#anyways thanks for coming to my ted talk. replies are off cause i dont want to argue with people i just want to express my opinion

[trans-estinien]

people really love to conveniently forget trans men exist when they talk about feminism. or if they dont they make us out as also part of the problem as if we somehow are able to have the same amount of privilege as cis men. absolutely wild

#“not all men” is a valid statement because its fucking true #like guys. seriously. not every single man is evil #feminism isnt about putting men down its about raising women up to be equal and getting rid of gender inequality #sorry im seeing a massive uptick in people hating on trans men for being men lately and its fucking stupid #like yall are doing a great job at making me feel ashamed to be a man who likes men. awesome thanks guys #i dont normally make posts like this but its been rattling around in my mind for a few days now #its always put out like. all men (trans or not) are Inherently Evil and all women (trans or not) are Inherently Victims #which is absolutely the stupidest shit ive ever seen #and they also leave out anyone who doesnt fit into the man/woman dichotomy. and if they dont its always seen as woman lite #which is also stupid as fuck #not every nb/agender/other person is feminine asshole #anways. case in point. can we stop demonizing masculinity while also discussing the effects of misogyny and the patriarchy please. #because both of those things are very real and very much do hurt people #but im sick of people lashing out at trans men as if the problem magically doesn't affect us anymore because we are men #because guess what! newsflash! it affects trans AND cis men too!! #i shouldnt have to explain it should be obvious but like. im tired man #sorry ill forever be annoyed at women who just hate every single man who dares breathe in their direction because they COULD be an asshole #if you hate someone because of their gender no matter what gender it is i Do Not Trust You #anyways thanks for coming to my ted talk. replies are off cause i dont want to argue with people i just want to express my opinion

[kuhlista]

ohhhmyggoooddd so a guy started talking to me a few weeks ago and we were talking one night and he called me fake and needy and that it was a turn off for him (what?? like i was trying to fucking turn you on? go fuck yourself) and then i told him that i didnt think we clicked and he said that i need to respect him when we see eachother and yea I'm not a god damn idiot of course i'm not gonna make a big deal out of it in public, and so I'm friendly right?? and he assumes that i'm over it (i wasnt) and so he messages me and we get into another argument about how he doesnt even think my feelings are valid so i basically tell him to stop talking to me, then he calls me immature and accuses me of lashing out at him (like are you really that fucking sensitive that me asking you to not talk to me anymore cause we don't click makes you call me immature and accuse me of lashing out??) so anyways it's not worth my time so i dont reply to him and then he unfriends me on snapchat and the end thank you for coming to my ted talk i want to kick him in the shins also he's such a god damn child I'm so stupid i always let ppl like this waste my goddamn time

#k talks #pls if you would like to hear the FULL STORY then i am HAPPY TO SHARE #he's a creep this isnt even half of it