#and then say oh its not reaaally fighting we jsut pick at small insignificant things bcs itps liek fun

[elle-smells]

is it like. a little concerning when couples find joy in *checks notes* "jokingly" getting angry with each other and constantly picking small fights and acting purposefully difficult and well yeah

#liek hey i´ve neevr been in a relationship so maybe this is jsut nrmal but idk #when you tell me : oh we fight all the itme i get angyr liek allthe time #and then say oh its not reaaally fighting we jsut pick at small insignificant things bcs itps liek fun #its jsut how we are haha #...ok??? #i mean you look happy but is that just nromal couple behaviour?? #to want to be angry jsut so the othe rpeorson will coddle you and apologise bcs thats what feels nice? #or OR: oh haha they get angyr and jelous all the time but its all lgihthearted i mean i can´t stand it when theyre difficult like that #but its all fun i lvoe them so much #like hello???