#also discovered at christmas that my birthday was her going with her utilitarian gut instinct

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i don’t think my real anniversary gift for my gf will be here on time but i think even if i just gave her bread that i made a lil design on and nothing else she’d love it. it’s hard to have gift giving as one of my top love languages when both giving and receiving gifts are NOT one of hers 💔

#she’s so utilitarian and im at a point in life where i wanna be surrounded by lots of things i love #and i love getting super personal and in depth when it comes to getting or making someone gifts #also discovered at christmas that my birthday was her going with her utilitarian gut instinct #and that she’s actually a wee bit clueless when it comes to gift giving #did have to mentally shift that this is one of our differences when it comes to how we show love