the community will make us all cishet, so it will never be enough. you have to fight for acceptance, not conformity. you need to put supporting people and fighting injustices above your own misunderstandings or cringe feels.

you dont need to like interact with or listen to homophobes more or some shit, but to ignore and isolate yourself from their rhetoric so heavily that you no longer keep in mind the actual consequences of the real world when forming your own ideas, is creating an extremely diluted and selfish echo chamber of beliefs. sorry to be blunt but like. stop thinking you have the power here. the oppressors do. they decide whos gonna go below them, whether you agree or not. start paying attention to that and doing smth about it even when u dont want to. stop obsessing over the perfect rules in your hypothetical perfect world and fucking LISTEN to the ppl still suffering in the real world under the real social issues, even the ones you think are wrong and dont make sense, because hey guess what! they dont. they never do. theyre still happening and you need to listen. stop living in fantasy land where everything that makes you uncomfortable to care about is just banished. you arent being oppressed by tucute asexy mogais, you’re being oppressed by Cishets, and to nobodys surprise! so are they. its just truly deeply not gonna get better for Anyone unless we keep wildly radically pushing for the open acceptance of harmlessly divergent identities like please for the love of God just get this through your head or people are just going to keep using this same judgmental nitpicky mindset to excuse their bigotry towards You

#like listen... even ~non oppressed groups~... im not saying u are oppressing them if you are prejudiced towards them but. #i am saying that is LICHRALLY the same mindset that causes ppl to oppress each other like <:] different consequences. same mindset lmao #its just. inherently flawed like. no matter what lmao unnecessary judgment and bitterness towards harmless things is ugly end of story #the root of all ignorance hate and prejudice is that and im tired of it you're being septic #idc if you dont think smth is ~bad enough~ to care about yet i dont wanna uhhh WAIT FOR IT to be bad enough tm theres an idea #how about we just go down to the root of being an evil vile person and cut it out instead of parroting activist stances for gold stars