#and yet when it comes to me she would rather believe that im being lazy/asocial/ignoring her/a bitch than like......

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so how do i tell my sister that since the last time she saw me i've become chronically ill and have had to change how i live my day to day life and i am no longer functionally the same sister she has known her entire life and that will impact how i can participate in the weeklong trip we have planned in seven days. any tips.

#shes literally in med school and is a leftist who has gone on impassioned rants abt ableism and medical discrimination to me #and yet when it comes to me she would rather believe that im being lazy/asocial/ignoring her/a bitch than like...... #something is physically wrong with me #at christmas i was acutely ill (bad cold) and that on top said chronic illness just wiped me out #and i ended up sleeping most of christmas day bc i literally couldnt get out of bed #i made it out for christmas dinner #but she made some passive aggressive comment abt me ignoring her text she had sent me #when i literally looked like death and everyone knew i was sick #my mom and her boyfriend had to be like.....uh no she looks like she just woke up #but i still stayed out after dinner to make a gingerbread house w her like she wanted in her text #(and like i wanted! i WANT to spend time with my family! i WANT to hang out with her! i love her! shes so much fun!!) #sigh...we planned this trip over thanksgiving when i wasnt like this #her bf is coming thank god so she can drag him to a million billion places from 5 am to midnight without me holding her back #mel talks